Ok i am going to leave it up to the board to decide if they want her to come back herself. When i initially messaged her i didn't know she's been banned already.
As for whether she's changed... or has remorse. I would buy that IF she wasn't doing the same old stuff - posting fantastical things on a message board. She may not be trolling for $ now directly, or sympathy directly, but she's still living in a delusional fantasy world and posting things are probably not true and at the very least an exaggerated version of the truth. To me it seems like she cannot help herself.
in all seriousness, while the idea of her coming back sounds entertaining, she is truly a vile person and it feels disrespectful to many posters in our community to let this kind of troll get the opportunity to voice her specific brand of filth.
i vote no.
I agree. I really want to know her reasons, but out of respect for our posters who have lost children and are deeply hurt by her actions I don't think we should.
Her reasons are getting off on attention, sympathy, and money.
Post by noodleskooze on Aug 15, 2016 14:38:34 GMT -5
I fully agree with @stilljustash. As much as people want the drama/answers, what she did/is doing is so beyond disgusting and hurtful to so many people that I really don't care what she has to say and really don't think she should have the option to even try to defend her choices and actions.
Ok I am out as the go between. I don't want to share her explanation and have any part in upsetting or triggering difficult emotions for those that have lost a child. Board will have to decide if they want to lift the ban so she can do it herself.
I agree. I really want to know her reasons, but out of respect for our posters who have lost children and are deeply hurt by her actions I don't think we should.
Her reasons are getting off on attention, sympathy, and money.
Ok I am out as the go between. I don't want to share her explanation and have any part in upsetting or triggering difficult emotions for those that have lost a child. Board will have to decide if they want to lift the ban so she can do it herself.
Sorry for giving you blue balls
This makes sense, and you already did way more than I'd do. Hats off.
I know this was pages back but I am FINALLY CAUGHT UP. The reason she has 2 Facebook accounts--- one is so she can moderate her Moo N Cookies Support page without using her personal account, I think people were PM'ing her too much so she wanted to separate the two. I remember when she did that from the support page before I left the group because #crazy.
What the fuck? I was hoping for a distraction from waiting for HoneySpider's baby, but this is just vile. I haven't yet read everything, and will go do so now, but my gut reaction is it is best for everyone that she has been banned and she should not be allowed back to explain herself, as entertaining as that might be. There are real people in this community who have really lost children. This is not something that can be forgiven.
Ok, I might be the crazy one now, but I sent an email to the State of AZ Home Based Kitchen program. Their rules are clear that she cannot sell her products out of the state of AZ. I suggested that they investigate and sent a link to her website where it is advertised she sends nationwide. I have serious reservations on the cleanliness and sanitization of her baking area and those products, and rules are in place for a reason.
Love of my life baby boy born 11/11. One and done not by choice; 3 years of TTC yielded 4 MMC and 2 CPs, through 4 IUIs and 2 IVFs. Focusing on making the world a better place instead...and running.
Ok, I might be the crazy one now, but I sent an email to the State of AZ Home Based Kitchen program. Their rules are clear that she cannot sell her products out of the state of AZ. I suggested that they investigate and sent a link to her website where it is advertised she sends nationwide. I have serious reservations on the cleanliness and sanitization of her baking area and those products, and rules are in place for a reason.
Post by ellipses84 on Aug 15, 2016 15:02:36 GMT -5
Wow! I am completely shocked. After the flood, everyone here was so generous to me and my family. Celiacmom contacted namasteak who was collecting everything and offered to donate birth doula services. From my understanding, Nama helped find a doula and Celiacmom paid the doula directly - the doula was very specific about getting payment from Celiacmom before even meeting with me. Nama can confirm if that's how it happened. I was so grateful and overwhelmed by her generosity that I have ordered her cookies (which were shipped to my state) and she friended me on fb. There were some things that surprised me in her AMA, and I had a lot of questions I didn't ever ask, but I gave her the benefit of the doubt because she paid for the doula, always seemed to be taking trips, and was interviewed on tv for her business, so it seemed like her business was genuinely successful.
Also, I've been around a long time but I'm not the most frequent poster and have always guarded my personal info. because of things like this on the internet. I'm generally skeptical. All of the support I received here was so unexpected and made me open up a lot more, because it showed me there are more good people than bad in the world. I am a real person who experienced something devastating and was given a lot unsolicited donations, which I will forever be grateful for. Bad karma is coming to anyone who would make up an awful lie like that and scam good people. I was reading all the threads really hoping it wasn't true and there was some mistake, but it seems like there is tons of evidence.
Post by scribellesam on Aug 15, 2016 15:08:07 GMT -5
Well this was the best thread to come home and discover. She wanted to meet for a play date during a trip to San Diego earlier this year after I gave her some recommendations. I turned her down because she always creeped me out, but I'm kind of wishing I'd done it now so I could report back.
I can't even imagine pretending to have a dying/dead kid for attention. So gross.
You mean because I haven't said anything? I'm here. I'm still only on page 19, though.
Just checking, you're on my "I should really tag list". Again, sorry @246baje for the oversight. (wilted)
Well, I unfriended her on FB about an hour-ish ago. None of this "I'll be a mole" shit. I can't foresee anything she would or could say that would make it worth continuing to be connected to someone of such questionable judgment and deceptive intentions.
Post by humpforfree on Aug 15, 2016 15:21:02 GMT -5
I checked when I started this thread (an hour ago?) and we were still FB friends. Just checked now to delete and we are no longer. Someone has been on an unfriending spree.