Tuesday Shenanigans

[SwimDeep]

What are you up to this week? ... Work? Play?

I'm going through changes...I made the decision to come off my meds, and I'm actually feeling pretty good! Lighter - brighter - and less foggy headed. I've been avoiding the GBCN boards because I've been waiting for my thinking to settle down a little bit. Everything's going at light speed, and I feel like I can finally keep up

I'm worried about my H. He's had a hernia for a while (more than a year), and he's just now taking care of it. He went to the surgeon today and found out he doesn't have one - but two! hernias. Of course, the surgeon that he saw is going on vacation tomorrow for two weeks. So my H won't get into surgery until the second week of July But at least he has the paperwork to go on short term disability now.
I've been really worried about this for a long time. I'm so relieved he's finally taking care of it!

Other than that, it's a daily grind for me - work, groceries, sleep... totally boring

[downtoearth]

Completely off your meds? Wow - I didn't know that was possible. So glad that it's going well for you. Not good that your H has double hernias. That is terrible.

My random is that I joined Tinder late last night and as I fell asleep I accidentally swiped right on two people and then matched and now I have to just ignore, right? Ack. I already messed up. I'm so weird and was really just looking, but I might not be ready for dating or dating apps.

[doriswe]

Jun 18, 2019 16:41:09 GMT -5 downtoearth said:

Completely off your meds? Wow - I didn't know that was possible. So glad that it's going well for you. Not good that your H has double hernias. That is terrible.

My random is that I joined Tinder late last night and as I fell asleep I accidentally swiped right on two people and then matched and now I have to just ignore, right? Ack. I already messed up. I'm so weird and was really just looking, but I might not be ready for dating or dating apps.

You can unmatch, easy peasy!!

[downtoearth]

Jun 18, 2019 21:40:24 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Jun 18, 2019 16:41:09 GMT -5 downtoearth said:

Completely off your meds? Wow - I didn't know that was possible. So glad that it's going well for you. Not good that your H has double hernias. That is terrible.

My random is that I joined Tinder late last night and as I fell asleep I accidentally swiped right on two people and then matched and now I have to just ignore, right? Ack. I already messed up. I'm so weird and was really just looking, but I might not be ready for dating or dating apps.

You can unmatch, easy peasy!!

Funny thing is one person sent me a message right away saying, "You probably accidentally swiped right on me, huh?"

He is not someone I would swipe on since he seems super conservative and Christian, which is probably why he would say that. But I didn't know how to answer, so I told him the truth that I was looking as I feel asleep and accidentally swiped on a couple people, but then asked how he could tell. He replied, "I just knew it. I think it's just my low-low self esteem and I'll never get a girl like you." Ugh. I then replied, "Good luck and don't beat yourself up." Then I deleted. I am not good at this, but I do feel bad.

[doglove]

Jun 19, 2019 11:18:52 GMT -5 downtoearth said:

Jun 18, 2019 21:40:24 GMT -5 doriswe said:

You can unmatch, easy peasy!!

Funny thing is one person sent me a message right away saying, "You probably accidentally swiped right on me, huh?"

He is not someone I would swipe on since he seems super conservative and Christian, which is probably why he would say that. But I didn't know how to answer, so I told him the truth that I was looking as I feel asleep and accidentally swiped on a couple people, but then asked how he could tell. He replied, "I just knew it. I think it's just my low-low self esteem and I'll never get a girl like you." Ugh. I then replied, "Good luck and don't beat yourself up." Then I deleted. I am not good at this, but I do feel bad.

Stay far far away from a guilt tripper who puts themselves down in the very first message! Yikes!!! They’re looking to reign someone in. Do not feel bad about saying no to a hot mess.