I feel selfish and terrible

[tacocat]

But I am secretly mad at DH for switching his shift today so he could "go hang out with the boys". I know since he got his new schedule he doesn't get a lot of times with his friends, but we also don't get to see each other a lot either. I would never tell him I'm a little annoyed he would switch for them but can't ever switch for me, but I'm sure he knows I am.


Am I a horrible, selfish bee-atch? I really wanted to watch the huskies with him!

[tacocat]

And I would have been as upset but we barely talked since Tuesday night, and he came home last night and went right to bed, left at 5am this morning. We are doing chores all day tomorrow and he works Monday and is missing another family dinner. I know it's not his fault, I just miss having a husband.


I know I am being lame...

[Deleted]

Nope, not lame. You should just casually mention that you want to hang out with him, in a non-accusatory way.

[larzhope]

agree, I would be upset too and you should just calmly say something

[FrozenSunshine]

Not selfish! I like UW's idea of casually mentioning you'd like some time together.

[karebear219]

Sept 2, 2012 9:19:43 GMT -5 FrozenSunshine said:

Not selfish! I like UW's idea of casually mentioning you'd like some time together.

this

[tacocat]

I'm still annoyed, but we just met my parents at Ikea (they are helping us transport some furniture) so we haven't talked at all yet. I am making him take me on a date tonight!

[sarack]

i'd totally be irritated but let him know nicely.. he probably 'sees' you more than the boys but doesn't realize you need more time than that.. good luck!

[jennlin]

Sept 2, 2012 22:25:42 GMT -5 sarack said:

i'd totally be irritated but let him know nicely.. he probably 'sees' you more than the boys but doesn't realize you need more time than that.. good luck!

this. you are all so nice to do so calmly. i would've blown up at my h ;D

[tacocat]

We had a good talk at dinner. The fact that our date night failed 3 times (places closed and what not) made the night kinda funny and helped me ease into conversation. We ended with on the note that no one was wrong and we will try to get out together more.

I feel better just telling him I was annoyed. I tend to bottle things up.

Thanks for making me feel not alone ladies, as always you rock!