Tuesday randoms

[sweetchix]

I called in sick to work. I've been up since 6 and I've been in the bathroom 3 times. Stomach ache hit me yesterday around 4 and has been toying with me ever since. But there is no way I'm going in today if I'm going to be running to the bathroom every 20 minutes. It sucks because we're extremely busy. But not sure how productive I'd be from the bathroom, lol.

So, I'm getting DDs on the bus and back to bed I go. Hopefully my stomach will lay off for a bit so I can go back to sleep.

What's everyone else up to today?

[bl]

sweetchix hope you feel better!

I overslept today because I needed to get up earlier than normal and didn't set my alarm right. I ended up only having 25 minutes from waking up to getting out the door, so my hair is up and I got no coffee this morning. It's a rough start to the day, but I am hopeful it will go up from here!

[bg]

Today is voting day here. But Hillary has already been announced the winner. I'm still going to vote though.

Otherwise I have errands and a little bit of work to do. Meeting my friend tonight for our usual weekly gtg.

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Jun 7, 2016 8:38:42 GMT -5 mommadukes said:

so the guy I was seeing for a while and I have ended things. seriously the next day, he was on match.com
i guess I was never important..

How do you know that he was on Match...? Because you went on Match too?

The fact that he moved on to dating immediately isn't a reflection on you or your relationship. It's a reflection of himself and on the fact that he has fucked up emotional issues and doesn't know how to properly fill a void now recreated by the ending of your relationship.

Just repeat this to yourself: His actions do not matter to you anymore. They do not affect your life. 

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Jun 7, 2016 10:24:53 GMT -5 mommadukes said:

Jun 7, 2016 10:21:08 GMT -5 @lemonlover said:

How do you know that he was on Match...? Because you went on Match too?

The fact that he moved on to dating immediately isn't a reflection on you or your relationship. It's a reflection of himself and on the fact that he has fucked up emotional issues and doesn't know how to properly fill a void now recreated by the ending of your relationship.

Just repeat this to yourself: His actions do not matter to you anymore. They do not affect your life. 

no I am not on there, but my friend is. She was over the next day for dinner and I asked her to look and low and behold, he was there. searched by town and he pooped up first as new to match.
thanks and you are right.

LOL. Sorry. Pooped. 

So, I feel like I constantly struggle as a single person. BUT then I need to remind myself that I have gas in my car, enough money for rent/food/utilities/car. I am not homeless. I am not jobless. I am not in debt. I am not living in poverty. I am not being abused. I live safely and well fed. I sleep in a bed. I wear nice clothes. I drive a dependable car. 

My struggle is 100% mental. 

[glynn]

Finally ended it with my friend... I feel good about it...

[doglove]

Jun 7, 2016 8:38:42 GMT -5 mommadukes said:

so the guy I was seeing for a while and I have ended things. seriously the next day, he was on match.com
i guess I was never important..

I think this is a clear indicator that he just wants someone and it doesn't matter who to fill the void. Hugs. You deserve more than that. 

[glitzyglow]

Hope you get to feeling better sweetchix!

I cut the tip of my pointer finger on a can last night while making dinner. It started bleeding in the middle of the night so now I have it wrapped up, but the wrapping is making it difficult to type/scroll today.

I'm making a to-do list for this week and I really want to accomplish it...stuff that will make me feel good to do, but gets pushed aside like taking books I don't want to a bookstore to sell/donate, go through my clothes to donate, etc. I also plan to buy a Christmas gift after work one day this week. My goal is to have my Christmas shopping completely done by September 1.

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Jun 7, 2016 10:59:04 GMT -5 glitzyglow said:

Hope you get to feeling better sweetchix !

I cut the tip of my pointer finger on a can last night while making dinner. It started bleeding in the middle of the night so now I have it wrapped up, but the wrapping is making it difficult to type/scroll today.

I'm making a to-do list for this week and I really want to accomplish it...stuff that will make me feel good to do, but gets pushed aside like taking books I don't want to a bookstore to sell/donate, go through my clothes to donate, etc. I also plan to buy a Christmas gift after work one day this week. My goal is to have my Christmas shopping completely done by September 1.

1. last week I cut part of my thumb nail off and the tip of my middle finger. I just super glued it all because I hate bandages on my fingers. 

2. You crazy on Christmas. Although I'm starting to plan out my gifts of homemade soap, candles, knitted scarves, and homemade vanilla extract. This year I want to make all my gifts. 

[stephreloaded]

Jun 7, 2016 10:36:36 GMT -5 glynn said:

Finally ended it with my friend... I feel good about it...

You ended the "friendship" altogether or you just stopped sleeping with him? You deserve better friends, no, you actually deserve REAL friends. 

[stephreloaded]

Yesterday was a holiday here and I was hoping that I would be able to rest. I moved and since I have to do everything on my own, it is taking FOREVER. I do love my new place though.

I am soooo hungry. I felt hungry even an hour after I had breakfast. Why is this happening to me?

[glitzyglow]

Jun 7, 2016 11:10:15 GMT -5 @lemonlover said:

Jun 7, 2016 10:59:04 GMT -5 glitzyglow said:

Hope you get to feeling better sweetchix !

I cut the tip of my pointer finger on a can last night while making dinner. It started bleeding in the middle of the night so now I have it wrapped up, but the wrapping is making it difficult to type/scroll today.

I'm making a to-do list for this week and I really want to accomplish it...stuff that will make me feel good to do, but gets pushed aside like taking books I don't want to a bookstore to sell/donate, go through my clothes to donate, etc. I also plan to buy a Christmas gift after work one day this week. My goal is to have my Christmas shopping completely done by September 1.

1. last week I cut part of my thumb nail off and the tip of my middle finger. I just super glued it all because I hate bandages on my fingers. 

2. You crazy on Christmas. Although I'm starting to plan out my gifts of homemade soap, candles, knitted scarves, and homemade vanilla extract. This year I want to make all my gifts. 

I am crazy, ha! But I see such good deals and figure that I might as well snap them up and save them for the holidays.

[Deleted]

I've got a candidate in the California primary today so it's SUPER exciting. Nerve wracking day! I'm also not in Cali so I'm bummed out I don't get to go to the election watch party. It will just be me and my dog and some tea refreshing the results on the laptop. Ha! Next week though I get to fly to DC and meet the Veep and possibly a ton of celebrities at a VIP reception I'm helping with. I'm totally GEEKIKNG out. Now it's like what do I wear??? Gah!

[glynn]

Jun 7, 2016 11:27:09 GMT -5 stephreloaded said:

Jun 7, 2016 10:36:36 GMT -5 glynn said:

Finally ended it with my friend... I feel good about it...

You ended the "friendship" altogether or you just stopped sleeping with him? You deserve better friends, no, you actually deserve REAL friends. 

Stopped seeing him with the idea of a relationship. I was not sleeping with him. The friendship will probably come back around in time. I do not make freinds easily so I do not have many. He was a friend in many ways but I was not willing to be FWB and decided I wanted better and/or more.

[glynn]

Jun 7, 2016 11:38:38 GMT -5 glitzyglow said:

Jun 7, 2016 11:10:15 GMT -5 @lemonlover said:

1. last week I cut part of my thumb nail off and the tip of my middle finger. I just super glued it all because I hate bandages on my fingers. 

2. You crazy on Christmas. Although I'm starting to plan out my gifts of homemade soap, candles, knitted scarves, and homemade vanilla extract. This year I want to make all my gifts. 

I am crazy, ha! But I see such good deals and figure that I might as well snap them up and save them for the holidays.

I almost always have my shopping done by Halloween. I say home on Halloween and wrap while giving out candy. I bought some gifts yesterday 75% off.

[doglove]

Jun 7, 2016 12:58:52 GMT -5 glynn said:

Jun 7, 2016 11:27:09 GMT -5 stephreloaded said:

You ended the "friendship" altogether or you just stopped sleeping with him? You deserve better friends, no, you actually deserve REAL friends. 

Stopped seeing him with the idea of a relationship. I was not sleeping with him. The friendship will probably come back around in time. I do not make freinds easily so I do not have many. He was a friend in many ways but I was not willing to be FWB and decided I wanted better and/or more.

How can you even consider this person a friend? You deserve better. When you start seeing that and creating that boundary is when you will attract healthy people in your life. I feel like it should also be said that we shouldn't just accept crappy treatment because it's there. You can make the effort to put yourself out there and make healthier connections. It's uncomfortable and not easy, but you absolutely deserve to be treated better. Hanging onto dead weight because you are lonely is going to keep you down. 

[Chuppathingy]

I need to shamelessly brag about this for a sec. I have a new fuck buddy. This is a consistent thing. And it's perfect. Also, "it's perfect."

He's hot, fantastic in bed, not a scrub in any sense, we can chill, and no strings attached, but with consistent ability to get some. This is exactly what I've been needing. And I'm obviously really fucking happy.

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[glitzyglow]

Ugh, I am supposed to meet a guy for a drink tomorrow and I asked what time, telling him I was free anytime after 6:30pm. He said, "Well, I normally work out at 5:30pm, but I can rearrange that." Um, huh? That's irrelevant info...unless you just wanted to remind me that you work out. And he keeps sending me snaps, which is also annoying me.

Perhaps I need a nap. I'm grumpy today.