Sorry 3dogdays, that's shit and my xh was the same. We separated right before DS turned 2 and he would only take him for a couple hours at the start because he'd never really taken care of him. Most of the time he'd just dump him at his parents place anyway. Once he dropped him home after lunch and it was nap time and on his way out I just had to check that he'd fed him lunch and he said oh no he ran out of time.. Like wtf?! He wasn't even going to tell me and I would have just put DS to bed. His work always came first, and def part of the reason we split. Priorities, man.
Now he acts like father of the year, too bad it took getting a relative stranger pregnant to take an interest in his own child. I wonder how long it will last..
Exactly! STBXH acts like he is the greatest dad ever. it's infuriating. Just because he had a new girlfriend, he acts like he's the best dad and he 'knows' everything. He tried to tell me what her shoe size was last weekend because I made a comment about her shoes getting small. I could only laugh. We'll see how long being a good dad lasts. The sad part is I think S already knows he full of shit
I feel you. My xh now has a weekly dinner with the kids, he rarely actually feeds them dinner. So I get them back right before bed time and they haven't eaten