Blue Lives Matter sign on inlaws house

[barcelonagirl]

Yall. It's been rough. Dh is brown but was raised by his white grandparents. His mom and dad. Mom passed away in 2009 and the step brothers from hell have moved in.

Last summer we came to visit and DH asked his dad to remove a confederate flag. He did so smoothly.

Now there's a blue lives matter sign on step brothers side of the house.

Dh is recently woke and is upset with his father for not realizing that our children are minorities.

Am I wrong for keeping meetings at my house or my normal sils house?

[andwhat]

Me nor my kids would be anywhere near these people

[barcelonagirl]

I thought so

PopPop came up to visit for my kids birthday and there was drinking and shouting and at one point I had to be like "yo that's your father" even though dh was right.

Ugh. My hubby is heartbroken.

[andwhat]

It is really hard when people you love disappoint you. I feel for your H and your family.

[bugandbibs]

I'm sorry.

I have no mercy and cut people out of our lives in a heartbeat. I wouldn't want my kids to grow up thinking that this stuff is okay and I wouldn't let them be at that house. I don't believe in tolerating racists for the sake of family peace.

[thejackpot]

So sorry. I know it's hard to untangle yourself from family but this is toxic. I wouldn't want my family around people like them.