I have the whole weekend off! I'm trying to decide if I just want to be extra lazy or go out and make a lot of plans. TBD lol. I'm going to be in a bikini next month in Cozumel so I'm really trying to cut back on my drinking.
My boyfriend comes home for Sun-Mon, and since I don't work we'll get to hang out in the afternoon after he's done doing some work. Wahoo.
I'm desperately trying to get my mojo back enough to go to dinner for my BFFs birthday tonight.
I've been in a major funk this week. I had chemo on Monday, a slight setback in that I'm being taken off my other chemo meds, and lots of feeling sorry for myself.
I know I'm probably dehydrated because I only drank 20 oz. of water for the whole day but I really have to force down warm water.
I can't drink, eat, or touch anything cold. I had like four spoons of oatmeal yesterday and two bites of a PB&J. The day before that, I had 1/2 a slice of toast and a few bites of buttered noodles. Oh, and since I'm having loss of motor skills in my hands, DH has had to feed me, help me dress, and help me brush my teeth.
I'm tired, but I feel like I can't complain. It's only been three months since my diagnosis and there are people who have to do this shit for years, like my DH.
I spent the entire day on the couch yesterday and I may do the same today.
I'm still trying to recover from the past week and my sister's wedding. All my family is now officially gone. For the last week its been dinners,errands, B-Party, wedding stuff,wedding, and more family meals. We rarely made it home before 10pm as I was trying to spend as much time with my family especially those that live far away as I could. So tonight I want to get home e"early" and veg out.
Saturday we have DS soccer, then I want to go vote and maybe talk H into the Pumpkin Patch. Our HOA is having Pumpkin decorating Saturday night.
Sunday is getting back into the groove and cooking/meal prep for the week and laundry.
My days off are Friday/Saturday. So I am off, but trying to get stuff done. Had a doc appt at 830, now I am getting stuff done around the house, on with Verizon chat now. Later I have to go get service done on my car. Tomorrow we go to our first show at the Kennedy Center. Excited for a date night and DD staying with SIL and not climbing into our bed in the MOTN. I took off Sunday and have no plans outside of going to church. Since I have to work Sunday mornings now I haven't been able to do that.
Our anniversary is this weekend. Nine years!! We are not doing anything big. We will watch our wedding dvd, hubs in bringing Jamaican food and I am picking up a cake. Not letting my daughter nap so she can go to bed early. Hope to have all three down by 8 so we can share a bottle of wine and talk. It's been a hectic week and he's been working a lot. I miss my buddy. Sat dd has dance and I might go to HU Homecoming stuff if I M feeling adventurous. Sunday we are doing a Halloween event at the mall. So our weekend is packed but gotta keep these kiddos busy!! andwhat how are you liking your new schedule?
I don't bit there is nothing I can do about it right now so I'm just gonna KOKO. By the time H gets home I an so tired I can't make myself stay up to spend any time with him. I will never adjust to getting up so early. I had to do it before for years and I never adjusted.
I don't bit there is nothing I can do about it right now so I'm just gonna KOKO. By the time H gets home I an so tired I can't make myself stay up to spend any time with him. I will never adjust to getting up so early. I had to do it before for years and I never adjusted.
That stinks! Sorry that it is wreaking havoc on your life. Ugh!
Post by orangeblossom on Oct 21, 2016 12:56:41 GMT -5
50th birthday party for my sister. We have a huge age gap, but it feels so weird to say she's 50.
I'm excited. It'll be just family and a few friends, but I did a lot of personalized stuff I think she'll like. She also wanted a soda bar, so I got lots of neat sodas, including birthday Cake soda
I have cabin fever. There is a maintenance power outage and it is supposed to be 95 degrees today. (Thank you Southern California!). I've got the drapes drawn and am trying to keep cool until a girlfriend can pick me up for a late lunch.
I want to go to Vegas but no dice (pun intended) from DH. He's being the adult because we have so many little house projects that we should get to. I'm writing a project plan (nerd) so maybe we can have enough progress to go over thanksgiving weekend.
How can I get on the so cal invite list? Did that sound like Awkward Black Girl looking to be socially included? LOL!
I'm so sorry you're having a rough time. However, please cry, shout, scream, yell and COMPLAIN. Yes, your DH may have dealt with cancer for longer than you, but that doesn't take away from your here and now.
I did pumpkin patch with DS and daycare today. Currently under the dryer getting my hair done Tomorrow is my nieces' bday party Sunday is my birthday. I'm doing a painting thing for a picture I really like, then brunch and then home for football. Making pizza and then The Walking Dead.
In case I don't remember to say it tomorrow, happy birthday, sweetday!
Today is my sweet baby nephew's last day here so we're going to pick up a random costume, since he already has one at home, and pop over to Boo at the Zoo for a few hours. By the time we get home from that, it will be about time to take them to the airport. Then H and I have another 40th birthday dinner (this is getting so played out, btw, like we started these celebrations in November 2014, and still more friends are turning 40 all the way into next year) tonight followed by a lounge. Sunday, gym, brunch and maybe a movie depending on whether or not I'm tired.
Our anniversary is this weekend. Nine years!! We are not doing anything big. We will watch our wedding dvd, hubs in bringing Jamaican food and I am picking up a cake. Not letting my daughter nap so she can go to bed early. Hope to have all three down by 8 so we can share a bottle of wine and talk. It's been a hectic week and he's been working a lot. I miss my buddy. Sat dd has dance and I might go to HU Homecoming stuff if I M feeling adventurous. Sunday we are doing a Halloween event at the mall. So our weekend is packed but gotta keep these kiddos busy!! andwhat how are you liking your new schedule?
Post by orangeblossom on Oct 22, 2016 16:34:45 GMT -5
Whelp, the party certainly got off with an unfortunate bang One of my sister's was going to pick up the food and got into an accident. She's okay, but shook up. The car eh.
Poor think feels like she ruined the party, but of course she didn't. She's okay, and we're getting ready to party.
Whelp, the party certainly got off with an unfortunate bang One of my sister's was going to pick up the food and got into an accident. She's okay, but shook up. The car eh.
Poor think feels like she ruined the party, but of course she didn't. She's okay, and we're getting ready to party.
Whelp, the party certainly got off with an unfortunate bang One of my sister's was going to pick up the food and got into an accident. She's okay, but shook up. The car eh.
Poor think feels like she ruined the party, but of course she didn't. She's okay, and we're getting ready to party.