FRIDAY

[cuddlyevil]

We made it people!!

What's going on today?

My nerd party may change a bit as one of the guys has to work. But the rest of us might get together for food, beer, and a movie or something.

Tomorrow is nothing, maybe work if I feel like it.

[gault]

Two 13 hour days in a row. Investigation about someone getting high and exposing himself in our warehouse. 3 new hires, one of which has never used a computer before. And my boss is no where to be found.

I have a headache and my throat hurts and need a big ol drink.

Whiny enough for ya? Lol

[doglove]

omg gault - what? Exposing himself at work? Never have used a computer before??

I'm exhausted, been awake since 4:30, but I got my 10 miler done this morning. Working on a big report while waiting for 5pm patiently so I can hang out with Buddy and some wine on the couch tonight.

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doglove I admire your dedication to the running!

Ugg C and I had a fight last night and I'm feeling terrible about it. It was definitely my fault. I have to buy tickets to an event for a nonprofit I volunteer for. I got them last night and sent him a text with the date and was like "and yes, we have to go." He doesn't really love these events but will go for me. I TOTALLY forgot that we had a convo on Sunday about him not wanting to go to this event and that I would take one of my other friends. It was casual in passing and I've had a crazy week at work and my brain is just full.

So we got into a text tiff because he kept saying "We JUST talked about this." But I thought he was referring to another conversation about me making decisions without including him (this one was a pretty big fight, but again we worked it out well). Anyway it was messy and then we were able to chat on the phone and I realized my mistake and why he would of course be upset. We left it and he was like "it's no big deal now that I understand, it's just that you usually have it so together it never dawned on me you wouldn't have remember the conversation." But uggg I feel so upset about it. Like I just keep screwing up and this relationship is going to fall apart all because of me. We have plans to hang tonight so I'm hoping that will make it better.

[chalupa]

gault that sounds like a miserable day.

I've also been doing 12 hour days this week - it's craziness.

But since I've been pulling so many hours, I felt exactly zero guilt about running to the barn at lunchtime. One of Larry's potential buyers came out for a test ride, and they do plan to make an offer. I have lots of mixed feelings about it - I was so proud of how nicely he rode for someone else, and they sound like a good home (professional coach wants him for a lesson horse for advance beginners and has a fabulous farm), but goddamn I'm super sad at the thought of him moving 12 hours away to NH.

[chalupa]

@pdx18, there are definite days where my brain is shot and I forgot what I ate for breakfast, much less conversations I had a week ago. You're human. Don't be so hard on yourself, and now that your mistake is cleared up, C can just get himself right over it, too

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Sept 29, 2017 13:43:51 GMT -5 chalupa said:

@pdx18 , there are definite days where my brain is shot and I forgot what I ate for breakfast, much less conversations I had a week ago. You're human. Don't be so hard on yourself, and now that your mistake is cleared up, C can just get himself right over it, too

Okay this makes me feel better! I think he is totally over it actually. I think it's me worrying that this is lingering around for him. He was actually very concerned about my week being hard because he totally didn't realize how stressful it was. 

[doglove]

Hugs @pdx18. 

[chalupa]

Sept 29, 2017 13:45:31 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Sept 29, 2017 13:43:51 GMT -5 chalupa said:

@pdx18 , there are definite days where my brain is shot and I forgot what I ate for breakfast, much less conversations I had a week ago. You're human. Don't be so hard on yourself, and now that your mistake is cleared up, C can just get himself right over it, too

Okay this makes me feel better! I think he is totally over it actually. I think it's me worrying that this is lingering around for him. He was actually very concerned about my week being hard because he totally didn't realize how stressful it was. 

I tell M all the time that I can't promise not to make mistakes, but I can promise not to be an asshole about it, LOL. We mis-communicate plans or get confused about conversations all the time, but we make it a point not to get snippy or short. SaveSave

[doglove]

(((((((((( chalupa )))))))))

[udscoobychick]

Sept 29, 2017 13:47:38 GMT -5 chalupa said:

Sept 29, 2017 13:45:31 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

Okay this makes me feel better! I think he is totally over it actually. I think it's me worrying that this is lingering around for him. He was actually very concerned about my week being hard because he totally didn't realize how stressful it was. 

I tell M all the time that I can't promise not to make mistakes, but I can promise not to be an asshole about it, LOL. We mis-communicate plans or get confused about conversations all the time, but we make it a point not to get snippy or short. SaveSave

I like this phrasing!

[cuddlyevil]

gault, I am so sorry! I hope you get a new job soon.

Hugs @pdx18 and chalupa

[cuddlyevil]

I took a three hour nap today. It was awesome.