How soon do you start having sex?

[doglove]

I think it really depends on the situation and the guy and how you feel. There isn't really a hard and fast rule. Some of mine have taken a few weeks, some only a few dates.

[Deleted]

Don't feel slutty about it. There's no shame in sleeping with a guy on the first date. I've gone from 1 night stands to waiting five months. He's not going to dump you because you BOTH slept together on the 5th date. He was *I hope* a willing participant and thus that would be pulling a double standard. I really don't think guys talk to their buddies and say "hey, I slept with a girl on the third date, you think she'll think I'm slutty???"

It all depends on the guy and/or how you feel. There's no rule.

[TR]

I've done everywhere from first date (with someone from Tinder so first time meeting at all) to 5th date which was 5 weeks in. That's the longest I've waited since I lost my virginity, lol. And it happened to be with current BF.

[Deleted]

All depends on the situation. From first night to a few weeks/month.

[Deleted]

It varies so much when you're dating. The best advice I can give is to just go with your gut--1st date, 5th date..whatever! You're in charge and no one should judge that. Have fun!

[glitzyglow]

Do it whenever you want. If a guy thinks you're slutty for not waiting long enough, he's a douche canoe who you shouldn't want to know any longer.

[berbles]

There's no one answer. Whatever you're comfortable with! I hit it and quit it with 3 or 4 guys right after my divorce!

[dancelnow]

Whenever the involved adults are consenting? If he thought it was too soon, he would have turned you down. I'm assuming by "made it happen" you just meant you made the move, not forced him. Go you!

[stephreloaded]

I have had it on the second date and I have also waited like 4 months with the ex as well and we know how that turned out.

I just do it when I feel comfortable no matter what date it is. I decided a while ago to wait and stop the FWB thing. I am sad to report that it's been more than 1.5 years of my dry spell.

[doglove]

Jul 21, 2016 17:11:43 GMT -5 stephreloaded said:

I have had it on the second date and I have also waited like 4 months with the ex as well and we know how that turned out.

I just do it when I feel comfortable no matter what date it is. I decided a while ago to wait and stop the FWB thing. I am sad to report that it's been more than 1.5 years of my dry spell.

Ugh lady. I hear you though, I can't with FWB. It's just something that's never been my style. 

[stephreloaded]

Jul 22, 2016 13:48:01 GMT -5 doglove said:

Jul 21, 2016 17:11:43 GMT -5 stephreloaded said:

I have had it on the second date and I have also waited like 4 months with the ex as well and we know how that turned out.

I just do it when I feel comfortable no matter what date it is. I decided a while ago to wait and stop the FWB thing. I am sad to report that it's been more than 1.5 years of my dry spell.

Ugh lady. I hear you though, I can't with FWB. It's just something that's never been my style. 

I can FWB but then after doing it for a while, I found that it made me feel sort of empty or that there was something missing. I knew that my FWB were not serious dating material so feelings or something more was not something I wanted from them .