Update on us.

[sunflowers7]

I haven't posted in quite a while.  I broke my phone in februaryand so I can only post from my iPad.  It's been a rough few months for us,  our landlord let us know in January she wanted to sell come April.   We looked for homes but everything was out of our budget which is nonexistent due to us basically living off of my income.  

My husbands business is still trying to get off the ground they opened in January at a temporary location while they are still waiting on construction to finish at their permanent gym.  So now we are living at my sil house.    It's not ideal since it's like 45 mins without traffic from our jobs but it's a home.    If you are Facebook friends with me can you like any fitness posts?  



My work is going great i got my 2nd raise and I've been there only a year and a half.   I am still only 25 hours a week but can increase to more if I want however it's hard to do with juggling the kids schedules and childcare.   I probably will go to full time in the fall.   The kids are doing ok and have adjusted fairly well considering all the changes however they have no interest in their dad.  

Im still struggling with all the changes I'm pissed at my husband be he's not getting the salary he told ,he was "guaranteed".   He claims he's always working when he's on his phone but I told him he needs to make us a priority when he's not physically at the gym.   I know as a business owner your always on but he can put his phone down to play with their kids.  He still drives for uber but he keeps flaking saying he's too tired or it's dead and comes home at like 10.  



I haven't been able to go to therapy since December since we lost our health insurance. I've gained a lot of weight I've been so focused on the kids and making sure they are happy and with their friends whenever we can I've really forgot about my own happiness. I've been contemplating about going back to Kc for the summer with the kids.   But I'm not sure what the right thing to do is.    


Sorry this was all jambled.  

If you've read this far cheers! 

[sunshineluv]

Hugs! I am sorry things have been stressful. I hope you catch a break soon.

I hope your DH steps it up too, as a dad and a husband. It isn't fair for you to have to shoulder all the responsibility and stress.

[laurensmomma]

Congrats on the raises at work. I'm sorry there are still struggles going on. You're a great mom and those kids are lucky to have you.

[Deleted]

Congrats on your raises! I'm sorry there are struggles with your DH, and I hope he starts to get some wages soon for you guys, I can understand why you are frustrated.

[blane12]

I'm glad to hear from you! I'm sorry things have been rough. Werent your inlaws living w you before? Are they with SIL too, or were they able to get a place? I hope you guys are able to get a place to get some personal space soon. I'm sorry your husband is not helping much, especially with the kids. You sound like you've been doing a great job with them, but you also need to take care of yourself too! You are right that your H needs to put you and the kids a priority when he's not at work. Hugs!!!

[jg183]

I'm sorry things have been tough. I'm glad your job is going well!

[thedahliharpa]

Hugs! I knew you were stressed when we saw you at the party and now it makes sense.
You'll make a good decision. Your kids are great and you are great. I'm sorry he hasn't been. It's not fair.

[sunflowers7]

thedahliharpa, ya that was a rough day. I felt like a loser for crying over the car not starting, then do yelling at me on the phone, but I have some awesome friends who are willing to help.

[chirpchirp]

Hugs sunflowers7. I am sorry you are so stressed. Hopefully your H can step it up and things start to smooth out.

[imimahoney]

I've been hoping to see you check in!

I'm sorry things are still so rocky for you guys. I hope they are able to get better soon!

[ktstorm]

Glad to see you checking in! Awesome job on the raises, that's fantastic. I'm sorry things have been so rough. You are a great mom and are doing a good job with your kiddos.

[onehitwonder]

I'm sorry things have been so rough for you lately. You deserve a pat on the back for excelling at your job and being a great mom. I hope you get a break soon. Take care of yourself.