I will agree with other posters, he's an asshole. Placing blame on you and taking zero responsibility is bullshit. Feel the feels but trust you're going to be ok...cuz you're bad ass like that!
He is fundamentally broken, and cruel to top it off. I know you're hurting right now, but I promise your life will improve exponentially once this dude is out of it.
Post by itsmyparty on Dec 31, 2016 18:04:23 GMT -5
I'm sorry. You've heard it here before: men placing the blame on women for their own choices and failures. It sounds like you did everything you could to make this relationship succeed...but it takes two people.
I'm so sorry ETA: now that I read the post on ML, I'm angry for you. He's an ass and is being so unfair. You deserve more from a man than someone who wants to blame you for everything.
Post by stephreloaded on Jan 1, 2017 20:21:36 GMT -5
I am really sorry about this! He has been really unfair and cruel with the things he said.
I would take the move as a great opportunity to find yourself. Maybe you will now be able to experience the new place with a different point of view once you are alone.
Ugh, I am so sorry! That's not cool and you deserve much, much better that that. Good riddance, more time for you to find the right person for you. You will be accepted for who you are and cherished as well by the right person. I'm sorry though, it's hard. Hugs to you, friend!