I'm distraught and angry and confused and scared

[kicks]

Damn I'm really sorry
I hope you are able to get in touch with his family.

[05heel]

I'm sorry. That sounds like a rough situation.

[redwino]

I'm so sorry. It's horrible to find out the person you thought you knew is someone completely different. Hugs.

[bimbi284]

Feb 23, 2017 21:15:59 GMT -5 @natariru said:

I am going from "what a fucking liar" to "omg I was friends w a psychopath" to "this can't be real" to just crying. I feel like I'm in the twilight zone. How does someone live a double life like that?

How awful. Big hugs!

[DesertMoon]

That's so shocking. I'm sorry. No matter what has happened I hope this person is helped or changed in a way to better his own life. I'm sorry you've lost your friend.

[andwhat]

OMG that is awful. I am so sorry for everyone involved. It is so hard when someone you know and love does something you cannot reconcile with.

[sweetday]

wow I'm so sorry

[thejackpot]

So very sorry.
It is hard to lose a friendship and to lose it in this way has to be jarring. Hope you are able to sort through your feelings and eventually get in contact with his family.

[Faevantastic]

Wow, I'm so sorry. I'm sure you are going through a roller coaster of emotions.


Do you have any mutual friends that might know more besides his family?

[calle28]

I'm so sorry. I'm sure all of this is so shocking and feels unreal.

[oliviapope]

I'm sorry, I would be shocked if something like that came out about a friend.

[skwcm80]

Omg, I'm so sorry @natariru.

[dr.girlfriend]

I'm so sorry. In not as dramatic ways I've felt that "OMG, you never truly know anyone" feeling and it's terrifying.

[bugandbibs]

I am so sorry. You've had quite the shock. Be gentle with yourself while you process.

I had a good friend commit a horrible crime and we were so close before and after until he was caught. I've never been able to reconcile the two sides of him, but it's right for him to be in jail.

[divanerd]

So sorry

[orangeblossom]

I'm so sorry.

[andwhat]

Ugh. I am sorry this has been confirmed @natariru. Your H is definitely not being helpful.

[raangoli]

I'm so sorry. That is a lot to reconcile.

[sent]

I'm so sorry. I married someone who is excellent at leading a double life. Friends and family can't comprehend this seemingly "normal" person would be so vile at home. It's sad that people have such horrific personas and I'm sorry you got caught in his con game.

[pixelpassion]

I'm sorry, that's really rough to deal with. I had something similar happen with one of H's relatives and the shittiest part was feeling like the entire relationship with that person comes into question. I hope you adn his family will be able reconcile your feelings about all of this. 

[sent]

Feb 28, 2017 22:20:04 GMT -5 @natariru said:

sent I think of you often. How are you doing?

I'm doing much better.  Since the New Year, I have more energy. I keep meaning to post an update. I'm not 100% and still need help caring for DD and some stuff for myself, but I'm getting there.