So, I am mostly a lurker. I have come out of hiding and just started posting on the SO board. I got divorced fairly recently and have had 1 rebound. I am now seeing someone and have been for about 3 weeks, but realized I have no idea how long people actually wait to have sex in their 30s. I know this answer varies from person to person and relationship to relationship. Just wondering when in your relationship with your current SO that you had sex. 1st date? 3 months? I feel like I am in high school again and am so out of touch with real world....
I was divorced in September (separated since March) and didn't have sex until January. So, 10 months from when i was separated, and 4 months post-divorce.
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Post by underwaterrhymes on Sept 4, 2012 12:08:45 GMT -5
Prior to H, I generally slept with people on the first (or second) date.
With H, I told myself I was going to try to wait until at least the 5th date. He got head on the 3rd date, and only a week and a half passed in between our 1st date and our 5th date when we did have sex for the first time.
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Post by sawyerthedestroyer on Sept 4, 2012 12:16:42 GMT -5
We didn't even kiss until the third date because H wasn't even sure if I liked him (um, hellooo! I asked him on our second date!).
I think it was about a month and a half before we had sex, but we also started dating around the holidays so there were about two weeks where we didn't see each other because we were traveling.
We joke that it was our third date, but really we were just friends that got drunk and banged. We'd hung out twice earlier in the week so we count those as dates now, even though we didn't at the time.
When H and I first started dating we were both coming out of long relationships that ended badly, but we were still in college. We waited about 6 weeks before we had sex, but we were doing other things other than sex in the Mean time