Lol now I'm being blocked on fb from people i tagged. I wasn't even friends with them or had a connection to. I was able to match names because of who liked tambs fb pictures.
Also wait there's ALCOHOL in the gloss? Doesn't it dry the fuck out of your lips? That sounds awful.
I don't think in the gloss but in the color, yes. You put the color on first and it definitely burns and dries the shit out of your lips lol. Which is why you need the gloss on top. If you don't reapply the gloss (or at least A gloss--a cheapie $6 gloss works just as well IME) regularly, the color sort of peels off and your lips look like shit.
I'll finally post in this thread. LHC photoshopped? After all the times she made fun of my and my body. Omg that makes me ragey! She even harassed me on my fitness pal. I'm Going out for a rage filled run now. This should be good...
Yes I am. I have thought about it quite a bit, especially in light of discussions that were had on CEP about the need for white people not to live in a vacuum and to call out other white people on their shit. So I deliberately have stayed friends with her so that I can call her out on it if she says anything or posts anything.
And fwiw, I am unaware of any April 2012 other group or place that exists. The board has fairly well died after we got called out and reflected on our crappy racist behavior. We were not at all supportive to the WOC in our group and allowed racist behavior to go unchallenged and I know that I am ashamed of that. Some of us post elsewhere on here now.
Wait, I thought you were friends with her so you could keep an eye on her. You know, since you were so concerned for her well being when she left. Now it's so you could call her out? Something you couldn't do when she was actively posting on April?
"How do I NICELY explain to my husband that him hanging out with the guy that requires me to go to therapy for PTSD is something I don't want him to do?"
I remember telling my H about this at the time and his reaction was "oh, her husband is totally having an affair with this guy." I'm still surprised that none of us said that in this thread. If the stalker had been a woman, I'm sure this would have had a very different tone.
I, too, am curious to hear the other side of this story (and the church's story).
Wait, I thought you were friends with her so you could keep an eye on her. You know, since you were so concerned for her well being when she left. Now it's so you could call her out? Something you couldn't do when she was actively posting on April?
ETA: to delete FB piece.
That was the reason I did it in the first place. I became her fb friend only when she left here as I wanted to make sure she was ok at a distance.
When I was called out for being her fb formed a while she's, I was going to delete her. But I didn't because of what I said above about wanting to be able to call her out.
What, exactly, did you think you were going to do to "make sure she was ok"?
If you aren't actively communicating with her how would seeing her FB alert you to her needing "help"....and what would you even do to assist?
This is such a weird reason. And makes no sense.
And if you were concerned about her well-being, why would it be your goal to call her out? How does that help her if she "wasn't ok"!
I'll finally post in this thread. LHC photoshopped? After all the times she made fun of my and my body. Omg that makes me ragey! She even harassed me on my fitness pal. I'm Going out for a rage filled run now. This should be good...
What?! On MFP? that is "dedication"
Yes she used to comment on my diary, then I locked it, then on my exercises and what I did. I blocked her. Then she'd make comments here and try to message me
Yes she used to comment on my diary, then I locked it, then on my exercises and what I did. I blocked her. Then she'd make comments here and try to message me
😳
Also, why wouldn't you put her on blast for doing this?!
If someone here was literally stalking my MFP in multiple platforms and messaging me about it, no fucking way would I not drag them out for all to see.
Since this thread has everything, I just ran into a kid I knew from grade school. I made awkward small talk for a second but the second we walked away told H that this was the kid from the story I've told where someone tied my backpack to my chair. I NEVER FORGET.
What's more embarrassing is that I cried and couldn't figure out how to get myself out of that situation. Take the backpack off, idiot.
Since this thread has everything, I just ran into a kid I knew from grade school. I made awkward small talk for a second but the second we walked away told H that this was the kid from the story I've told where someone tied my backpack to my chair. I NEVER FORGET.
What's more embarrassing is that I cried and couldn't figure out how to get myself out of that situation. Take the backpack off, idiot.
Yes she used to comment on my diary, then I locked it, then on my exercises and what I did. I blocked her. Then she'd make comments here and try to message me
😳
Also, why wouldn't you put her on blast for doing this?!
If someone here was literally stalking my MFP in multiple platforms and messaging me about it, no fucking way would I not drag them out for all to see.
Because she was soooo "loved" here and no one stood up to here. She poked at me and my old food blog on the old place people were all over me for calling her out on that that I didn't want anymore here especially as weight issues are tough for me plus my mom had just died, just prior to her getting on me here and mfp, for obesity related diseases and i wasn't emotionally strong to deal with it
For a person who was a minister, her H always struck me as pretty selfish. I think he did what he wanted with little thought for her and their kids. And all the drama that always surrounded them on every assignment. While I get people in the church can be nosy assholes, when the places are changing, but you are the one constant, then you need to start looking at yourself.
Also, why wouldn't you put her on blast for doing this?!
If someone here was literally stalking my MFP in multiple platforms and messaging me about it, no fucking way would I not drag them out for all to see.
Because she was soooo "loved" here and no one stood up to here. She poked at me and my old food blog on the old place people were all over me for calling her out on that that I didn't want anymore here especially as weight issues are tough for me plus my mom had just died, just prior to her getting on me here and mfp, for obesity related diseases and i wasn't emotionally strong to deal with it
That was the reason I did it in the first place. I became her fb friend only when she left here as I wanted to make sure she was ok at a distance.
When I was called out for being her fb formed a while she's, I was going to delete her. But I didn't because of what I said above about wanting to be able to call her out.
I actually don't care why you're friends with her. I'm just pointing out inconsistency. I'm sure it's justified in your mind.
As for the others that added tamb as a friend after she left, not at all surprised. They were also members of the "let stellas post on April 12" group. What's a little racism if it comes with a group of people to discuss first day of school outfits with?
Also, why wouldn't you put her on blast for doing this?!
If someone here was literally stalking my MFP in multiple platforms and messaging me about it, no fucking way would I not drag them out for all to see.
Because she was soooo "loved" here and no one stood up to here. She poked at me and my old food blog on the old place people were all over me for calling her out on that that I didn't want anymore here especially as weight issues are tough for me plus my mom had just died, just prior to her getting on me here and mfp, for obesity related diseases and i wasn't emotionally strong to deal with it
Because she was soooo "loved" here and no one stood up to here. She poked at me and my old food blog on the old place people were all over me for calling her out on that that I didn't want anymore here especially as weight issues are tough for me plus my mom had just died, just prior to her getting on me here and mfp, for obesity related diseases and i wasn't emotionally strong to deal with it
This is terrible I'm sorry that happened to you.
Thank you. Thankfully it was a long time ago. Just after us all moving over here. She was a bitter person
I remember telling my H about this at the time and his reaction was "oh, her husband is totally having an affair with this guy." I'm still surprised that none of us said that in this thread. If the stalker had been a woman, I'm sure this would have had a very different tone.
I, too, am curious to hear the other side of this story (and the church's story).
Yes she used to comment on my diary, then I locked it, then on my exercises and what I did. I blocked her. Then she'd make comments here and try to message me
Yes she used to comment on my diary, then I locked it, then on my exercises and what I did. I blocked her. Then she'd make comments here and try to message me
What the FUCK? What was she saying?
She'd comment on what I ate She questioned my workouts She later questioned if I was really running 2000 miles for charity. That was the most recent 2 years ago She'd judge my food diary Call me obsessive and someone with issues who needed help
She'd comment on what I ate She questioned my workouts She later questioned if I was really running 2000 miles for charity. That was the most recent 2 years ago She'd judge my food diary Call me obsessive and someone with issues who needed help