supertrooper1 that makes me so sad. I am rocked by the evil I see - even seven or eight years ago DH and I discussed SS going into law enforcement but worried if HE was competent; the conversation changed to if the external to his performance danger was worth it.
It’s day three at the beach and I am getting more work done than any other kids and DH off break. I think the key is taking them somewhere - so they can explore - and I can work. At home DH goes and does whatever he wants without kids - so i have to hire a sitter or deal with them. Glad I am off when they are off on Christmas break.
This makes me think we may try a three week summer rental and have DH and I️ work 4 day weeks and let DD field the younger two for the other three days.