You are the one who has done some STL area wine tours, yes? We have been kicking around St. Louis for my bachelorette party, and I wanted to look into wineries in the area. If I am not totally off my rocker here, and you are familiar with this, do you have any suggestions?
And I am so happy to read your post below. You have made such a great life for yourself and your girls, and you really do stand as a testament to the good that can happen if you are willing to put yourself through the hard stuff. YAY YOU!