Retirement Ceremony questions

[starlily]

Hi! I don't go here, but was hoping you wouldn't mind the intrusion. H & I will be attending the retirement ceremony of a friend in the Air Force. The ceremony is at 4pm, followed by a cocktail hour and dinner.

1. What type of attire do guests usually wear?

2. Is this typically a gift-giving occasion? If so, would it be better to send the gift in advance?

Thanks for any guidance you can provide!

[meltoine]

The service members will be in blues, so the equivalent civilian dress is business professional. I'd probably choose a shift dress and cardigan or blazer.

I'm not sure if it's traditionally a gift-giving occasion but I would probably give a gift and would bring it that day if it's something small. If it's like, a case of wine or something, send it to their house lol

[NomadicMama]

WSS ^^^

Given that there is a cocktail hour and dinner, I'd definitely go with business professional. Better to be one of the more dressed up than too casual.

As for a gift…it's up to you. If it's someone you see regularly, I'd give him/her something after the fact so they don't have more to carry home than they already will.

[starlily]

Thank you ladies!

[wambam]

My dad retired in December and I did all sorts of hand wringing about what I should wear lol. I ended up wearing business casual and was very appropriately dressed. I gave him a gift and just brought it with me - there was a gift table like there would be at a wedding.