OMG! What am I doing?!?! Am I crazy?

[abcdefu]

So remember how I've wanted to move out of state, away from my family? Well I just applied to 6 jobs, in 5 different states. 2 of the jobs are in VA; one in DC, one is Tampa, one in Baltimore, and 1 in Houston, TX. While I realize I have a really slim chance to get one of these jobs, I just can help looking up houses and apartments!

HOLY SHIT! WHAT AM I DOING?!?

Please send job vibes my way!

[verycontrary247]

Where in Virginia?!

[cuddlyevil]

You're moving forward, that's what you're doing. And yes it's scary as fuck, but it's also totally worth it.

***vibes***

[abcdefu]

Oct 12, 2016 21:48:20 GMT -5 verycontrary247 said:

Where in Virginia?!

One in Church Falls and the other is in Alexandria.

[abcdefu]

Oct 13, 2016 5:59:56 GMT -5 cuddlyevil said:

You're moving forward, that's what you're doing. And yes it's scary as fuck, but it's also totally worth it.

***vibes***

Thank you for this! It is really scary, but it's what I have to do. I need to establish my own life and my own routine.


does anyone know any GBCNers from Houston? That's the only place I've never been out of the jobs I applied.

[verycontrary247]

Oct 13, 2016 6:29:42 GMT -5 abcdefu said:

Oct 12, 2016 21:48:20 GMT -5 verycontrary247 said:

Where in Virginia?!

One in Church Falls and the other is in Alexandria.

You should look in the Hampton Roads area

[nextbigthing]

Oct 13, 2016 6:32:48 GMT -5 abcdefu said:

Oct 13, 2016 5:59:56 GMT -5 cuddlyevil said:

You're moving forward, that's what you're doing. And yes it's scary as fuck, but it's also totally worth it.

***vibes***

Thank you for this! It is really scary, but it's what I have to do. I need to establish my own life and my own routine.


does anyone know any GBCNers from Houston? That's the only place I've never been out of the jobs I applied.

I'm in Dallas, but grew up in Houston and have family there.  The weather sucks but it's a nice city and the cost of living is great compared to NOVA/DC/Baltimore (I went to college in Virginia).

I think you should go for it, change can be a good thing and you've got some great cities on that list.

[glynn]

Good luck, I would be scared but sometimes scared it good.

[idahome]

Good luck! I think you sometimes need a geographic change to get things going. I hope multiple job offers come your way!

[Deleted]

abcdefu,  Good luck!!! Change is definitely scary, but you know when it's time and you've been thinking about this for a while.  I'll tell you that I was terrified before I relocated, but it was my own doing because I realized I needed a change.  It's truly one of the best decisions I've made.  If it's meant to be, it will work out easily.  

[abcdefu]

Thank you ladies! I have been thinking about this for a while. It seems like the right time for me. My boss is retiring and my rental is listed for sale. It's like all the stars have aligned!

[Mrs.Rad888]

Fingers crossed! This is so exciting, and I'm happy for you that you may be able to get away from your family.

[bg]

So exciting! Good luck!

[itsmyparty]

I know how you feel. I had that "What am I doing?!" feeling after I filed for divorce, and when I left my job, and when I decided to leave everything I knew to move to a new city/state. It's scary, but exciting too! When I first moved here I thought I maybe made one of the biggest mistakes of my life, and was afraid people would think I was a total fool. But now it's starting to pay off, and instead of calling me a fool people tell me how brave I am.

There's a whole world out there - go experience it while you can!

[jenstar]

Good luck abcdefu! Hope something comes of the apps x

[lyssbobiss, Command, B613]

I am so proud of you! You needed a break and a fresh start away from the people and the situations that were toxic for you, and you're doing just that. . You're going to be ok.

[abcdefu]

lyssbobiss, Command, B613, Thank you! Thank you to all of the ladies here who have been super supportive through my 3 year hellish roller coaster. I'm looking forward to moving on and being in control of my own life and happiness!

[cuddlyevil]

You can totally do it. I hope you land the one you want.

[abcdefu]

Thanks cuddlyevil,! I will keep everyone posted.

[stephreloaded]

Good luck and I hope you get something amazing!!

[starburst604]

Just popped in and saw this...just want to wish you luck abcdefu!!

[abcdefu]

Oct 20, 2016 21:16:04 GMT -5 starburst604 said:

Just popped in and saw this...just want to wish you luck abcdefu !!

Thank you so much!

Wow! L is getting so big and more adorable by the day!

[starburst604]

Oct 21, 2016 6:25:59 GMT -5 abcdefu said:

Oct 20, 2016 21:16:04 GMT -5 starburst604 said:

Just popped in and saw this...just want to wish you luck abcdefu !!

Thank you so much!

Wow! L is getting so big and more adorable by the day!

Thank you! She's practically a little girl now :/

[Deleted]

abcdefu, Thinking about this post.  Hope all is well and you're feeling well.

[abcdefu]

Thanks @blueyes623! Everything is going as well as it can.

I'm still doing PT two days per week. Work is kicking my butt! I actually applied to 7 jobs. The latest one was in Philadelphia, but I received an email stating I didn't qualify due to experience requirements. Womp Womp! I'm just keeping my fingers crossed. Whatever is meant to be will happen. In the meantime, I am studying for my certification exam and looking for maybe a certificate in this particular field, or possibly a masters degree to sub it for length of experience.

This is so stressful and I do not even know if I will get any interviews! I give you so much credit for being able to pick up and go!

I hope your new job is going well. Are you still house hunting?

[Deleted]

Oct 22, 2016 0:25:44 GMT -5 abcdefu said:

Thanks @blueyes623 ! Everything is going as well as it can.

I'm still doing PT two days per week. Work is kicking my butt! I actually applied to 7 jobs. The latest one was in Philadelphia, but I received an email stating I didn't qualify due to experience requirements. Womp Womp! I'm just keeping my fingers crossed. Whatever is meant to be will happen. In the meantime, I am studying for my certification exam and looking for maybe a certificate in this particular field, or possibly a masters degree to sub it for length of experience.

This is so stressful and I do not even know if I will get any interviews! I give you so much credit for being able to pick up and go!

I hope your new job is going well. Are you still house hunting?

Keep applying--the worst thing that can happen is that they can say no.  I forget what field you're in. Are you on linked in? I found that to be a good resource. Also, I went directly to hospital (company) sites and searched for openings.  My field luckily is in demand.  J on the other hand is still struggling just with state to state teacher licensing transfer.  
I never in a million years thought I'd ever leave NY. I was terrified, but knew I needed a change. I really do love it here. My job is really great as are my new coworkers.  I have small moments that I feel a bit lonely--all of my life basically was in the same neighborhood and i never lived more than 10 minutes from my parents. Then my stepdad died and mom moved south so I was basically alone in my familiar place. That was really hard for me. So everything changed. I left the negativity behind. 
If I can do it, you can do it! You're strong and you've been through so much.  Have you considered the carolinas? Lots of us northerners down here!