FFFC - for real

[naeljun]

Who's gotem

[doriswe]

I like John Mayer even if he is a raging douche

[dakotadangerdog]

I'm kind of going a little nutty and overthinking things about CFG. I think mostly I'm just getting nervous since I like him a lot, and I'm trying to make myself back off...

[roselis]

A guy on okc has been messaging me, and told me he is just looking for an "activity partner ". Im seriously debating taking him up on it

[blackkitty]

I want sex

[sweetchix]

I was secretly smiling when DD2 wanted nothing to do with STBX last night when I got home with her. She didn't say a word to him and didn't want to give him a hug good night or anything. I am hoping he sees this and realizes how attached to me she is.

Mean? Yeah, probably. But when we're looking at a custody battle coming up, every little thing counts.

[blackkitty]

Sept 21, 2012 10:47:26 GMT -5 sweetchix said:

I was secretly smiling when DD2 wanted nothing to do with STBX last night when I got home with her. She didn't say a word to him and didn't want to give him a hug good night or anything. I am hoping he sees this and realizes how attached to me she is.

Mean? Yeah, probably. But when we're looking at a custody battle coming up, every little thing counts.

Your children will be the casualty of your battle.
Just sayin

[jojoandleo]

Sept 21, 2012 10:40:59 GMT -5 doriswe said:

I like John Mayer even if he is a raging douche

I still love "Your body is a wonderland" Yes, he is an ass, but damn, I can't help it.

This one should not be flame-free, feel free to flame me: I saw a pitbull in need of a foster home and I really want to do it because 1-I am not ready to commit to having another dog 2-My Callie dog misses having a playmate 3-I want to help without having to get attached. BUT 1-I may get attached 2-I don't want to just be replacing my loss So, um, I don't know.

[jojoandleo]

Sept 21, 2012 10:49:12 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Sept 21, 2012 10:47:26 GMT -5 sweetchix said:

I was secretly smiling when DD2 wanted nothing to do with STBX last night when I got home with her. She didn't say a word to him and didn't want to give him a hug good night or anything. I am hoping he sees this and realizes how attached to me she is.

Mean? Yeah, probably. But when we're looking at a custody battle coming up, every little thing counts.

Your children will be the casualty of your battle.
Just sayin

Agreed. You guys are leaving each other NOT your child and you BOTH should do everything you can to make sure she knows you BOTH love her. BOTH! Don't make her pick sides or be in the middle.

[doriswe]

Sept 21, 2012 10:49:12 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Sept 21, 2012 10:47:26 GMT -5 sweetchix said:

I was secretly smiling when DD2 wanted nothing to do with STBX last night when I got home with her. She didn't say a word to him and didn't want to give him a hug good night or anything. I am hoping he sees this and realizes how attached to me she is.

Mean? Yeah, probably. But when we're looking at a custody battle coming up, every little thing counts.

Your children will be the casualty of your battle.
Just sayin

Can I also add if custody was based on stuff like that, I'd lose custody of my kids every other day....I tick mine off regularly.

Please don't put the kids in the middle of an already ugly situation.

[jojoandleo]

Sept 21, 2012 10:53:52 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

I'm supposed to go to Miami for business in a few weeks and I have no idea what I'm doing, work wise.

Every time I see your pic, I want ice cream. The only reason I don't eat it every day is because I am too lazy to go get some.

[sweetchix]

Sept 21, 2012 10:51:43 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Sept 21, 2012 10:49:12 GMT -5 @blackkitty said:

Your children will be the casualty of your battle.
Just sayin

Agreed. You guys are leaving each other NOT your child and you BOTH should do everything you can to make sure she knows you BOTH love her. BOTH! Don't make her pick sides or be in the middle.

I agree. I know how much they love STBX and do not plan to take him away from them. Ever. Even as ugly as this is getting I still want to have an open/flexible visitation schedule with him. If it's my day and his family has something going on that he wants to take them to, and I have nothing planned, I am ok with that. He is their father, he loves them, they love him.

[Deleted]

I've been texting with the dude again.

[jaksmom8808]

I was put on zoloft which has been awesome for my mood but doesn't do shit for my anxiety. Last night I took one of my moms .25 xanax and knocked out which ran me 20 mins late for work. At least on the bright side my jaw no longer hurts from tension.

Sent from my ADR6350 using proboards

[jaksmom8808]

Sept 21, 2012 11:05:16 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Don't take meds that weren't prescribed to you. Zoloft works for anxiety if you give it time. This was a bad idea. Talk to your doctor.

I'm going back for a follow up soon I just could not deal with the anxiety yesterday. The bad thing is when I get like that my son starts feeding off of it then starts acting out.

[jaksmom8808]

Sept 21, 2012 11:11:05 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

That's not an excuse for taking meds that aren't prescribed to you, especially when you have a child and don't know how you will react to taking an anti anxiety pill on top of a newly prescribed anti depressant/anxiety pill.

I have taken it before with dental procedures and I checked to see of the two could be mixed beforehand.

[chrissie3416]

I've been freaking out about J b/c Ive fallen in love with him and it terrifies me....he has no idea and I have no real reason to be upset.

[starryfish]

Sept 21, 2012 11:19:31 GMT -5 chrissie3416 said:

I've been freaking out about J b/c Ive fallen in love with him and it terrifies me....he has no idea and I have no real reason to be upset.

How long have you been together?

[starryfish]

I have a third and fourth date today (with the same guy at two different times today bc he is leaving for business tomorrow morning)....i am REALLY falling for him and it scares me...i am also worried i am going to FLIP out for no reason and run away bc its what I do....

[dakotadangerdog]

Sept 21, 2012 11:27:19 GMT -5 starryfish said:

I have a third and fourth date today (with the same guy at two different times today bc he is leaving for business tomorrow morning)....i am REALLY falling for him and it scares me...i am also worried i am going to FLIP out for no reason and run away bc its what I do....

Okay this is kinda making me LOL because I just sent you a long ass email basically saying I'm starting to do the same thing! hahaha

[jaksmom8808]

Sept 21, 2012 11:26:04 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

ETA: Instead of pumping yourself with meds, have you tried working out to relieve stress and anxiety??

It helps some but not much. It's mostly the house and school stressing me. The house should be complete within 2 weeks but there is a lot of moisture under the house we have to get rid of. A/C is almost complete.

[jojoandleo]

Sept 21, 2012 11:29:16 GMT -5 dakotadangerdog said:

Sept 21, 2012 11:27:19 GMT -5 starryfish said:

I have a third and fourth date today (with the same guy at two different times today bc he is leaving for business tomorrow morning)....i am REALLY falling for him and it scares me...i am also worried i am going to FLIP out for no reason and run away bc its what I do....

Okay this is kinda making me LOL because I just sent you a long ass email basically saying I'm starting to do the same thing! hahaha

I always had the opposite problem. I was miss clingy codependent and made them runaway. I just wanted to hug them, and pet them, and call them George.

[dakotadangerdog]

Sept 21, 2012 11:35:05 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Sept 21, 2012 11:29:16 GMT -5 dakotadangerdog said:

Okay this is kinda making me LOL because I just sent you a long ass email basically saying I'm starting to do the same thing! hahaha

I always had the opposite problem. I was miss clingy codependent and made them runaway. I just wanted to hug them, and pet them, and call them George.

Oh yeah, I'm a total weirdo. If I start to like a guy too much I tend to bail. I'm afraid dude will realize I like him a lot and he'll be weirded out by it or something and not like me anymore. Or something. I don't know. I'm a crazy person. I don't like when other people know I have feelings haha. It makes me feel weak. Or something.

[starryfish]

Sept 21, 2012 11:39:00 GMT -5 dakotadangerdog said:

Sept 21, 2012 11:35:05 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

I always had the opposite problem. I was miss clingy codependent and made them runaway. I just wanted to hug them, and pet them, and call them George.

Oh yeah, I'm a total weirdo. If I start to like a guy too much I tend to bail. I'm afraid dude will realize I like him a lot and he'll be weirded out by it or something and not like me anymore. Or something. I don't know. I'm a crazy person. I don't like when other people know I have feelings haha. It makes me feel weak. Or something.

+1....i do this too DDD....my friends and family KNOW that i do this, especially with the REALLY good guys that have it together!

p.s. just replied back to ur long ass email with another long ass email ;D

[achase123]

I'm irrationally annoyed at the following:

-I had a lunch date yesterday with this guy from match.com. Really nice guy but absolutely NO spark or physical attraction

-The guy friend who stood me up last weekend thing is still bothering me, which is ridiculous because I never even liked him to begin with (or I was pretty sure I didn't)

-I got my coach purse yesterday in the mail and it wasn't at all what I thought it would be. Now I have to send it back to exchange it

-DS woke me up in the middle of the night last night crying for his sippy cup of water. This is night #2 of doing this and I don't want him to make a habit of it so I offered him a sip from a regular cup (he uses his sippy cup as a way of soothing himself I think because he likes the sucking action with the silicon top) he sobbed for thirty minutes before going back to sleep. I'm exhausted.

[jojoandleo]

Sept 21, 2012 11:39:00 GMT -5 dakotadangerdog said:

Sept 21, 2012 11:35:05 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

I always had the opposite problem. I was miss clingy codependent and made them runaway. I just wanted to hug them, and pet them, and call them George.

Oh yeah, I'm a total weirdo. If I start to like a guy too much I tend to bail. I'm afraid dude will realize I like him a lot and he'll be weirded out by it or something and not like me anymore. Or something. I don't know. I'm a crazy person. I don't like when other people know I have feelings haha. It makes me feel weak. Or something.

I'm emotionally slutty. I can't play hard to get, I'm all "Pick me, choose me, love me!" And then they are all, "Bitch be crazy, we have been dating a week!"

[dakotadangerdog]

Sept 21, 2012 11:46:08 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Sept 21, 2012 11:39:00 GMT -5 dakotadangerdog said:

Oh yeah, I'm a total weirdo. If I start to like a guy too much I tend to bail. I'm afraid dude will realize I like him a lot and he'll be weirded out by it or something and not like me anymore. Or something. I don't know. I'm a crazy person. I don't like when other people know I have feelings haha. It makes me feel weak. Or something.

I'm emotionally slutty. I can't play hard to get, I'm all "Pick me, choose me, love me!" And then they are all, "Bitch be crazy, we have been dating a week!"

Hahahahaha If only we could find a nice balance in the middle! I'm terrible about it, I went to counseling and talked about it a lot. One therapist told me emotionally Im more like a guy cuz I don't do well with feelings.

[jaksmom8808]

Sept 21, 2012 11:38:04 GMT -5 mintchocochip said:

Honestly, you always seem stressed. It's called life. You need to learn how to handle stress. If you have a lot of school work, don't go gallivanting around out of town for the weekend. I don't get this.

You're right it is life and life is hard but come on, how much more shit is going to happen? Im actually caught up on schoolwork but I do have the pressure of keeping my grades up and making sure the work is done right. Just my last class in a sleep deprived move I stayed up late doing the work only to think I turned it in but didn't. It sucked because I would have got a 100 on it but settled with a 93 since it was late.

[marigoldgirl]

I have been engaging the crazy with XH. He has been txting me because of a bill. I have paid the bill but I am letting him stew and go crazy because he thinks I haven't. I realize I have been letting this drive him crazy because it makes me feel good to finally not have him get to me. I am just laughing over this. I feel so empowered. I plan to not engage further starting today.

[hobs209]

Sept 21, 2012 11:39:00 GMT -5 dakotadangerdog said:

Sept 21, 2012 11:35:05 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

I always had the opposite problem. I was miss clingy codependent and made them runaway. I just wanted to hug them, and pet them, and call them George.

Oh yeah, I'm a total weirdo. If I start to like a guy too much I tend to bail. I'm afraid dude will realize I like him a lot and he'll be weirded out by it or something and not like me anymore. Or something. I don't know. I'm a crazy person. I don't like when other people know I have feelings haha. It makes me feel weak. Or something.

Um, hi, are we the same person? My sister actually just told me today that A probably has no idea that I'm pretty much crazy for him because I'm so standoffish. I am working so hard on having feelings and it's scary! And yeah, I'm like this with everything, not just relationships. Ice queen, right here.