H's dad died

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H's dad died Jan 30, 2017 4:56:25 GMT -5

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We're in shock. We literally just saw him on Saturday at our baby shower. Got a phone call at 3 am that he had a heart attack, and paramedics couldn't resuscitate. He had a grandbaby due in March and his other son is getting married in November. He and MIL literally bought a bnb 6 months ago and just opened in October. I don't know if this had anything to do with his hip replacement earlier this month or not.

We're trying to find out if the regular dog sitter or anyone else can come stay with the dogs. We're driving up the three hours to be with MIL once it's light outside.

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awick14 Elder Posts: 18,025 Likes: 15,242	H's dad died Jan 30, 2017 5:11:38 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by awick14 on Jan 30, 2017 5:11:38 GMT -5 Omg! I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how your H feels. If you need anything let me know!
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wineandcheese Full Member Posts: 1,267 Likes: 2,537	H's dad died Jan 30, 2017 7:20:08 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by wineandcheese on Jan 30, 2017 7:20:08 GMT -5 I'm so sorry!
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bk1 Senior Member Posts: 7,213 Likes: 10,771	H's dad died Jan 30, 2017 7:44:46 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bk1 on Jan 30, 2017 7:44:46 GMT -5 I am so very sorry for your loss
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luv2rn4fun Moderator Water Cooler Mod Posts: 9,685 Likes: 10,202	H's dad died Jan 30, 2017 7:59:21 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by luv2rn4fun on Jan 30, 2017 7:59:21 GMT -5 I am so sorry grover. Prayers for you, your DH, and family.
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katespade Senior Member Posts: 7,240 Likes: 10,380	H's dad died Jan 30, 2017 8:13:55 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by katespade on Jan 30, 2017 8:13:55 GMT -5 I am so, so sorry for your loss, grover.
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cowgirlcutie Junior Member Posts: 504 Likes: 871	H's dad died Jan 30, 2017 9:05:19 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by cowgirlcutie on Jan 30, 2017 9:05:19 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss, grover.
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christy082 Senior Member Posts: 5,224 Likes: 4,831	H's dad died Jan 30, 2017 10:03:57 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by christy082 on Jan 30, 2017 10:03:57 GMT -5 Omg I'm so sorry
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pooh8402 Elder Posts: 22,996 Likes: 21,415	H's dad died Jan 30, 2017 11:40:44 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by pooh8402 on Jan 30, 2017 11:40:44 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss. What a horrible shock.
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estrellita Elder Posts: 14,255 Likes: 13,365	H's dad died Jan 30, 2017 12:05:56 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by estrellita on Jan 30, 2017 12:05:56 GMT -5 I'm so sorry thinking of you and your H's family.
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amaranth Full Member Posts: 3,887 Likes: 4,633	H's dad died Jan 30, 2017 12:09:53 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by amaranth on Jan 30, 2017 12:09:53 GMT -5 Oh grover, I am so sorry let me know if there's anything I can do to help. I don't know much about dogs but I could try to help with them if needed.
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MrsMB Senior Member Posts: 9,004 Likes: 11,812	H's dad died Jan 30, 2017 13:51:06 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by MrsMB on Jan 30, 2017 13:51:06 GMT -5 Saying prayers for your family right now. I am so so sorry....
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Blue Moon Senior Member Posts: 6,142 Likes: 6,632	H's dad died Jan 30, 2017 14:06:26 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Blue Moon on Jan 30, 2017 14:06:26 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your family's loss.
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krystee Elder Enter your message here... Posts: 15,978 Likes: 26,442	H's dad died Jan 30, 2017 20:38:03 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by krystee on Jan 30, 2017 20:38:03 GMT -5 I am so sorry for your loss! Big hugs.
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melsamoony Full Member Posts: 4,131 Likes: 3,589	H's dad died Jan 30, 2017 22:08:59 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by melsamoony on Jan 30, 2017 22:08:59 GMT -5 Oh wow. I am so, so, so sorry for your loss. Big, huge hugs.
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wineandcheese Full Member Posts: 1,267 Likes: 2,537	H's dad died Jan 31, 2017 8:25:54 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by wineandcheese on Jan 31, 2017 8:25:54 GMT -5 grover how are you and your H doing? I'm thinking about you guys. Let me know if you need anything.
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Thank you all. Was able to get a few hours of sleep, but it hit me like a ton of bricks again as soon as I woke up in their house this am.

He seriously was the best FIL I could have asked for. And H is alternating between no longer having his father here and the fact that his baby girl will never know him firsthand. I offered yesterday to swap out the middle name (we hadn't told anyone else we had decided on the middle already) to honor his dad through her middle name.

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I also feel like I no know too much about dealing with coroners, funeral homes and life insurance companies. That role was given to me as the others couldn't handle it.

Today we meet with the funeral director and then H and I are driving home for one night.

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rockinrobyn Full Member Posts: 1,528 Likes: 2,505	H's dad died Jan 31, 2017 15:37:31 GMT -5 via Tapatalk grover likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by rockinrobyn on Jan 31, 2017 15:37:31 GMT -5 I am so so sorry for your family's loss. Huge internet hugs to you all.
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katespade Senior Member Posts: 7,240 Likes: 10,380	H's dad died Jan 31, 2017 15:43:23 GMT -5 grover likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by katespade on Jan 31, 2017 15:43:23 GMT -5 If there's anything we can do from a distance, grover, please let us know.
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awick14 Elder Posts: 18,025 Likes: 15,242	H's dad died Jan 31, 2017 17:00:33 GMT -5 via Tapatalk grover likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by awick14 on Jan 31, 2017 17:00:33 GMT -5 ((Hugs))
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travelbug Full Member Posts: 3,414 Likes: 3,930	H's dad died Jan 31, 2017 22:20:09 GMT -5 via mobile grover likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by travelbug on Jan 31, 2017 22:20:09 GMT -5 Huge, huge hugs!!! I'm so sorry for your loss! Prayers and thoughts are being sent! <3
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Huge ((hugs)) grover. I can only imagine what your DH is feeling right now. I had fears and was so sad thinking of my mom not being around to see my kids grow up and for them to know her (when she was really sick and told she had less than a year to live just before C was born). She is still alive but has unfortunately decided not to be a part of our life. It's definitely hard and I hope your DH can find a way to cope with that side of the loss as well with time. It adds a while whole new dynamic. I also think it was very kind of you to change your DDs middle name to honor FIL.

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wanderingenough Senior Member Posts: 5,318 Likes: 6,964	H's dad died Feb 1, 2017 7:54:40 GMT -5 via Tapatalk grover likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by wanderingenough on Feb 1, 2017 7:54:40 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss.
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