Friyay!!!

[doriswe]

What’s everyone up to this weekend?

[doriswe]

We’re moving DD into her first apartment tomorrow, so we’ll be driving a lot, lifting a lot and probably driving each other crazy. R is coming, along with one of his kids, so that will be interesting as DD hasn’t met his kids.

Sunday I’m taking DS to see Dear Evan Hansen. I took Monday off since I’ll be running all over the place all weekend.

[neonpink]

Tonight H and I are heading to a secrets location comedy show that’s BYOB. We find out the location today at noon.

Tomorrow is a big Atlanta United game so I’ll be at the tailgate with friends then off to the game.

Sunday is yoga and the usual chores. Groceries etc.
Maybe a bike ride. I read about a new trail near me that is really pretty with lots of trees.

[bullygirl979]

doriswe, GL with the move! And let me know how Dear Evan Hansen is.

[bullygirl979]

Tonight I'm grabbing dinner with my closest friend, who decided to take a job in Utah. Wah.

Tomorrow I'm doing a run with a running group, having lunch with a new Meetup I joined, then going to a clothing swap with another meetup group. Can you tell I'm trying to make friends, lol. Later it's my friend's official going away party.

Nothing planned yet for Sunday.

[spindle92]

It's my birthday weekend and I clearly like to eat and drink because I have lots of meals planned.
Tonight - Happy hour
Saturday - lunch with my family and then dinner with a big group of friends
Sunday - brunch with my cousin and her husband and then dinner with another group of friends.

[bullygirl979]

spindle92, happy early birthday!

[spindle92]

May 31, 2019 8:06:38 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

spindle92 , happy early birthday!

Thank you.

It was 5 years when S was serving us tequila shots and  we saw the "dollar dollar bills yo" picture!   HAHAHAHA that will never not be funny.

[doglove]

A is headed out of town tomorrow for his grandmothers funeral, so I’ll be on my own for a few days. One of our pups is having surgery today to remove a mass on one of her nipples, hoping it’s nothing and that she makes a speedy recovery (with her ankle as well).

Tomorrow I have a funeral to attend for a friend/coworkers husband. He was so young and died suddenly after a quick illness. He was always a kind and sweet man, I hate it for her.

The rest of the weekend is probably a lot of napping, watching all the Netflix shows A won’t watch and catching up on my reading.

[doglove]

Happy early birthday spindle92!

[bullygirl979]

May 31, 2019 8:20:55 GMT -5 spindle92 said:

May 31, 2019 8:06:38 GMT -5 bullygirl979 said:

spindle92 , happy early birthday!

Thank you.

It was 5 years when S was serving us tequila shots and  we saw the "dollar dollar bills yo" picture!   HAHAHAHA that will never not be funny.

HAHAHA. I know. I saw the picture of me and doglove and I cracked up.

[doglove]

Can’t believe that was 5 years ago already.

[bullygirl979]

Can I just tell y'all that I feel like THE MEANEST doggy mom ever? Nora is on prednisone so she is incredibly thirsty and hungry. If I put 4 cups of water down, she'd drink the whole thing. Same with food. So I am rationing her water out so she drinks throughout the day and same with food. She acts like she's starving and dying of thirst and is making me feel SO guilty, haha.

[doglove]

Are you home bullygirl979? I wouldn’t restrict the water if you are, I’m sure she’s thirsty.

[bullygirl979]

May 31, 2019 9:44:30 GMT -5 doglove said:

Are you home bullygirl979 ? I wouldn’t restrict the water if you are, I’m sure she’s thirsty.

Yup. I work from home. So I meter her out to have some every 45 minutes or so. She's on so many meds I can't afford her puking!

ETA: lest someone from another board reading this feels like I'm abusing my dog. She is getting A LOT more to drink than she normally takes in (yes, I roughly know how much she drinks in a day). I just can't risk her puking up her immunosuppressants so I give it to her a bit at a time so she doesn't gulp it all down and then puke.

[kaneen]

I'm on a 1.5 hour call that I do NOT need to be on. Obviously, I'm paying close attention.

I don't have a ton going on this weekend which is good because last weekend was packed and I really need to do a bunch of cleaning. Tonight I'm going to Netflix it up. I'm watching Ozark and it is DARK but I'm loving it. Saturday I'll clean and do laundry during the day and then I told my mom I'd go see a movie with her in the evening. Sunday I'm hoping to get some time on the beach during the day and then Sunday evening I'm going to a charity/silent auction/wine tasting event.

I had a really really sad day yesterday over my Ex because I found an old group text string between me, him, and two of our friends. I made the mistake of reading the whole thing and it brought it all back to me. That prick was making future plans and talking about marrying me in the thread TWO DAYS before he left me. TWO DAYS. Anyway, I went through and looked for every single text where he was included and deleted them all so I won't torture myself again.

[kaneen]

Happy early bday spindle92!

C'mon ladies, you know inside jokes hurt people's feelings.

[doriswe]

(( kaneen ))

[bullygirl979]

kaneen, big hugs to you.

[doglove]

Big hugs kaneen.

[kaneen]

Thanks doriswe, doglove, bullygirl979, the hugs help! Today was better but not by much. I’m still so confused as to how he could have done what he did. I know I have to find a way to be good with never understanding it, I just don’t know how to do that.

[doglove]

May 31, 2019 16:36:06 GMT -5 kaneen said:

Thanks doriswe, doglove, bullygirl979, the hugs help! Today was better but not by much. I’m still so confused as to how he could have done what he did. I know I have to find a way to be good with never understanding it, I just don’t know how to do that.

Living with the confusion sucks. I still don’t really understand my first marriage and what happened other than he was a selfish jerk. Just know that you are worthy of someone who will never leave you confused and hurt like this. Big hugs.

[spindle92]

Lots and lots of hugs kaneen.
To quote my 8 yr old next door neighbor - "Boys are dumb".

[bullygirl979]

kaneen, I honestly think that's the hardest part...the not knowing and understanding why. I'm sorry. It's such a mindf*ck. I agree wtih DL, though, that you are worth sooooo much more than a guy who would do that.