If/when if comes up, I would just say that you are interested in looking at other options. You asked her DH about it, he wasn't willing or able to work with you on those options, so you are looking at what is out there.
Business is business. Maybe you will find that the plan bff's H put together is your best option, but he shouldn't be offended if you look elsewhere after refusing to make changes to his plan. This is your yard.
I also agree that getting high quality work doesn't mean it has to be the most expensive stuff...I would want to work with someone who is more willing to think outside the box to achieve the look I want vs. someone who just goes with the high end products. I am annoyed why people think the expensive shit is the end all be all. Travertine is lovely, but there are other materials that could be equally lovely, interesting, and unique.
I don't think there's a problem with saying they were out of your budget? It sounds like they were not willing to go any lower. Frankly, I think it will be a better idea going with another company. The construction process rarely goes as planned and it's easier to have awkward conversations with people you will never see again.
"I truly appreciate what you've done for me. It's helped me realize what I want but unfortunately the high end companies you work with do not fit in my budget right now and I'm exploring other options. I don't want this to affect our friendship or be awkward because you rock." And then take them out to dinner and drinks.
Post by Mrs. ChanandlerBong on May 4, 2016 19:05:13 GMT -5
Just be honest. "I'm getting other quotes. I love what your dh has planned but it doesn't fit my budget or timeline. I appreciate him being willing to work on it in stages but that isn't how I want to have this project completed."