Post by imimahoney on Apr 30, 2017 10:47:55 GMT -5
Every year we have to see MIL on mother's day and it pisses me off. For once I just want the day about my family.
Dh is going to ask her, fil and sil and her family if they want to come over for brunch on Saturday. That way we see them for the holiday but I get my family day. I hope she doesn't put up a fight about it.
We're celebrating with my mom today. My sister and I are taking her and my grandma out for brunch. The ILs come Friday so we will take them out next weekend. The actual day of we're flying back from Mexico so nothing that day, other than a glorious day without kids until 6pm lol.
H is on call on Mother's Day (Baer) but we are going to dinner with his parents the night before. On Mother's Day I'm hoping his on call isn't bad... it will be last minute decision I'd like to hang out at home then maybe go to a park to play and have a picnic lunch then take a nap! Or I could be hanging with the kids while he works all day
DH leaves early that afternoon for a week in South Africa, so I plan on sleeping as late as possible and basically having zero responsibility for anything until he heads to the airport lol.
Post by redmonkeystomper on Apr 30, 2017 12:11:18 GMT -5
My mom lives too far away so we won't see her. My mil lives in our same town. I may encourage my dh to take her out on Saturday then on Mother's Day we can be lazy which sounds ideal to me. My mil is not big on holidays so she won't care if we even celebrate but I'll make sure we do something small.
Same thing every year. H works 12 hours just like every Sunday and I get a day of my children being loud and getting tortured by their constant noise. And I will cook all 3 meals and will probably be up earlier than I would be for work as the kids don't sleep in on weekends.....
Oh but I'm planning a baseball game trip with upgrade to an all you can eat BBQ place (only he eats it) for Father's Day and already called for him to be scheduled off.........
We always do something with my mom and grandma and sisters, and will also have to do something with my MIL and probably see H's grandma. Not exactly what I want to do.
H usually gets me a little something. I'd rather have a day of just our immediate family, but it will probably never happen.
Ok 2 weeks away I think I will suggest mimosas then head to the zoo weather permitting Maybe grill dinner Not sure if my mat leave is over the next day
More than likely we will go to the cape and see my h parents then my mom and perhaps drop by my dads
Realistically no one will remember much like my birthday this year
Post by TrudyCampbell on Apr 30, 2017 17:44:46 GMT -5
I see no one from either family. We will be having brunch and then going to a picnic event at the New York botanical gardens. The event is really cute and they provide picnic blankets, have food trucks, live music and free wine for all moms!
Post by thedahliharpa on Apr 30, 2017 18:03:27 GMT -5
We are going to see my families the weekend before. It's my choice because I travel for work the Tuesday after MD and want to be home that weekend. But that means...we'll see his mom. We may go see Me First & The Gimme Gimmes the Friday of MD weekend for *my* celebration.
My H is working so I'll just do something fun with the girls. Hopefully the weather is nice. He mentioned maybe taking the day part of his shift off, which would be nice.
We are going to have brunch in Boston with my family. Then the three of us are going to go see a production of 'Annie'. After, I have no idea. I wouldn't mind a little shopping, or just going home and having the house to myself to nap in peace & quiet.
Well last yr, mh suggested that 'we' host brunch....but I flat out told him no, knowing that 'we' would end up being me. He was baffled that I didn't want host with a 6wk old. I ended up being the one to make our reservations and we went to dinner as no place still had brunch openings by the time all was decided. I suppose I should go ahead and make reservations now...
Lol. I haven't even thought about it. We've had Easter, DH' s birthday, our anniversary, and A's birthday all in the last 2.5 weeks, so I'm kind of evented out. I might just get myself some sandals and call it a day 😄
We always go spend the weekend with my mom and my extended family. We are very close and they are about 2.5 hrs away so we don't get to see them that often, especially in the winter. I am excited I haven't seen my mom in like 2 months.