I’m heading to my brother’s apartment in Chicago with OPKs and my thermometer.
H and I️ scheduled a 1.5 hour window to see each other/BD on Monday before he leaves for Europe. And last week we only had 2-3 waking hours together as well due to his work trips.
TTC while traveling is a whole new ball game. 🙈 Hoping we can make this work!
Post by seeyalater52 on Nov 19, 2017 14:22:24 GMT -5
Anyone still in here?
Cd1 today. We just decided we have to take a break from trying until January. We just don’t have the money to purchase more sperm right now and the timing of my sister’s wedding in a few weeks makes it even more challenging and I think we need to wait to see if my wife gets the job she’s currently a finalist for before we make any other decisions. The boiler failing and our treatments thus far have really wiped out our savings more than I’m personally comfortable with.
Cd1 today. We just decided we have to take a break from trying until January. We just don’t have the money to purchase more sperm right now and the timing of my sister’s wedding in a few weeks makes it even more challenging and I think we need to wait to see if my wife gets the job she’s currently a finalist for before we make any other decisions. The boiler failing and our treatments thus far have really wiped out our savings more than I’m personally comfortable with.
I’m so sad.
I’m so sorry. Did you max put your FSA for next year?
Cd1 today. We just decided we have to take a break from trying until January. We just don’t have the money to purchase more sperm right now and the timing of my sister’s wedding in a few weeks makes it even more challenging and I think we need to wait to see if my wife gets the job she’s currently a finalist for before we make any other decisions. The boiler failing and our treatments thus far have really wiped out our savings more than I’m personally comfortable with.
I’m so sad.
I’m so sorry. Did you max put your FSA for next year?
We have until mid Dec to finalize it, but that’s the plan. However, I’m seeing mixed results about whether fertility treatments are allowable for same sex couples. It seems like it varies based on who administers the benefit. I have a friend who was just denied for sperm and an IUI after submitting receipts and a letter of medical necessity from her doctor because her plan doesn’t consider it fertility related if she is married to a woman. After doing some research this is apparently common so I want to be sure we can use it before I put the max in, as we wouldn’t be able to use quite that much otherwise. Fertility treatments AND donor sperm are both on the list of allowable expenses so one would assume that would be sufficient but of course it’s not ever that simple.
Post by seeyalater52 on Nov 19, 2017 15:00:30 GMT -5
Also because I hate myself I took one of those little internet quizzes about when you’re going to get pregnant and it told me January. So at least I have that.
Also because I hate myself I took one of those little internet quizzes about when you’re going to get pregnant and it told me January. So at least I have that.
Ha, mine had me for December... hoping they’re both true!
I’m so sorry you have to sit this out. It sucks to have to wait when you’re ready.
Also because I hate myself I took one of those little internet quizzes about when you’re going to get pregnant and it told me January. So at least I have that.
Ha, mine had me for December... hoping they’re both true!
I’m so sorry you have to sit this out. It sucks to have to wait when you’re ready.
Sending good vibes for when you are back in it!
I know you understand the frustration of being ready and benched! I hope the baby quiz is right in both our cases. <3
I really, really hope it turns out you can use the FSA seeyalater52. I pretty much abhor anything related to health insurance now.
YOU ARE TELLING ME. It haunts me at work, it haunts me at home, I cannot escape these evil fucks no matter where I go. I have an inquiry in and hopefully they’re able to give me a more straightforward answer to this than they have with my other questions. I am somewhat optimistic because I think I freaked them out a bit by calling them out. I’m scary because I’m good at my job and I know this shit inside and out.