When Did you Have Sex With Your SO?

[5kg8rgirl]

So, I am mostly a lurker. I have come out of hiding and just started posting on the SO board. I got divorced fairly recently and have had 1 rebound. I am now seeing someone and have been for about 3 weeks, but realized I have no idea how long people actually wait to have sex in their 30s. I know this answer varies from person to person and relationship to relationship. Just wondering when in your relationship with your current SO that you had sex. 1st date? 3 months? I feel like I am in high school again and am so out of touch with real world....

[janegold]

2nd date.

[EmilieMadison]

Before our first date. I'm a Hooah.
Have sex whenever you feel ready to have sex. There's no magic amount of time.

[vajeana]

I was divorced in September (separated since March) and didn't have sex until January. So, 10 months from when i was separated, and 4 months post-divorce.

[Deleted]

before he became my SO.

[bonquiqui]

I was a whore. I gave it away on date numero uno

[Deleted]

I'm easy like Sunday morning.

[lurkergirl123]

3rd date. It would have been first date, but I was on my period.

[VeryViolet]

Sept 4, 2012 12:04:01 GMT -5 bonquiqui said:

I was a whore. I gave it away on date numero uno

This was me too. Except we were in college so replace date with keg party. I wanted a classy story to tell the grandkids one day.

[kellbell191]

I was 19. One month, which was like 30 dates.

[chedominique]

I'm going to be different and say wedding night.

[underwaterrhymes]

Prior to H, I generally slept with people on the first (or second) date.

With H, I told myself I was going to try to wait until at least the 5th date. He got head on the 3rd date, and only a week and a half passed in between our 1st date and our 5th date when we did have sex for the first time.

[annyong]

Sept 4, 2012 12:07:51 GMT -5 kellbell191 said:

I was 19. One month, which was like 30 dates.

You went on a date every day? Wow!

[cbwm1]

I think it was like, our 3rd or 4th date?

[Deleted]

4th or 5th date.

[gozf]

Before we were an official couple.

Dude. Just do what feels right for you.

[onesweetworld]

1.5 months? Maybe date 7/8...

Can't remember now it was 10 years ago.

[bonquiqui]

Sept 4, 2012 12:06:07 GMT -5 VeryViolet said:

Sept 4, 2012 12:04:01 GMT -5 bonquiqui said:

I was a whore. I gave it away on date numero uno

This was me too. Except we were in college so replace date with keg party. I wanted a classy story to tell the grandkids one day.

I was 18 lol it was a party too. Who am i kidding lol

[laptopvixen]

Before our "first date" as well. We went home together after the pub on Friday and spent the weekend together.

[sawyerthedestroyer]

We didn't even kiss until the third date because H wasn't even sure if I liked him (um, hellooo! I asked him on our second date!).

I think it was about a month and a half before we had sex, but we also started dating around the holidays so there were about two weeks where we didn't see each other because we were traveling.

[Deleted]

Sept 4, 2012 12:03:59 GMT -5 tacom said:

before he became my SO.

Me too.

[Deleted]

Third week of dating.

[Muddled]

Long before he was my SO.

[motzie]

We joke that it was our third date, but really we were just friends that got drunk and banged. We'd hung out twice earlier in the week so we count those as dates now, even though we didn't at the time.

[annyong]

Sept 4, 2012 12:16:38 GMT -5 laptopvixen said:

Before our "first date" as well. We went home together after the pub on Friday and spent the weekend together.

This was us, too. On Easter weekend. Oops!

[sake]

When H and I first started dating we were both coming out of long relationships that ended badly, but we were still in college. We waited about 6 weeks before we had sex, but we were doing other things other than sex in the Mean time

[dizzydee]

About 2 mths before we started dating.

[Dusky]

About a month or so after we started dating.

[partiallysunny]

2 Months.


Just do what feels right.

[Deleted]

The first date.