Post by textbookcase on May 26, 2016 21:32:36 GMT -5
And, like, not just a little bit of stuff. He left his phone here while he was at anger management (dear god what is my life) and I looked at it. He is super shady about his phone, he's on it all the time and I didn't have any kind of access or know his password or anything. Anyway, he left it and I was curious and I guessed his password and got it right. Guys, like...I don't even know what to say. Text messages (sexts) to at least 4 different women I know he knows in person on the regular. Texts to random people from craigslist in the hundreds. He had kik installed on his phone with hundreds more messages in there. Texts about meeting up with hookers "I have $60 and I'll be there in 15 minutes". He is usually gone on weekend nights with his "friends" but I guess he's been doing lord knows what with who the fuck knows. I confronted him and of course he admitted to the messages but claims "nothing physical ever happened" yeah right, I'm sure. He then had the audacity to turn it around on me because we don't have a sexual relationship because I DON'T KNOW, HE'S BEEN AN ABUSIVE DOUCHE FOR 10 YEARS.
So yeah that's my life. And yes of course this is the final straw.
Oh D. I'm so so sorry He is SUCH an asshole. You are amazing, are raising some of the coolest kids around, bust your ass keeping your house running, etc. He is blind if he doesn't see that.
Post by textbookcase on May 26, 2016 21:38:38 GMT -5
Thanks, everyone. I am kind of numb even though it's not super shocking to me, coming from him. It was just so much more far-reaching than I could have imagined. Also thank GOD we don't have a sexual relationship and I was tested a few months ago. Gross.