Happy Friday!

[gault]

What's up with all of you this weekend? Or tonight?

It's been busy on my end, social wise. Trying to keep busy and fight off winter blues and breakup blues.

Tonight I'm meeting some old co-workers for happy hour. Tomorrow I'm getting together with a current coworker for dinner and a movie... And it may or may not be a date. Eeeeeee.

Sunday is all open, and I have monday off for the holiday! Woo!

[tiramisu]

I'm still feeling sick. At the opthalmologist right now, waiting to be seen by one more person, then I can get my fasting labs done and then finally have coffee and breakfast. Although good doesn't sound all that good at the moment.

Tonight I was going to see a play, but I feel too crappy for that. Tomorrow afternoon I'm going to a dance performance. Maybe if I'm up for the play by then I'll go, since that's closing night. Nothing else planned this 4 day weekend besides working on the workshop I'm doing on vicarious trauma and self care.

[udscoobychick]

Sounds like fun, gault!
Feel better soon, tiramisu!

I'm teaching tonight. Tomorrow, we're going out for burgers and to see Black Panther for a friend's birthday. Sunday is a movie afternoon at a friend's house (I think Blade Runner?) and the normal teaching stuff Sunday evening.

[spindle92]

I am having dinner and drinks with a couple friends tonight as we watch the Olympics and cheer for Lindsey Vonn. GO TEAM USA!!!!

Tomorrow I am watching my super fun 1 year old great nephew. Kid is an absolute ham and is so fun to be around.

Sunday is a day of taxes. I am doing almost my entire families taxes and I need to get started.

[bullygirl979]

gault, I say this with love...I don't want to see you get even more hurt so is it the best idea to go on another date if you are still feeling upset about XBF? I am the first one to say there isn't a prescribed timeline for getting over someone but this feels...rushed? as you guys are still living together and broke up not that long ago. I just don't want to see you get hurt, lady. Feel free to tell me to STFU.

[bullygirl979]

tiramisu, feel better!

[idahome]

I worked from the hospital today so I was around to take my dad home when he was released. Good news: he's finally released and is home. He's still processing everything, mentally, but he's happy to be home.

This weekend I'm hoping for some "me" time. I need to catch up on work and clean the house. Super exciting: hair cut is scheduled tomorrow. Its been months since my last haircut, so I can't wait.

[gault]

Feb 16, 2018 17:07:43 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

gault, I say this with love...I don't want to see you get even more hurt so is it the best idea to go on another date if you are still feeling upset about XBF? I am the first one to say there isn't a prescribed timeline for getting over someone but this feels...rushed? as you guys are still living together and broke up not that long ago. I just don't want to see you get hurt, lady. Feel free to tell me to STFU.

Oh I'm not upset over exbf. It was the best thing for both of us. But I know what you're saying. It is a weird in between situation. And I certainly don't want to get hurt either.

We actually pushed it to next week because he has to work this weekend.

This wasn't something that was planned, on my end at least.

[bullygirl979]

Feb 16, 2018 17:23:36 GMT -5 gault said:

Feb 16, 2018 17:07:43 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

gault, I say this with love...I don't want to see you get even more hurt so is it the best idea to go on another date if you are still feeling upset about XBF? I am the first one to say there isn't a prescribed timeline for getting over someone but this feels...rushed? as you guys are still living together and broke up not that long ago. I just don't want to see you get hurt, lady. Feel free to tell me to STFU.

Oh I'm not upset over exbf. It was the best thing for both of us. But I know what you're saying. It is a weird in between situation. And I certainly don't want to get hurt either.

We actually pushed it to next week because he has to work this weekend.

This wasn't something that was planned, on my end at least.

I misunderstood your initial post. I thought “breakup blues” meant you were still working through your sadness over the relationship ending.

[gault]

Feb 16, 2018 17:33:24 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

Feb 16, 2018 17:23:36 GMT -5 gault said:

Oh I'm not upset over exbf. It was the best thing for both of us. But I know what you're saying. It is a weird in between situation. And I certainly don't want to get hurt either.

We actually pushed it to next week because he has to work this weekend.

This wasn't something that was planned, on my end at least.

I misunderstood your initial post. I thought “breakup blues” meant you were still working through your sadness over the relationship ending.

Yeah sorry. I worded it wrong. Basically trying to keep busy so things don't get awkward here. He's going to move out in March, which is great.