I had my final interview for the job on Friday, and they made me an offer yesterday afternoon. 17% increase in pay, plus bonus eligibility! And while I'm "losing" PTO vs where I am now, I'm getting 5 more days than the recruiter initially told me. Woot!
Meanwhile DH's job has enough work to get them through 2021, and his budget for this year went through, so his salary and bonus are set for 2019. Whew!