36 questions in love

[jenstar]

Aug 4, 2016 9:58:27 GMT -5 statlerwaldorf said:

Aug 3, 2016 23:29:52 GMT -5 nextbigthing said:

He is seriously incapable of caring about other people and that didn't change when he had kids. He uses them like he used me and my oldest is starting to see it. It breaks my heart.

I get so worried about this. Can I ask how old your oldest is? I really want to get an idea of how old DS will be before he starts to see what his dad is like

[statlerwaldorf]

Aug 4, 2016 16:44:57 GMT -5 jenstar said:

Aug 4, 2016 9:58:27 GMT -5 statlerwaldorf said:

I get so worried about this. Can I ask how old your oldest is? I really want to get an idea of how old DS will be before he starts to see what his dad is like

7, but he's really shitty. He didn't acknowledge her 7th birthday and that really hurt her.

[tacom]

I don't go here but I've followed your story (first on ML)

Sounds like you aren't ready to accept the truth he's shown you for three years. You'll get there.

Right now the more others push, the more you seem to defend and protect him. I'm not surprised IRL friends are "cautiously" supporting you. Sometimes people just have to learn these lessons on their own timeline.

[jenstar]

Aug 4, 2016 16:48:19 GMT -5 statlerwaldorf said:

Aug 4, 2016 16:44:57 GMT -5 jenstar said:

7, but he's really shitty. He didn't acknowledge her 7th birthday and that really hurt her.

That's awful I'm sorry he's such an asshole.

[carowen]

berbles I wish you the best. I agree with the major red flags, but you have to see them too. I sincerely hope the next month gives you clarity and strength.