Monday ::eye roll:: Randoms

[abcdefu]

how the hell is it Monday already?! Ugh! 

I had a great weekend! I spent some time with my mom and SIL. I finally opened up to SIL and told her how I feel about being mistreated for something beyond my control. She is going to talk to my sister, even though I don't think it will even go in one ear to be able to come out the other. 

Now that I feel better about that, I need to find a way to deal with work stress! I wish there as a way to "uncare" about things! 

While it's Monday, it's the start of a new week! Maybe my positivity will last until Wednesday! HA! 

[TR]

Fucking Monday, man. I am so tired. Because of Game of Thrones, I didn't get to sleep until almost 11pm. Then I was up from 3am - 5am for some fucking reason. Too many thoughts in my head, I guess.

[Eureka1984]

It's just another manic Monday... Tropical storm Colin is supposed to make landfall this evening and of course we didn't cancel school so I'm boxing up my classroom and put the kids next door with 4 paras. At least school ends Wednesday!!

[bl]

Eureka1984 I am shocked you guys are still in school!

We have 10th row floor tickets to see Black Sabbath in Dallas in September, and bf wants to sell them. They are in his top 3 favorite bands and he has seen them 5 times, but this is their final tour. It is the financially responsible thing to do since we have moving expenses and will be paying two rents through Sept, and with the concert being in Dallas we would now need flights, hotel, and rental car, but damnit I think he will regret this and I hate it.

[Deleted]

I've been really sticking to working out with NROLFW. I'm loving it!!!! I think maybe with lifting I've found "my" exercise! When it's my rest day I'm actually bummed out versus relieved. This has NEVER happened! I'm feeling super motivated to eat well and haven't felt this great in a long time! Now if only the weight would budge! I'm going on a cruise in November and my last few vacations have been ruined by me feeling uncomfortable with my weight so I'm hoping come November I will feel amazing!

[bg]

Bummed it's Monday; I had a really good weekend. Ran a fun 5k with friends on Saturday and then new guy (K) and I went on an impromptu mini road trip. I'm enjoying getting to know him and trying to stay in the moment and not overthink things. I start data collection on a new project today too, which I'm excited about.

[pinkdutchtulips]

Had a great weekend - chaired movie night at DD's school, went to a bday party on Saturday then ran a 5k on Sunday !

A friend of mine who means well sent me this article about getting more Tinder matches ... ok reading through and when it gets to height I wanted to lop off about oh 5-6" of my existing height since guys find 6'0" less attractive and more intimidating BUT they want us as fuckgirls instead grrrrr !!! Basically I'm told my height IS a negative .... It's not just guys via online dating who feel this way, it's been guys in general since I was 16 >

[Linie]

The BF got back from holiday on Saturday, so we spent a nice evening and a quiet Sunday together.

I bought flat shoes on Saturday (I'm always in heels) and they are so so painful! I only have this issue with flats, never with heels. My day is almost finished, but I can't go home yet and walk barefoot because I'm going to the Italian cinema with a friend in 30 minutes...

[Deleted]

I got a text message for a presidential candidate about our vote tomorrow. How? How did they get my number and why is this legal? I assume it's the same as telemarketers back in the day. My number is a prepaid cell.

[alleinesein]

Jun 6, 2016 12:17:51 GMT -5 @lemonlover said:

I got a text message for a presidential candidate about our vote tomorrow. How? How did they get my number and why is this legal? I assume it's the same as telemarketers back in the day. My number is a prepaid cell.

Well I know the bernie sheeple are sending out texts and the Hillary people are actually calling.  If you have made any donation to a campaign and have filled out info you probably put down a phone number.  They are using those plus voter registration info to contact people.

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Jun 6, 2016 12:34:04 GMT -5 alleinesein said:

Jun 6, 2016 12:17:51 GMT -5 @lemonlover said:

I got a text message for a presidential candidate about our vote tomorrow. How? How did they get my number and why is this legal? I assume it's the same as telemarketers back in the day. My number is a prepaid cell.

Well I know the bernie sheeple are sending out texts and the Hillary people are actually calling.  If you have made any donation to a campaign and have filled out info you probably put down a phone number.  They are using those plus voter registration info to contact people.

Well, I only registered to vote (no contributions) and I actually use an old number that is currently on hold for anything I believe that will result in junky stuff. That's why this is baffling. 

[glitzyglow]

I laid out for a while this morning, now I'm waiting to get my hair cut and colored. I really need to go to the laundromat later and wash my comforter, but ew...sitting there for a few hours sounds unappealing.

I'm going to cook tonight so I have lunch for the week.

[jigsy]

I'd rather get a text than a call. It's easier to ignore, lol.

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Jun 6, 2016 13:13:20 GMT -5 jigsy said:

I'd rather get a text than a call. It's easier to ignore, lol.

I spoke too soon. I got a call like two minutes ago for Bernie. So I guess both camps are calling.

[sweetchix]

I posted that I'm interested in 2 razor scooters on a FB garage sale site. He said he'll hold them for me until I can come see them/pick them up Wednesday night. Is it just me or does anyone else get nervous about going to a stranger's house for something like this? It makes me think of craigslist murders. I guess this is also why I'm also nervous about online dating. I can't shake it.

[Deleted]

Jun 6, 2016 15:24:59 GMT -5 sweetchix said:

I posted that I'm interested in 2 razor scooters on a FB garage sale site. He said he'll hold them for me until I can come see them/pick them up Wednesday night. Is it just me or does anyone else get nervous about going to a stranger's house for something like this? It makes me think of craigslist murders. I guess this is also why I'm also nervous about online dating. I can't shake it.

I usually tell someone where I'm going and the address with instructions to call 911 if they don't hear from me in 15 mins. And then I tell them when I reach the person's house so they can start watching the clock. I will only stand outside the houses. I'm a wee bit paranoid like you! 

[sweetchix]

Jun 6, 2016 15:37:51 GMT -5 @lemonlover said:

Jun 6, 2016 15:24:59 GMT -5 sweetchix said:

I posted that I'm interested in 2 razor scooters on a FB garage sale site. He said he'll hold them for me until I can come see them/pick them up Wednesday night. Is it just me or does anyone else get nervous about going to a stranger's house for something like this? It makes me think of craigslist murders. I guess this is also why I'm also nervous about online dating. I can't shake it.

I usually tell someone where I'm going and the address with instructions to call 911 if they don't hear from me in 15 mins. And then I tell them when I reach the person's house so they can start watching the clock. I will only stand outside the houses. I'm a wee bit paranoid like you! 

Glad I'm not alone. I do plan on telling someone the address. It'll actually be DD2's tutor, my cousin, as she'll be tutoring her while I go check them out. I do NOT plan on entering anyone's house, that's for sure!!

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sweetchix, I would ask if they can meet you at a public place. That's pretty standard with CL purchases. The idea freaks me out too. Also I'm surprised the seller is cool with someone coming to their house. Seems unsafe for both parties.

[moolarkey]

I've only bought off CL once but we met in the Kroger parking lot across the street from where I work, it was broad daylight and I think we both felt more comfortable.

I take it back, we bought a solid cherry book case but I sent H to do that, I was at work and he drives a truck so that worked for me.

[Deleted]

If you think a guy may be married but his house only has himself on the deed BUT you can't find divorce records... is he married or divorced....

[Deleted]

Jun 6, 2016 20:00:03 GMT -5 @lemonlover said:

If you think a guy may be married but his house only has himself on the deed BUT you can't find divorce records... is he married or divorced....

If you think he's married he is.

[Deleted]

Today was actually ok at work even though I was sort of dreading this week..
However, I had a huge anxiety attack because I got a notice that my rent was not paid.  I pay online and changed my bank info so that the rent would come out of my new account.  Well, I scheduled it for June 1st, but apparently I didn't submit it.  I had to pay a late fee and go to the bank for a cashiers check because they would not accept an online payment.  This was a huge inconvenience.  I realize that regardless of the situation being a mistake, I was late, BUT it's not like my payment was declined...I fucked up and didn't schedule it--why the fuck I had to get a cashiers check is beyond me.  They made me feel like a friggin delinquent and I felt totally judged by the girl in the office when I gave her the check and explained the scenario and said I was embarrassed for the mistake.  She looked at me and was like, "Well, I'm sure you won't let it happen again"
Am I overly sensitive? 

[Deleted]

@blueyes623 I know it sucks but having been around property management we've heard all the excuses so while rude she's probably like "yah, yah." Once you establish a good record of paying on time all will be well!

[Deleted]

Jun 6, 2016 20:40:17 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

@blueyes623 I know it sucks but having been around property management we've heard all the excuses so while rude she's probably like "yah, yah." Once you establish a good record of paying on time all will be well!

I'm sure, but it really pissed me off.  This apartment complex was really in depth with their background and financial checks before we moved in.   

[sweetchix]

Just a little something about Mondays (repeat for FB friends).

[Deleted]

Jun 6, 2016 20:10:50 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Jun 6, 2016 20:00:03 GMT -5 @lemonlover said:

If you think a guy may be married but his house only has himself on the deed BUT you can't find divorce records... is he married or divorced....

If you think he's married he is.

My sister and I were having a debate/conversation about gut feelings vs tangible evidence. I am not dating anyone currently but per past experience I wanted to know. Even if he wasn't married, there was something off. We googled and found the above evidence and then debated. Divorce records aren't always online. I believe it's county dependent so my sister says she relies on tax records.