State of the Ute 11/28

[gigem]

So sorry tacom

[MrsE]

Hugs tacom

[sarapocalypse]

*hugs* tacom

[seeyalater52]

My wife didn’t get the job. Today is the worst fucking day. I’m not sure we can keep trying at all now and I am in a really bad place.

[katespade]

(((((seeyalater52))))) I am so, so sorry about the job! I hope you're able to figure something out.

[gigem]

seeyalater52, oh i am so so sorry. i wish i had something really wise and inspiring to say, but know that you and your wife are in my thoughts.

[seeyalater52]

Thanks you guys. It’s just such a dark time. I know things have to get better but in the meantime it just really sucks. We really thought she would get it. SEVEN interviews, a long exercise/writing prompt and contacting references is a lot to put someone through.

[sarapocalypse]

I am so sorry seeyalater52! *hugs*

[compassrose]

I’m so sorry seeyalater52. I hope there’s a way that things work out that you just can’t see yet. ((Hugs))

[melsamoony]

@seeyalater42 (hugs) so sorry.

[melsamoony]

@seeyalater42 (hugs) so sorry.

[noodleoo]

seeyalater52 , oh man, I’m so sorry. I’ve been following your posts on CEP and here and I can’t imagine how hard this is. So many hugs to you and your wife. I hope you can put it out of your mind a little and enjoy the wedding with you family this weekend.

[MrsE]

Big, big hugs seeyalater52

[katespade]

FF says I should test today, but I still feel like AF is about to start any second and I don't want to waste a test.

[compassrose]

Dec 2, 2017 10:46:37 GMT -5 katespade said:

FF says I should test today, but I still feel like AF is about to start any second and I don't want to waste a test.

How many DPO? 14? Test tomorrow if no AF for sure!

[katespade]

Dec 2, 2017 11:20:28 GMT -5 compassrose said:

Dec 2, 2017 10:46:37 GMT -5 katespade said:

FF says I should test today, but I still feel like AF is about to start any second and I don't want to waste a test.

How many DPO? 14? Test tomorrow if no AF for sure!

Yep, 14 DPO. I gave into temptation after I posted. BFN.

[tacom]

seeyalater52 I’m so sorry about the job. Ugh!

katespade sorry about the BFN. Thinking of you today

[compassrose]

Gah. katespade. I’m so sorry. It’s so heartbreaking every time.

[sarapocalypse]

So sorry katespade!

[onthemove]

I'm so sorry seeyalater52 that is so disappointing. I hope you can put it aside for a couple days to enjoy the wedding and time with family. And then of course do what you need to to take care of yourself and each other.

Hugs katespade

[Jalapeñomel]

Hugs to you both, @seeyalater and katespade

The pharmacy just phoned to let me know my trigger shot won’t make it by tomorrow night, and I can’t get a hold of my doctor. Don’t really know what I’m supposed to do with two IUIs scheduled for Monday and Tuesday.

[compassrose]

Dec 2, 2017 15:30:07 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Hugs to you both, @seeyalater and katespade

The pharmacy just phoned to let me know my trigger shot won’t make it by tomorrow night, and I can’t get a hold of my doctor. Don’t really know what I’m supposed to do with two IUIs scheduled for Monday and Tuesday.

WTH. Did you leave a message for the on call doctor?
That really sucks. Maybe they can call it in to a different pharmacy?

[Jalapeñomel]

Dec 2, 2017 20:40:06 GMT -5 compassrose said:

Dec 2, 2017 15:30:07 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Hugs to you both, @seeyalater and katespade

The pharmacy just phoned to let me know my trigger shot won’t make it by tomorrow night, and I can’t get a hold of my doctor. Don’t really know what I’m supposed to do with two IUIs scheduled for Monday and Tuesday.

WTH. Did you leave a message for the on call doctor?
That really sucks. Maybe they can call it in to a different pharmacy?

No one is answering at the doctor’s office.

[gigem]

katespade im so sorry

[compassrose]

Dec 2, 2017 21:29:20 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Dec 2, 2017 20:40:06 GMT -5 compassrose said:

WTH. Did you leave a message for the on call doctor?
That really sucks. Maybe they can call it in to a different pharmacy?

No one is answering at the doctor’s office.

I’m so sorry. I hope they call you back this morning.

[onthemove]

Dec 2, 2017 21:29:20 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Dec 2, 2017 20:40:06 GMT -5 compassrose said:

WTH. Did you leave a message for the on call doctor?
That really sucks. Maybe they can call it in to a different pharmacy?

No one is answering at the doctor’s office.

this is reidiculous, this whole thing is not fair to begin with, to then have problems like this is just maddening, I’m sorry.

[Jalapeñomel]

Dec 3, 2017 9:36:36 GMT -5 compassrose said:

Dec 2, 2017 21:29:20 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

No one is answering at the doctor’s office.

I’m so sorry. I hope they call you back this morning.

I updated at TTTC, but I chatted with my doc this morning. I’ll do the iui in the morning, trigger tomorrow night if I haven’t ovulated, and then schedule my second iui for Wednesday.

[seeyalater52]

I’m so sorry katespade about the negative test. Sending hugs.

Jalapeñomel I’m glad you have a solution but wtf to the pharmacy. This stuff is time sensitive, you’d think they’d have a better system in place!

[melsamoony]

katespade sorry for the BFN they truly suck.

Jalapeñomel sorry for the frustration but glad you have an answer.

[gigem]

Jalapeñomel good luck, thinking good thoughts for you tomorrow!