Wednesday Randoms

[glitzyglow]

A community member that I am growing to dislike more and more tried to "tattle" on me for something she thought I didn't follow through on (I did), and the person she tattled to told her that I did my part. How do I know this? Because the person who responded to the tattle-email cc'd me on the response, lol.

I stayed up too late making homemade chicken noodle soup. I have been craving it, so it was well worth the effort. Mmmm.

[Deleted]

I'm really starting to love my yoga classes! I actually enjoy going and not have that sense of dread like I did for other classes. Still keeping up with my weigh lifting and I was seeing amazing changes but I do one cheat day and I swear I've blown up. I'm so tired of this two steps forward one step back. I feel like unless I'm 100percent perfect I won't ever see any changes. Grrrrrr.

Today is a light day at work thank goodness so I'm getting my disaster of an apartment back into shape! It's feeling good

[Deleted]

Talking about yoga... I wanted to roll my mat up yesterday about 10 minutes into class. She's a Pilates instructor. NOT YOGA. I'm also bitter because she took over my fav teacher's spot. She will call you out in class and hold up the whole flow instead of the normal way. So I wrote them to tell them my sadness.

Oh and the knife guy made the news. He was tazed by police after cutting his wrist and telling the police to shoot him. Poor dude. You know there's something not right with the person in cases like this.

[stephreloaded]

So when I got sick back in Feb, I was told that I needed to lose a lot of weight and my blood sugar started to spike so I needed to take control of the situation. I have been doing a half assed effort but I am doing much better than back then. I got the tests done again and my glucose is much much worse than back then. While I havent been great, I am sure not as bad as back then. I feel I have been cheated and feel really sad. I have the appointment with the Dr tomorrow to see what we are going to do . 

[stephreloaded]

Oh and I got back to work today after taking 2 days off. I wish I hadn't left. I am going to have to stay late today to try to catch up. I also find it annoying that I get at least 6 work related phone calls on the days I'm off.

[sweetchix]

Nothing to see here.

[TR]

Poof

[sweetchix]

Very true. And yes, I side eyed the hell out of her for that move.

[glitzyglow]

sweetchix, your friend needs therapy asap to figure out why in the world she tolerates such absolute nonsense. That's a sad story

[sweetchix]

Jul 6, 2016 15:17:57 GMT -5 glitzyglow said:

sweetchix, your friend needs therapy asap to figure out why in the world she tolerates such absolute nonsense. That's a sad story

It is. And she deserves so much better than the way this poor excuse of a man treats her

[doglove]

Hugs stephreloaded, hope you can get a plan together.

[Deleted]

sweetchix, that is crazy. I'm sorry. I know it's hard to witness your friends go through stuff like this.

stephreloaded, I'm sorry. I hope you and your doctor can work together to help lower your levels.

[dancelnow]

This week at work is dragging but I'm looking forward to a staycation in town with BF. We live in an awesome touristy city so it's going to be so much fun.

[Linie]

I just called the court and our divorce is going to be pronounced on 12 July. After that date there is a month for possible appeal (should not happen) and then another month for the registration in the registers. I should be divorced by mid September, in time for my birthday.
Feels weird to type that out. But I'm really fine with it.

[Deleted]

That's a good place to be, @32flavors. Sorry it wasn't more in line with what you wanted, though.

I'm making this my Thursday randoms.

I had two great dates with a shy guy who barely got it together enough to kiss me at the end of the second date. All signs pointed to "I like you! Kiss me! Let's go out again!" We set another date for this weekend, but now he only talks about all the sex he wants to have together. I get it, sex is fun. I'm no prude. We should get to it at some point. But FFS I am more than a vagina. I'm completely turned off at this point. I even tried to steer the convo today toward daily activities, what he has going on a work, what we can go do this weekend and he only replies with sex. I think I'm done with this crap.

[doglove]

That's a huge leap from not kissing to talking about jumping right in @bigtowlittletoe. Ugh why is dating so hard.

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Jul 7, 2016 11:29:36 GMT -5 doglove said:

That's a huge leap from not kissing to talking about jumping right in @bigtowlittletoe . Ugh why is dating so hard.

That's not dating. That's a guy trying to set up a fuckbuddy situation.

[doglove]

Jul 7, 2016 11:34:53 GMT -5 @lemonlover said:

Jul 7, 2016 11:29:36 GMT -5 doglove said:

That's a huge leap from not kissing to talking about jumping right in @bigtowlittletoe . Ugh why is dating so hard.

That's not dating. That's a guy trying to set up a fuckbuddy situation.

Disguised as two great dates at first and coming across as shy though, so it's a cluster for the person who's investing in the first few dates as themselves when the real person pops up after a while with their real intentions. This is frustrating for sure. 

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Jul 7, 2016 11:42:02 GMT -5 doglove said:

Jul 7, 2016 11:34:53 GMT -5 @lemonlover said:

That's not dating. That's a guy trying to set up a fuckbuddy situation.

Disguised as two great dates at first and coming across as shy though, so it's a cluster for the person who's investing in the first few dates as themselves when the real person pops up after a while with their real intentions. This is frustrating for sure. 

Yep. He's a fuckboy. Some dirt bags will go through a bit get laid. 

[Deleted]

Oh the whole thing is totally ridiculous and I'm over it.

@32flavors, that's good to hear. The one time I used match, it was a wasteland of nobodys.

[boing]

I'll just slip my Thursday random in here.
Today I got up early, got dressed, felt cute. Stopped and grabbed breakfast, chatted with some people.
Got to work, and looked down. I have no fucking bra on. I don't know how I did that, it goes on FIRST. But I'm already at work and have no options and a really thin but loose shirt so I'm like okay hippies do this all the time I can do this.
Nope. I lasted 6 minutes before I ran out of work and to the nearest store.

I am not good at adulting.

[glynn]

Jul 6, 2016 13:23:07 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

I'm really starting to love my yoga classes! I actually enjoy going and not have that sense of dread like I did for other classes. Still keeping up with my weigh lifting and I was seeing amazing changes but I do one cheat day and I swear I've blown up. I'm so tired of this two steps forward one step back. I feel like unless I'm 100percent perfect I won't ever see any changes. Grrrrrr.

Today is a light day at work thank goodness so I'm getting my disaster of an apartment back into shape! It's feeling good

It is a journey to better health. I eat like crap most of the time after I lost my goal weight of 60lbs last year. I do still make it my goal to go to the gym 5 to 6 days a week. I do not sweat the daily stuff but the look at the big picture.

[glynn]

DD1 made itto Turkey this AM. She will be in Italy by 5PM and then I can relaxe a little.

[stephreloaded]

Jul 7, 2016 11:24:27 GMT -5 @bigtowlittletoe said:

That's a good place to be, @32flavors . Sorry it wasn't more in line with what you wanted, though.

I'm making this my Thursday randoms.

I had two great dates with a shy guy who barely got it together enough to kiss me at the end of the second date. All signs pointed to "I like you! Kiss me! Let's go out again!" We set another date for this weekend, but now he only talks about all the sex he wants to have together. I get it, sex is fun. I'm no prude. We should get to it at some point. But FFS I am more than a vagina. I'm completely turned off at this point. I even tried to steer the convo today toward daily activities, what he has going on a work, what we can go do this weekend and he only replies with sex. I think I'm done with this crap.

This is the 3rd date. You HAVE to have sex on date 3. It is written in the master dating book we all had to read in high school. 

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Jul 7, 2016 13:53:39 GMT -5 stephreloaded said:

Jul 7, 2016 11:24:27 GMT -5 @bigtowlittletoe said:

This is the 3rd date. You HAVE to have sex on date 3. It is written in the master dating book we all had to read in high school. 

Joke's on him - I was down to bang on the second date!  

[Deleted]

I was ready to bang a guy who ended up a long term boyfriend on the first date. We didn't have sex for three months. I was ready to bang a door knob.

[doglove]

Jul 7, 2016 14:02:44 GMT -5 @lemonlover said:

I was ready to bang a guy who ended up a long term boyfriend on the first date. We didn't have sex for three months. I was ready to bang a door knob.

I feel like that lately, it's been months and all my dating prospects just have gone no where.. literally, not even kisses. Ugh. 


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[3dogdays]

I have a vent and it doesn't deserve its own post.

I'm so irritated at STBXH. It was his night to have S. I took her to her doctor appointment and dropped her off with him early. He was supposed to drop her off by 7pm. I get a text at 10 of that he can't because his customer hadn't shown up to get his car. I get it. Things happen. But this is one of the issues I had with our marriage ( work ALWAYS came before us).

Fine. So I go pick her up because she needs to get to bed. I get there and she's filthy, covered in dirt and grease. Disgusting. Then he tells me she didn't eat because she never told him she was hungry. What? She's 2! I get her in the car and ask if she's hungry. Of course she says yes.

So I figured out her dinner, got her home and in a bath and am dealing with her 2 year old antics about going to bed. Because that's what responsible parents do.

Oh and by the way, it's my birthday. He didn't even mention it. I shouldn't be surprised or care but I do. 15 years together and now nothing. Good thing I have a therapy appointment tomorrow.

All of this just reaffirms what a selfish ass he is and that I'm better off without him.

[jenstar]

Sorry 3dogdays, that's shit and my xh was the same. We separated right before DS turned 2 and he would only take him for a couple hours at the start because he'd never really taken care of him. Most of the time he'd just dump him at his parents place anyway. Once he dropped him home after lunch and it was nap time and on his way out I just had to check that he'd fed him lunch and he said oh no he ran out of time.. Like wtf?! He wasn't even going to tell me and I would have just put DS to bed. His work always came first, and def part of the reason we split. Priorities, man.

Now he acts like father of the year, too bad it took getting a relative stranger pregnant to take an interest in his own child. I wonder how long it will last..

[3dogdays]

Jul 7, 2016 22:12:55 GMT -5 jenstar said:

Sorry 3dogdays, that's shit and my xh was the same. We separated right before DS turned 2 and he would only take him for a couple hours at the start because he'd never really taken care of him. Most of the time he'd just dump him at his parents place anyway. Once he dropped him home after lunch and it was nap time and on his way out I just had to check that he'd fed him lunch and he said oh no he ran out of time.. Like wtf?! He wasn't even going to tell me and I would have just put DS to bed. His work always came first, and def part of the reason we split. Priorities, man.

Now he acts like father of the year, too bad it took getting a relative stranger pregnant to take an interest in his own child. I wonder how long it will last..

Exactly! STBXH acts like he is the greatest dad ever. it's infuriating. Just because he had a new girlfriend, he acts like he's the best dad and he 'knows' everything. He tried to tell me what her shoe size was last weekend because I made a comment about her shoes getting small. I could only laugh. We'll see how long being a good dad lasts. The sad part is I think S already knows he full of shit