I was relieved it wasn't a shock to you, but then I thought about what he must be like for it to not be a shock and I am sad
And not that it needs to be said, but when the other person cheats with ONE person, blaming their partner is a shitty thing to do. Multiple women and paying for sex? No. No way that's even a little bit to do with you. That is definitely all on him.
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Post by unclejesse on May 26, 2016 23:29:13 GMT -5
I'm so sorry that this is happening for you. I went through something extremely similar with a BF years ago, and it was a mix of gut punch for seeing the actuality of it, yet validation because you know that he isn't being honest with you. You seem like you are in a good place with having a plan, which is awesome. Trust me when I say that the freedom from it all is exhilarating. Worrying about where he was, who he was texting, what he was thinking, was suffocating me. After all is said and done, you will be so happy and he will still be a sociopathic gaslighter.
Ugh, I'm sorry. Even if you had suspicions it's always a gut punch when you see the proof. Glad everything's already packed and you are ready to break free.
Post by thatgirl2478 on May 26, 2016 23:41:40 GMT -5
I'm so sorry
in the event that you MAY have had sex, please please get yourself tested. I didn't have time to read all 4 pages, so I'm sure someone suggested that already.