TWW 10/7

[katespade]

seeyalater52 - I will never understand how people think it's okay to say such incredibly rude things like that. I'm sorry.

[seeyalater52]

Oct 12, 2017 12:57:31 GMT -5 compassrose said:

seeyalater52 , how people think it's their business how other people create their families is beyond me.

Also, I am the most type A research-oriented person EVER. Trust that I know basically everything there is to know about the cost-benefit analysis of every single family-building option. You kind of have to when you know from the get-go that you can't just have a baby with your spouse like everyone else does. It blows my mind that anyone who knows me in the least would try to offer suggestions assuming I hadn't considered them. I am kinda pissed. I'm so pissed I can't be sad anymore, so at least it feels like a less self-defeating way to channel my emotions. 

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seeyalater52, I'm so sorry you had to deal with that crap. People need to mind their own business.

[Jalapeñomel]

I came here first to see what the news was, and I’m sorry katespade and seeyalater52. I hope it’s just too early.

[tacom]

Oct 12, 2017 7:27:48 GMT -5 katespade said:

Oct 12, 2017 7:12:49 GMT -5 seeyalater52 said:

I’m so sorry. I am expecting mine to drop either tomorrow or Saturday.

I don't really know where to go from here. Everything about this cycle seemed to line up perfectly.

If it turns out you’re not too early and you’re out this cycle, remember there’s likely nothing you could have done.

We can have perfect timing, confirmed O, high temps and are still more likely than not to receive a BFN. Biology is hard! But when it works, it’s amazing.

Thinking of everyone today who’s having a rough go. ❤️

[katespade]

Oct 12, 2017 17:16:32 GMT -5 tacom said:

Oct 12, 2017 7:27:48 GMT -5 katespade said:

I don't really know where to go from here. Everything about this cycle seemed to line up perfectly.

If it turns out you’re not too early and you’re out this cycle, remember there’s likely nothing you could have done.

We can have perfect timing, confirmed O, high temps and are still more likely than not to receive a BFN. Biology is hard! But when it works, it’s amazing.

Thinking of everyone today who’s having a rough go. ❤️

Yeah, my temp dropped today so it's just a matter of time at this point. I'm expecting AF either tomorrow night or Saturday morning.

[compassrose]

Oct 12, 2017 17:16:32 GMT -5 tacom said:

Oct 12, 2017 7:27:48 GMT -5 katespade said:

I don't really know where to go from here. Everything about this cycle seemed to line up perfectly.

If it turns out you’re not too early and you’re out this cycle, remember there’s likely nothing you could have done.

We can have perfect timing, confirmed O, high temps and are still more likely than not to receive a BFN. Biology is hard! But when it works, it’s amazing.

Thinking of everyone today who’s having a rough go. ❤️

It's so true. There's only a 20% chance or so every month. Hard to not get your hopes up any given month, though.

[seeyalater52]

Oct 12, 2017 19:40:46 GMT -5 compassrose said:

Oct 12, 2017 17:16:32 GMT -5 tacom said:

If it turns out you’re not too early and you’re out this cycle, remember there’s likely nothing you could have done.

We can have perfect timing, confirmed O, high temps and are still more likely than not to receive a BFN. Biology is hard! But when it works, it’s amazing.

Thinking of everyone today who’s having a rough go. ❤️

It's so true. There's only a 20% chance or so every month. Hard to not get your hopes up any given month, though.

The odds (more like 15% for thawed sperm IUI) combined with our per cycle price tag is enough to give me near-constant anxiety. Anxiety on top of anxiety.

[seeyalater52]

My temp is pretty far down today. About halfway to cover. I think I’m out but I’m also house sitting and this place is freezing so I’m trying to tell myself it could be a fluke.

[katespade]

I started spotting last night and my temp dropped below cover this morning, so I'm definitely out.

Keeping my fingers crossed for your temp to go back up, seeyalater52!

[compassrose]

I’m so sorry, guys. Keep us updated seeyalater52.

[tacom]

Sorry katespade

[lessel]

Hugs, ladies.

[seeyalater52]

I'm sorry, katespade. This has been the MOST brutal week.

[katespade]

Who is still in at this point?

seeyalater52
@writererin

Anyone else?

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katespade, well, still in so far. My temp has been trending down the last couple of days, but it's still well above cover (and last month, it dropped very suddenly below cover...and then back up a bit before my period). I'm still dealing with small amounts of nausea, some hunger pains, exhaustion, and I'm super emotional. But the emotional-ness could also be PMS, so I don't know.

In any case, I'm probably going to test tomorrow morning before I go out with my girlfriends for the afternoon. If it's not a BFP, then I don't know what's been up with my body the last week and a half, because I certainly don't feel like I've caught a bug or anything.

[katespade]

Fingers crossed for you, @writererin!

[compassrose]

Good luck @writererin!

[seeyalater52]

Good luck @writererin! I am also testing again tomorrow morning if I don’t get my period.

[katespade]

I really hoped it would hold off until tomorrow, but apparently luck is not on my side. CD1.

[compassrose]

Damn. I’m sorry katespade.

[melsamoony]

Sorry katespade

[seeyalater52]

I’m sorry katespade. What a jerk cycle this was for you.

[seeyalater52]

BFN again. If I don’t get my period before Monday I’ll probbaly test one more time but at 13dpo I am not feeling optimistic.

[Deleted]

BFN for me too...

[compassrose]

I’m so sorry seeyalater52 and @writererin.

[seeyalater52]

I’m sorry @writererin.

[Deleted]

I'm sorry everyone. 🙁

[HoneySpider]

Sorry guys.

Yesterday was finally CD1 for me. Either my LP magically extended by a few days, or FF has been off on my O date the last 2 cycles. My cycles have always been pretty regular so not sure why FF is having such difficulty. Get it together!

[Deleted]

Thanks, guys. And I'm sorry for your BFN too, seeyalater52.