I don't know, this feels icky. I will say I don't think the going to her friends house and laying with her dead body happened. I mean, the police get called, bodies get stiff and no!
Or that a husband who just lost his wife is all "yeah cool, get into bed with her body" within hours.
I do think there is a health situation going on- but not quite the one being portrayed to the board.
Post by W.T.Faulkner on Aug 15, 2016 15:24:55 GMT -5
Why call out at all if you're going to be cryptic about it? So you can deny you ever did if you're wrong? That, to me, is shittier than calling someone out and being wrong about it.
Listen I have to go pick up my kids, but what I have gathered is much like elsa, but even farther back. His has had a LOT of drama for many years, some of which we don't even hear about anymore (or maybe those grand kids live at the house she is gifting?).
Much does not add up. I probably should not have gotten involved in the call out.
But no, I don't allow my friends to lie to me just because they are ill.
Why call out at all if you're going to be cryptic about it? So you can deny you ever did if you're wrong? That, to me, is shittier than calling someone out and being wrong about it.
Listen I have to go pick up my kids, but what I have gathered is much like elsa, but even farther back. His has had a LOT of drama for many years, some of which we don't even hear about anymore (or maybe those grand kids live at the house she is gifting?).
Much does not add up. I probably should not have gotten involved in the call out.
But no, I don't allow my friends to lie to me just because they are ill.
It seems like a lot and I am not the only one.
I'm still curious about the soup bowl. I need closure!
I cannot fathom that you are all sitting here shocked that some posters on a board wouldn't fully believe some of these stories.
TODAY OF ALL DAYS.
Many of your gave your credit card numbers and addresses to a woman who had actually cat-fished you years before. You just found this out. And you think we are crazy for not believing some stories that seem like they can't possibly be true?
Post by snipsnsnails on Aug 15, 2016 15:32:28 GMT -5
I don't blame people for approaching things on here with a healthy dose of skepticism. Everyone's got their own limits. But if you say there's receipts, there had better be receipts!
Post by WOUNDTIGHT on Aug 15, 2016 15:33:30 GMT -5
My uncle died at home in hospice care 3 years ago, surrounded by friends and family. Many said their goodbyes after he left. The police were not immediately called. That story did not ring as implausible to me.
I don't blame people for approaching things on here with a healthy dose of skepticism. Everyone's got their own limits. But if you say there's receipts, there had better be receipts!
I said her posts don't add up, much like what Elsa has alluded to. If you are waiting on me to provide pictures from her driveway you absolutely misunderstood me. Lol.
I've cuddled up next to all 3 of my dogs after they died and cried for awhile. Doing so with my BFF who lost a battle I just started to fight? I could see it.
I don't blame people for approaching things on here with a healthy dose of skepticism. Everyone's got their own limits. But if you say there's receipts, there had better be receipts!
I don't know, this feels icky. I will say I don't think the going to her friends house and laying with her dead body happened. I mean, the police get called, bodies get stiff and no!
I'll be super honest. This is where the wheels fell of the bus for me.
I've been praying for His because and for Baby Rocky and for her daughter and grandbaby, etc. But the laying in bed with her deceased BFF just didn't sit well with me.
Well. When my father in law died (in-home hospice), we notified the funeral home, but requested they come later so the aunts and uncle could see him first. That was 3-4 hours later. Aunt J kissed and hugged his body, which was no longer warm.
It may not be what you would do, but that does not make it implausible.
Post by nicbreeful on Aug 15, 2016 15:42:36 GMT -5
The only thing that seemed weird to me was the BFF thing. Don't all dead bodies defecate and urinate? And I'm not saying it didn't happen just that I was like "..oh."
I don't believe His is making up her illness. One of y'all better have proof because that's pretty mean. Especially if you're wrong.
Post by puddleofgrace on Aug 15, 2016 15:45:29 GMT -5
This all seems really fucking gross to me. I'd rather be a good friend and realize I've been had then to turn my back on a ML regular/friend who is hurting.
I'll be super honest. This is where the wheels fell of the bus for me.
I've been praying for His because and for Baby Rocky and for her daughter and grandbaby, etc. But the laying in bed with her deceased BFF just didn't sit well with me.
Well. When my father in law died (in-home hospice), we notified the funeral home, but requested they come later so the aunts and uncle could see him first. That was 3-4 hours later. Aunt J kissed and hugged his body, which was no longer warm.
It may not be what you would do, but that does not make it implausible.
When my grandfather died it was similar.
He died in after midnight and my grandmother didn't want a "scene" so they waited until morning. My aunt slept with him. To each his own, my mom even thought it was weird, heck my grandma thought it was weird.
"He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion." - Unknown
So there is no proof that was alluded to? She's never been cruel or hurt anyone on the boards, money or otherwise. I agree she's had a lot of drama, but you have no proof that none of it was true. I think it's a shitty way to "call" her out. If you really wanted to do it, and had real proof, instead of stuff just adding up, she would have been tagged.
Post by greenlight on Aug 15, 2016 15:53:30 GMT -5
This is so gross. I hate that His will see this.
And Wtf to everyone judging her bff story. When my Dad died at home my step mom held him and sobbed for over an hour. People came and sat with him, kissed his forehead, held his hand, etc.
And Wtf to everyone judging her bff story. When my Dad died at home my step mom held him and sobbed for over an hour. People came and sat with him, kissed his forehead, held his hand, etc.
It's weird to judge how others grieve.
The dead body issue may completely just be me. I covered my dad's face, then was more creeped out by that so I uncovered and then I had to leave.
Me too. Perhaps I was projecting because I could never imaging cuddling with a deceased loved one. I'm sorry if I offended anyone, especially His.