Can I have a moment to vent?

[Dory1988]

I'm so freaking tired of my SIL. She's noisy, disrespectful, irresponsible, and her 28 year old boyfriend has been is literally living at the house rent free when he's not at work (he works on an oil rig or something). I pay to freaking live here, I buy my own food, etc. I'm just super annoyed that they are both living here for free and I'm not. I'm so ready to get out of here but DH thinks I should find a job before I move back out there for the sole reason of not wanting me to lose the experience I have gained. I NEED to find a respiratory therapist job in CA ASAP after we find out the results of DH's officer board.

FTR, this all stems from the fact that my SIL and MIL decided to heat up my leftover Chinese food that I PAID FOR so that SIL's bf could eat it without asking. I went up to eat some of it myself and they were all "oh we heated it up for T hope you don't mind." Actually, I do freaking mind because I wanted to eat it!

Thanks for letting me vent...feel free to join if you've got something.

[Dory1988]

If he gets O yes. If he doesn't then not for 2 years

[brandienee]

Why are they living with you? That would make me stabby.

[JakJak]

That sucks, she sounds a lot like my sil

[Dory1988]

Sept 3, 2012 21:11:33 GMT -5 brandienee said:

Why are they living with you? That would make me stabby.

I moved in to the apt at my in-law's during the deployment since we knew I could find a job here and, since I'm in medicine, being out of practice is a pretty big deal so I was getting desperate. It's been gradually making me insane and I think that's why I pick up so many extra hours at work...I'd rather be there than at home.

[NomadicMama]

I would be pissed off, too! Can you start mislabeling your leftovers so they keep they grimy paws off of your tasty food??? It sucks to be ready to enjoy something yummy only to find it gone.

[basilosaurus]

The food would be the thing that pissed me off most.

You're staying at your IL's and so is your SIL? Then why are you the only one charged rent? That seems like an issue with the ILs.