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[Jalapeñomel]

Apparently Bobby and Danielle waste no time and are expecting.

[meowmaps]

I guess Bobby got his way. I thought her face looked a little fuller in the reunion clips.

[Jalapeñomel]

Oct 23, 2018 18:35:35 GMT -5 meowmaps said:

I guess Bobby got his way. I thought her face looked a little fuller in the reunion clips.

Think she’ll quit her job?

[calle28]

I really liked them! Hope it works out for them.

[meowmaps]

Oct 23, 2018 19:52:38 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Oct 23, 2018 18:35:35 GMT -5 meowmaps said:

I guess Bobby got his way. I thought her face looked a little fuller in the reunion clips.

Think she’ll quit her job?

It's a good question.  She caved on the kid-timeline so maybe she'll go part-time or quit or find something closer to home.  I know she hated the long commute from his/their house.    

[NomadicMama]

I hope it all works out for Danielle and Bobby!!

I’m so glad that the reunion is an actual reunion—three months after decision day.

I’ve just started watching…

[fernweh]

I’m surprised they were able to keep it under wraps that they were going to be in Happily Ever After.

[cbwm1]

Sooooo not surprised about Amber and Dave.

[NomadicMama]

Oct 23, 2018 21:23:39 GMT -5 cbwm1 said:

Sooooo not surprised about Amber and Dave.

He seemed really cold. I was impressed by Amber’s composure. I wonder how much if her neediness was really founded by his inability to get over this guy from the gym having dated her. (And it sounded like this was a “buddy” from the gym as opposed to one of his close friend group.) Maybe he was giving off vibes and signs that she was picking up? (Personally, I think it was a combination of the two, but it makes him look like he checked out much earlier than it appeared.)

[fernweh]

Oct 23, 2018 21:46:39 GMT -5 NomadicMama said:

Oct 23, 2018 21:23:39 GMT -5 cbwm1 said:

Sooooo not surprised about Amber and Dave.

He seemed really cold. I was impressed by Amber’s composure. I wonder how much if her neediness was really founded by his inability to get over this guy from the gym having dated her. (And it sounded like this was a “buddy” from the gym as opposed to one of his close friend group.) Maybe he was giving off vibes and signs that she was picking up? (Personally, I think it was a combination of the two, but it makes him look like he checked out much earlier than it appeared.)

I took it to be a defense mechanism. He was never warm and fuzzy anyway but if I had ever come home and my spouse had moved out without warning I would be hurt and cold too. I don’t blame him for not wanting to try anymore. You can’t just move out every time things get tough and expect to be welcomed back with open arms when you get lonely.

[peachy]

Oct 23, 2018 21:46:39 GMT -5 NomadicMama said:

Oct 23, 2018 21:23:39 GMT -5 cbwm1 said:

Sooooo not surprised about Amber and Dave.

He seemed really cold. I was impressed by Amber’s composure. I wonder how much if her neediness was really founded by his inability to get over this guy from the gym having dated her. (And it sounded like this was a “buddy” from the gym as opposed to one of his close friend group.) Maybe he was giving off vibes and signs that she was picking up? (Personally, I think it was a combination of the two, but it makes him look like he checked out much earlier than it appeared.)

I got the feeling it was something his buddy said about her that totally turned him off, not that he was bothered by the existence of their previous relationship. I spaced out some episodes though so I could be way off.

[meowmaps]

Oct 24, 2018 7:11:04 GMT -5 peachy said:

Oct 23, 2018 21:46:39 GMT -5 NomadicMama said:

He seemed really cold. I was impressed by Amber’s composure. I wonder how much if her neediness was really founded by his inability to get over this guy from the gym having dated her. (And it sounded like this was a “buddy” from the gym as opposed to one of his close friend group.) Maybe he was giving off vibes and signs that she was picking up? (Personally, I think it was a combination of the two, but it makes him look like he checked out much earlier than it appeared.)

I got the feeling it was something his buddy said about her that totally turned him off, not that he was bothered by the existence of their previous relationship. I spaced out some episodes though so I could be way off.

I got that impression too.  I'd really like to know what the friend said but I like that Dave never said anything publicly because that does show some level of respect for Amber.   

[cleo29]

Oct 24, 2018 7:11:04 GMT -5 peachy said:

Oct 23, 2018 21:46:39 GMT -5 NomadicMama said:

He seemed really cold. I was impressed by Amber’s composure. I wonder how much if her neediness was really founded by his inability to get over this guy from the gym having dated her. (And it sounded like this was a “buddy” from the gym as opposed to one of his close friend group.) Maybe he was giving off vibes and signs that she was picking up? (Personally, I think it was a combination of the two, but it makes him look like he checked out much earlier than it appeared.)

I got the feeling it was something his buddy said about her that totally turned him off, not that he was bothered by the existence of their previous relationship. I spaced out some episodes though so I could be way off.

I agree and it might have had to do with her insecurity.  I feel like, while he would have seen it eventually, when someone points out something you have not noticed before, it becomes all you can see.

[marie]

I also agree that it was something more than he insecurities that he heard from the gym buddy. It was very big of him to never publicly expose it though.

[Jalapeñomel]

Oct 23, 2018 21:23:39 GMT -5 cbwm1 said:

Sooooo not surprised about Amber and Dave.

Was there news on them? I'm lost. 

[cbwm1]

Oct 24, 2018 12:11:17 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Oct 23, 2018 21:23:39 GMT -5 cbwm1 said:

Sooooo not surprised about Amber and Dave.

Was there news on them? I'm lost. 

In the reunion last night, they revealed that Dave couldn’t let the whole thing go with the fact that Amber dated a “friend” of his from the gym, Amber got pissed that he wouldn’t let it go and she moved out one day when he was gone. He didn’t let her move back in, but said they could maybe work on it but during the show, he told her he was done and ready to move on.