Help me find tops to hide my post-baby belly!

[newyearae]

I really need help. I have had 3 kids in the last 5 years. That (and a sugar addiction lol) make me look 5 months pregnant even though I'm not. I think I have diastasis recti as well. In the colder months this is easier to camouflage with thicker tops and layers, cardigans, jackets, etc. But now that it's getting warmer I am having a terrible time finding tops that don't cling to my stomach or tees that don't show every lump. I'm a SAHM so I dress casually. I also get hot easily. If you have any recommendations (links?) for tops I could check out, it would be greatly appreciated!

[lostarz]

I plan on picking up a few of these for the summer, nice and flowy, shop.nordstrom.com/s/lush-side-slit-tank/4253100?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&fashioncolor=BLACK.

Ruching can help hide things too, shop.nordstrom.com/s/caslon-shirred-v-neck-tee-regular-petite/3132547?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&fashioncolor=PURPLE%20CLOVER

I have two of these and they're nice and loose too, shop.nordstrom.com/s/lush-perfect-roll-tab-sleeve-tunic/4014220?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&fashioncolor=HAWAIIAN%20SUNSET

[beefcheeks]

I got this dolman sleeve top at TJ Maxx and I really like it.  It's LS but it's petty thin, so depending on where you live it could be good for summer (or maybe spring/fall).

Link:
www.zenanaoutfitters.com/catalog/show/2152?expandable_picture_id=24400Dolman sleeve top from Zenana Outfitters

I think the pic on the website doesn't look that great, but I have one of me wearing that I will try to find.

The other item I would recommend are these basic t-shirts from J Crew.  They are the perfect fit (for me anyway) - they aren't too tight, so they don't show my pooch, but they aren't loose and flowy.  You might give them a try as a good summer basic.
J Crew Vintage Scoop Neck Tee

[beefcheeks]

This is not a great example either, but usually I kind of gather it around my belly yo hide my pooch and the button part of my jeans (which clearly I didn't do in this pic!).

[callmehales]

i carry all my extra weight in my midsection too (not just counting right now at 8 months PG, lol)....i have this shirt in about a dozen colors.  i love that it's slouchy without looking slopping, i can accessorize easily and they're nice and cool for the summer.  i usually wear a nude tank underneath to smooth everything out a little, and help with any sheerness.

www.jcpenney.com/ana-relaxed-fit-boyfriend-t-shirt/prod.jump?ppId=pp5006292056&catId=cat1001700012&deptId=dept20000013&&_dyncharset=UTF-8

[hocus2]

Overly flowy tops can backfire at least for me.

I find that tops that have a band at the bottom are usually good for distracting from you tummy because they're meant to be semi-flowy but not in an overwhelming way. I would also looks for styles that are constructed/tailored that a plain T. I've never found any plain T that works for belly issues. They just aren't designed for that.

banded examples

www.kohls.com/product/prd-2361047/womens-croft-barrow-pleated-lace-shoulder-tee.jsp?color=Cascade+http://www.kohls.com/product/prd-2220866/womens-chaps-banded-bottom-peasant-top.jsp?color=Multi_Paisley
www.kohls.com/product/prd-2437471/womens-jennifer-lopez-crossover-tank.jsp?color=Vipada_Rose

[mrsguz]

Thankfully, flowy tops are in, so that helps. Also, I really like the target boyfriend tees, and size up so they're a little slouchy and loose.

ETA: rise of jeans make a difference too. I like midrise or high rise to "suck" in my tummy. Lower rise just gives me muffin top, even if they fit me.

[bina]

Like callmehales I love those tees, the fit really well for a slouchy look, and they're long enough that they sit right on me.
I also go for a mid rise jean or short and that makes a world of difference.

[newyearae]

You ladies are geniuses! Thank you!! I will be looking at all of these options!

[krisim]

I am newly pregnant (my 3rd and 4th!) so I can relate as I'm trying to hide my bump from my office.  I prefer tops that have layers that are kind of flowy.  I usually pair with a light sweater or blazer for work. 


www1.macys.com/shop/product/miraclesuit-tiered-layered-top?ID=2718487&CategoryID=255&selectedSize=#fn=TOP_STYLE%3DTunic%26sp%3D1%26spc%3D292%26ruleId%3D65|BS|BA%26slotId%3D26 

www1.macys.com/shop/product/alfani-mesh-lace-top-only-at-macys?ID=2710329&CategoryID=255#fn=TOP_STYLE%3DTunic%26sp%3D1%26spc%3D292%26ruleId%3D65|BS|BA%26slotId%3D41 


www1.macys.com/shop/product/miraclesuit-perforated-three-quarter-sleeve-top?ID=2763742&CategoryID=255&LinkType=&selectedSize=#fn=TOP_STYLE%3DTunic%26sp%3D2%26spc%3D293%26ruleId%3D65|BS|BA%26slotId%3D139

[lostarz]

Also, idk if you have a Nordstrom Rack near you, but I love these t-shirts. They're pretty thin but they're soft, and I size up in them so they're more slouchy. They always have a bunch of them in store, www.nordstromrack.com/shop/product/915250/abound-v-neck-short-sleeve-tee-juniors

[mrsguz]

krisim congrats on the twins! I have twins too. Don't ask me for advice because I'm in the throes of the terrible twos right now, so my POV is a bit skewed. Ha!

[grace]

Oh man, I'm really going to need these soon! Great suggestions.

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www.modcloth.com/shop/basic-tops/simplicity-on-a-saturday-tunic-in-black-stripes

[krisim]

Apr 15, 2016 13:52:01 GMT -5 mrsguz said:

krisim congrats on the twins! I have twins too. Don't ask me for advice because I'm in the throes of the terrible twos right now, so my POV is a bit skewed. Ha!

I am already terrified!  While my older ones were challenging as infants, I don't even know how I'm going to handle two at a time! 

[mrsguz]

Apr 18, 2016 12:17:40 GMT -5 krisim said:

Apr 15, 2016 13:52:01 GMT -5 mrsguz said:

krisim congrats on the twins! I have twins too. Don't ask me for advice because I'm in the throes of the terrible twos right now, so my POV is a bit skewed. Ha!

I am already terrified!  While my older ones were challenging as infants, I don't even know how I'm going to handle two at a time! 

You'll be fine. They have their wonderful moments that make it worth it. Congrats again!!

[pizzapizza]

I have had good luck with some Vince Camuto tops. Comes in regular, plus, petite in lots of styles. They are a nicer polyester so baby/kid friendly.

I like this style for a post partum shape. I bought this one but it is not great for breastfeeding.



Here is a link to all his tops at Macy's.  I only buy them on sale.

link

[beefcheeks]

Apr 15, 2016 20:13:52 GMT -5 MittenState said:

www.modcloth.com/shop/basic-tops/simplicity-on-a-saturday-tunic-in-black-stripes

That's really cute!

[winterbride1220]

i have a new mom bod, too . i recently got some super cute ,flowy tops at Lucky. 30% off but i had to try on prob 10 to find 4 i loved.

[lilles]

www.garnethill.com/pima-a-line-cap-sleeve-tee/womens-fashion/tops-tees/409823?&defattribvalue=main