Post by liverandonions on Jun 23, 2016 17:38:01 GMT -5
Use the shield. I have large flat nipples and had to use the shield with both babies. Julia only needed it for 3 weeks and Robbie was longer but wasn't consistently using it. Breastfeeding is hard, but you're both learning so if it's what you want give it some time-It does get better. If it's feeling too hard or overwhelming, formula is absolutely fine.
Am I remembering correctly that you're in MD*? If so, I'd highly recommend this LC - www.fullcirclelactation.com/whatis.php. She'll come to your house and spend as much time as is needed to help you feel like you have a handle on things and give you an action/game plan. She's amazing and I really credit her with getting me through the early parts of BFing, which are so so so hard.
If you're outside of her area, the Breastfeeding Center for Greater Washington may be able to help you find someone else who can do this - breastfeedingcenter.org/consultations/.
* Sorry if this is creepy, I've just noticed (I think) that you're a fellow Ravens fan.
I'm still using the nipple shield - it works for us. DS has a shallow latch (that he won't let me correct), and I have flat nipples. It's a perfect storm. I did pump after feeds in the beginning, just to help establish my supply, but now I only pump occasionally to have some for a sippy cup for DS.
You're doing great! It's so hard - no one tells you that. But it does get easier.
Wean from the shield, don't wean from the shield. Do what works for you and your baby. And if you want to supplement, combo feed, EP, or FF - do that. Team Feed the Baby!
sparkythelawyer- for football hold- I rest Dd on two pillows to try to get up her high up bc my back is fucking killing me from leaning over her. My entire breast is basically resting on her belly. Is this normal? Or a problem?
Post by PennyCandy on Jun 23, 2016 19:00:32 GMT -5
My LC recommended All Purpose Nipple Cream. It's compounded and you need a prescription from your OB. It helped more than anything at least for a while. I found meeting 1:1 with my LC a lot better than the support groups. Your insurance should cover it under Obama Care. It still didn't work out for me, but I'm exclusively pumping and that's working well for us for now. Just know that you have options whether that's continuing with BFing, pumping, or formula. A fed baby is best.
sparkythelawyer- for football hold- I rest Dd on two pillows to try to get up her high up bc my back is fucking killing me from leaning over her. My entire breast is basically resting on her belly. Is this normal? Or a problem?
If she can latch, suck and swallow I think it's fine. I have giant cannons too. She seemed to tolerate it ok.