90 Day Fiancee last night?

[cleo29]

1) Fernanda people look at you in the gym because you make sex noises when you lift weights. You're welcome. lol

2) I am was annoyed Colt would plan something for Larissa that he knew she feared. She got better with it, but it is like he does not understand fear of heights at all. "I know you have a fear of heights, but look at that view!"

3) Kelly (the blond from PA,  I think) reminds me of January Jones playing Betty Draper and now that is all I can see.  The barber shop scene was killing me.

4)Steven was being an asshole. Olga needs to let him learn how to be a dad and let him touch his kid all he wants. He needs to not be a controlling dick to her. he mentions growing up in a house where the parents yelled and were well... assholes and yet the way he was talking to Olga was terrible.

5) Eric (Dude in PA) needs to stop making excuses and get on the ball with things.

[yourmother]

I have so much to say about this episode. I'll come back later.

Did we (anyone here) know that Larrissa has TWO kids?

[cleo29]

Nov 19, 2018 13:27:24 GMT -5 yourmother said:

I have so much to say about this episode. I'll come back later.

Did we (anyone here) know that Larrissa has TWO kids?

Say what?? No! I did read an article that said she went on the show for the money.

[gummy]

Nov 19, 2018 13:31:28 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Nov 19, 2018 13:27:24 GMT -5 yourmother said:

I have so much to say about this episode. I'll come back later.

Did we (anyone here) know that Larrissa has TWO kids?

Say what?? No! I did read an article that said she went on the show for the money.

And had some sort of stint in prison.

[cleo29]

Nov 19, 2018 13:27:24 GMT -5 yourmother said:

I have so much to say about this episode. I'll come back later.

Did we (anyone here) know that Larrissa has TWO kids?

SO just read that when her son was 7 months old she left him with the father and her daughter is currently living with HER father and that she will bring her to the states when she is ready to take care of her.

[egishere]

Yes the Fernanda working out scene was crazy. Ick!

I used to like stephen but I couldn't believe what a controlling asshole he was being! Poor Olga. I really hope he was just way tired and had a bad day and is not really like that.

I couldn't stop laughing when Asulu was talking about condoms and saying they are only for slut people!! Kanini or whatever her name is went way overboard flipping out on him when the baby was crying and he took him out of the car seat. He doesn't know any better but she acted like he did something to the kid to make him cry that hard. She doesn't even act like she's into Asulu-she sucks.

I still need to watch the rest to see the proposal from Colt-y.

[cleo29]

Nov 19, 2018 13:42:32 GMT -5 egishere said:

Yes the Fernanda working out scene was crazy. Ick!

I used to like stephen but I couldn't believe what a controlling asshole he was being! Poor Olga. I really hope he was just way tired and had a bad day and is not really like that.

I couldn't stop laughing when Asulu was talking about condoms and saying they are only for slut people!! Kanini or whatever her name is went way overboard flipping out on him when the baby was crying and he took him out of the car seat. He doesn't know any better but she acted like he did something to the kid to make him cry that hard. She doesn't even act like she's into Asulu-she sucks.

I still need to watch the rest to see the proposal from Colt-y.

I also thought it took Kalani a while to pull over.  And if you know in his country laws about seat belts, etc are not the same here, then tell him from the get go. And I hold her just as responsible for him not wearing a condom when they had sex. Also, his voice in no way matches him in looks. You see this big guy and expect a deep, big voice so it always throws me off.

Larissa adding the -ee sound to everything is driving me nuts. just stop!

[meowmaps]

You all have covered everything that stuck out to me.

I was really disappointed in Steven. I think he was behaving that way because he felt like he had no control over the situation and wanted to get home where he could he as involved as he wanted. Still, that's no excuse for being a dick to Olga. She just had major surgery and her hormones are out of control. He needs to cut her some slack.

Kalani is such a dud. What does Asuelu (sp?) see in her anyway? She's bossy and mean. I think he's doing the best he can with the limited knowledge he has about American culture and laws. He might not be an expert at parenting but you can tell that he loves his kid and he's trying.

[cleo29]

Nov 19, 2018 14:51:01 GMT -5 meowmaps said:

You all have covered everything that stuck out to me.

I was really disappointed in Steven. I think he was behaving that way because he felt like he had no control over the situation and wanted to get home where he could he as involved as he wanted. Still, that's no excuse for being a dick to Olga. She just had major surgery and her hormones are out of control. He needs to cut her some slack.

Kalani is such a dud. What does Asuelu (sp?) see in her anyway? She's bossy and mean. I think he's doing the best he can with the limited knowledge he has about American culture and laws. He might not be an expert at parenting but you can tell that he loves his kid and he's trying.

I think her entire family is holding him to a ridiculous standard, that he should automatically know everything about being a dad or taking care of a baby when he has never really been around one like this. Give him a break.

I agree about the reasons for Steven's behavior, but still found it tough to watch or listen to. he was an ass about her not moving fast enough (we finally get to leave so we will go when i want to go) and then giving her a hard time about feeding him and then when he is holding the baby, he tells her she thinks he is hungry. Well, next time let her finish feeding him without pressure, numbnuts.

[cleo29]

Nov 19, 2018 16:29:23 GMT -5 jeaniebueller said:

Kalini was totally out of line in that scene, screaming at him because the baby was crying. He probably had no idea what to do, that's why he took the kid out of the seat.

And I just do not get Eric and Leida. There is no chemistry between them and I cannot believe he is only 40

Yes, he is looking really rough for 40.

Kalani is kind of setting Asuelo to fail. yelling at him for the baby crying when there is only so much you can do in the car. Who knows why the baby was crying?? I think she is too hard on him, like a passive aggressive move because he did not come over sooner.

[mags]

Steven sounds like an abusive j-off. He keeps saying he has anger issues...yeah no shit. I fear for the baby.

Kalani- is she kidding me? she needs to be put in her place a bit.

[yourmother]

Team Asuelo all the way. Kalani is so mean and immature. Her family is awful. They all remind me of a Family Chantal.

Olga needs to run. Steven is mean and immature. Yuck.

The workout scene with Jonathan and Fernanda made me want to barf. She seems to have SOME sense, always questioning Jonathan's choices.

I LIVE for the Eric and Leida dramaz. This is the most bizarre coupling this season. I can't seem to figure out the endgame here. I CANNOT be older than Eric. CANNOT.

I wonder what Ashley thinks about what Jay said in the barber shop about not getting married if he didn't have to. Oh boy!

I WAS Team Larrissa until I read last night that she has two kids that she doesn't take care of. She didn't seem to have the poverty situation that Hazel was in. Colty is too rigid for me to sympathize with him.

[cleo29]

I think most of these people would not rush to marriage if they could move here to date the person.

[Jalapeñomel]

Except for Asuelo, none of these guys are worth any of this nonsense.

Larissa clearly thinks Colt has money but is just cheap. Cheapee, Coltee!

[meowmaps]

I really don't get Leida. Surely she could've found an attractive American man with a better paying job and no adult children sharing his living space. Her life in Jakarta is way better than anything Eric is offering her.

[cleo29]

Nov 19, 2018 19:26:43 GMT -5 meowmaps said:

I really don't get Leida. Surely she could've found an attractive American man with a better paying job and no adult children sharing his living space. Her life in Jakarta is way better than anything Eric is offering her.

Yeah, i don't really get it. I am guessing she wants to get out from her parent's control, but she also lives a nice life because of them.

[frlcb]

Nov 19, 2018 13:50:16 GMT -5 cleo29 said:

Nov 19, 2018 13:42:32 GMT -5 egishere said:

Yes the Fernanda working out scene was crazy. Ick!

I used to like stephen but I couldn't believe what a controlling asshole he was being! Poor Olga. I really hope he was just way tired and had a bad day and is not really like that.

I couldn't stop laughing when Asulu was talking about condoms and saying they are only for slut people!! Kanini or whatever her name is went way overboard flipping out on him when the baby was crying and he took him out of the car seat. He doesn't know any better but she acted like he did something to the kid to make him cry that hard. She doesn't even act like she's into Asulu-she sucks.

I still need to watch the rest to see the proposal from Colt-y.

I also thought it took Kalani a while to pull over.  And if you know in his country laws about seat belts, etc are not the same here, then tell him from the get go. And I hold her just as responsible for him not wearing a condom when they had sex. Also, his voice in no way matches him in looks. You see this big guy and expect a deep, big voice so it always throws me off.

Larissa adding the -ee sound to everything is driving me nuts. just stop!

OMG, I wanted to throw something at her when she added the -ee to the end of everything. It was so beyond annoying. 

[NomadicMama]

So few of the participants are endearing themselves to me this season except Asuelu. He is trying despite Kalani throwing him under the bus and her family rushing to judgement based on Kalani’s narrative. He is dealing with language challenges as well as total culture shock. Give him a break!!!

Colt taking Larissa to the Stratosphere was completely tone deaf. My bet is that he had heard of someone proposing there, thought it was a great idea and didn’t care that she is terrified of heights. This is how their relationship will continue, despite her nagging him otherwise. I feel badly for her children. She doesn’t appear to have a maternal sense at all.

I feel badly that Leida disrespected Eric by taking her family on a tour of his apartment and trash talked about him behind his back. Yes, the apartment is lacking and was gross, but this is Eric’s reality. The preview of Leida telling Tasha to move out is brutal. I puke not be surprised if she badgers him again about having/wanting to pay child support. If she wanted a sugar daddy, she picked very poorly! Her dad looked like he was trying to figure out how to help and remain polite.

Fernanda in the gym? Jonathan needs to invest in home gym equipment if that’s how she always behaves at the gym.

[cleo29]

NomadicMama, H has come across many women who make those noises while lifting and it is always distracting and uncomfortable. Just exhale like a normal person!