Post by georgeharrison on Dec 18, 2019 10:31:18 GMT -5
My 16 year old cat is looking bad. She is really skinny and can't jump on the counter like she use to. She is drinking a lot of water, too. She still eats and is still using the litter box, but she is obviously not doing well. She is pretty much my best friend, so I'm sad, but I love her too much and she has brought me too much joy for me to let her suffer. I did have a cat a long time ago that had diabetes and this looks a little like that, so maybe we could have some more time with her if that is the case. But, only if the vet will tell me that her quality of life will be good. Man, I can't imagine life without that ho-bag. I know that sounds dramatic for a cat, but she's my familiar. We have a vet appointment for tomorrow evening.
My Christmas shopping is essentially done. I still need to get one more thing for my oldest and something for my Mom. My H still has a few people to buy for which means that I'll be figuring that out too, but at least every one else is done.
Only 3 more days of work and I'm off for 2 weeks. Thank goodness.
My dog is nearing 16 so I can relate. He is not looking good and is deaf I am sure of it. We know his time is coming. He is my first baby.
The sears maintenance people came for to work on my dish washer and washer machine. Pro for adulting. Now one of these days I need to get my ice maker fixed. It still works you just have to open the door.
I am working from home today with no calls after 10:30 AM. I really am enjoying this quiet period. Tomorrow is my last day of going in the office with this loud folks and I will be "working" from home for 2 weeks.
I'm sorry georgeharrison. I hope there is something that can be done for the cat that adds to the quality of life
I was just coming here to post pretty much the same thing about one of our pups, except that we have already been managing her health issues for some time and instead of improving, she seems to be shutting down. Despite being on steroids right now, it is a struggle to get her to eat one meal as day, and it isn't even an actual nutritionally sound meal or anything that she is supposed to be eating. She is so thin that it is hearbreaking. She is sleeping almost all of the time, and when she isn't sleeping, (drinking water, peeing or staring at food and not eating it), she is just curled up in a tiny ball, staring at nothing.
The veterinarian is off today, but I left a message for her to call me. We know what the next step is, but I really want/need to talk to the veterinarian before we make any appointments.
My 13yo has a 94 in Band with a comment of "inconsistent effort" and a 2 for 'needs improvement' for effort and I cannot even take it seriously. He shows up to class, he plays his sax and he shows up for all the practices.
I think the teacher was annoyed because DS did forget about a full band practice last Wednesday. My son said he was sitting in Science and went to the bathroom and heard them playing, remembered and asked for a pass and went to the full band but was very late. oops
Post by karinothing on Dec 18, 2019 11:13:50 GMT -5
I am sorry georgeharrison. We had to put down my cat yesterday afternoon. It was hard. She had been battling lymphoma for the last 3 years and we got word 2 weeks ago that there was nothing more she can do. It was time, she could only walk a few steps, stopped using the litter box and could not regulate her body temperature. But man it was hard. I got her when my mom was first diagnosed with cancer and she has basically been there through the best and worst parts of my life. It was very hard to let her go.
I am sorry georgeharrison . We had to put down my cat yesterday afternoon. It was hard. She had been battling lymphoma for the last 3 years and we got word 2 weeks ago that there was nothing more she can do. It was time, she could only walk a few steps, stopped using the litter box and could not regulate her body temperature. But man it was hard. I got her when my mom was first diagnosed with cancer and she has basically been there through the best and worst parts of my life. It was very hard to let her go.
I'm very sorry. This is my fear. My cats are all siblings and the same age. They are 13 now and I'm just hyper aware that they won't be around forever. I try not to dwell on but man will I miss my babies. And DS will be a freaking mess.
My 16 year old cat is looking bad. She is really skinny and can't jump on the counter like she use to. She is drinking a lot of water, too. She still eats and is still using the litter box, but she is obviously not doing well. She is pretty much my best friend, so I'm sad, but I love her too much and she has brought me too much joy for me to let her suffer. I did have a cat a long time ago that had diabetes and this looks a little like that, so maybe we could have some more time with her if that is the case. But, only if the vet will tell me that her quality of life will be good. Man, I can't imagine life without that ho-bag. I know that sounds dramatic for a cat, but she's my familiar. We have a vet appointment for tomorrow evening.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you get some more quality time with her. <3
I'm very sorry. This is my fear. My cats are all siblings and the same age. They are 13 now and I'm just hyper aware that they won't be around forever. I try not to dwell on but man will I miss my babies. And DS will be a freaking mess.
That's so tough to think about, but I'm sure they have years left! Have you considered getting a younger cat at some point to ease the eventual transition? We jumped too quickly into getting new kitties after two of the losses, and it can be really hard to open your heart so soon.
Our new petsitter just came over to meet the Stellas. She's super sweet. We even had a little scuffle because the dogs were so hyped up with a new person here and she was totally cool about it.
Last night H asked when I wanted to do OUR Christmas since we're going to his family's and I kind of panicked because I didn't buy him any presents since we SAID we were getting new living room furniture as our gifts to each other and he was like, "Well I got you some little stocking stuffer things" so I ended up ordering $70 worth of stuff on Amazon for his stocking last night, lol. I had only gotten a few little food treat things.
My mom started pressing me this morning about visiting, asking if I could if she paid for it and I felt so bad putting her off so as not to ruin the surprise that I'll be showing up on her doorstep next Saturday evening.
I'm going to an Elf movie party at Alamo with some school friends tonight. We're also having dinner at my favorite pizza place beforehand so I'm super excited.
I still don't like my hair and almost cried about it this morning.
I'm very sorry. This is my fear. My cats are all siblings and the same age. They are 13 now and I'm just hyper aware that they won't be around forever. I try not to dwell on but man will I miss my babies. And DS will be a freaking mess.
That's so tough to think about, but I'm sure they have years left! Have you considered getting a younger cat at some point to ease the eventual transition? We jumped too quickly into getting new kitties after two of the losses, and it can be really hard to open your heart so soon.
We haven't mainly because we have 4 (and 2 dogs). 4 is too many IMO, but 4 is what got dropped off in the park next to our condo 13 years ago so . . . .here we are. They definitely seem to keep each other young! For now I think I'll want/need a break when the time comes but we'll see. Hopefully I don't have to find out for several more years.
georgeharrison, my cat is also 16, and she's my constant companion at home, so I'll be devastated when she's gone. Stupid furballs worming their way into our hearts. <3
I'm currently screwing around, but I really need to wrap presents today. I had thought that I would spend the day decorating a gingerbread house (I haven an elaborate plan to paint the outside of it with food coloring mixed with vodka), but then I realized that I don't have that many days left before we leave, and I really need to prioritize wrapping instead. Boo!
Post by litskispeciality on Dec 18, 2019 12:59:29 GMT -5
Ay ay ay it feels like Monday. I'm working late, then have to holiday shop. At least I should end up with 3 hours of comp time, which will be huge in not using so much for the holiday. I've never been able to earn comp time so this is fun.
My friend's mom passed away unexpectedly. At first I was hoping I misunderstood her text. Her mom had what appeared to be a bad flu, and additional existing health problems, but man it's a shock. I feel bad because it's the friend who still lives at home with her mom so how will that work? She's 3 hours away too so it's hard for me to help. And it's almost Christmas so that makes it extra hard.
I waited too long to open my box of online Christmas gifts so now I'm panicing trying to re-order a gift for my dad. He wanted a revised, large print version of the Bible, which apparently isn't super easy to find now. I also didn't realize there's 800 versions. He ended up calling me twice at work because he had time to search for it. To say this is Mt. Everest out of an ant hill is an understatement, just one more stress I'd like to avoid.
When I tried to log into the accounting system this morning it told me I was an invalid user. I called and it's because they show I've retired or been fired. I just started Monday!
My 13yo has a 94 in Band with a comment of "inconsistent effort" and a 2 for 'needs improvement' for effort and I cannot even take it seriously. He shows up to class, he plays his sax and he shows up for all the practices.
I think the teacher was annoyed because DS did forget about a full band practice last Wednesday. My son said he was sitting in Science and went to the bathroom and heard them playing, remembered and asked for a pass and went to the full band but was very late. oops
Why is band practice happening when your kid is in another class?
Post by lightbulbsun on Dec 18, 2019 13:18:18 GMT -5
georgeharrison I'm sorry about your cat. If it is diabetes and you can get it under control, then she can still have a good quality of life. I hope they can treat it.
My 13yo has a 94 in Band with a comment of "inconsistent effort" and a 2 for 'needs improvement' for effort and I cannot even take it seriously. He shows up to class, he plays his sax and he shows up for all the practices.
I think the teacher was annoyed because DS did forget about a full band practice last Wednesday. My son said he was sitting in Science and went to the bathroom and heard them playing, remembered and asked for a pass and went to the full band but was very late. oops
Why is band practice happening when your kid is in another class?
Post by litskispeciality on Dec 18, 2019 13:34:21 GMT -5
georgeharrison and kari I'm so sorry. Losing a pet is super hard. Hopefully the one cat has diabetes or thyroid or something that can be fixed. Our small cat is down to 6 pounds, but just a few days on thyroid seems a little more evened out *fingers crossed*. She's 14 so we know she won't be here forever. She's very happy being a single cat, so we can't add another one until we no longer have her.
How do you get a 94 in Band if you're not putting in an effort? Also agree practice shouldn't take place during the normal school day and result in missing academic class.
Does anyone have tips for large, sore pimples? I have one that won't go away. I've had a shot at the derm, I've tried essential oils, the expensive drying lotion and it just keeps coming back bigger (the bug bite looking kind) and sore. I just want it gone and would like it not to hurt so much.
The guy replacing our hot water heater yesterday was missing the pump needed so we have hot water but no heat (hyrdonic heat dual system). He said he'd be here in the morning today to finish fixing it. It's almost 11am and my patience is wearing thin. H, DS and I all have dentist appts this afternoon. If we have to cancel mine or H's last minute because of this I will not be pleased as we'll be charged a fee for that. Ugh.
It's been a long week and I still have a lot to get done, but at least I'm working from home today. I baked off the cookies I made last weekend and decorated gingerbread men for our cookie swap, so I'll be ready for that tomorrow in the office, which is my last day in the office for two weeks. Woohoo!
I did finally say something to DH last night, so we got a quickie in this morning, which was very unexpected, but appreciated. So he's back on my good list. lol
We're celebrating Christmas with MIL and BIL this weekend before we go to Indiana to visit DH's family for Christmas. MIL has been sending me recipes and wanting to talk about our meal for Saturday. I basically told her I don't have the energy to think about stuff like that right now, so I think she's going to handle everything, which I'm honestly really happy about. I'm very much in the Christmas spirit and happy the holidays are here, but I have not been in the mood to deal with the cooking and planning part of it.
Post by lostlenore on Dec 18, 2019 14:08:04 GMT -5
A week ago, I ordered a jersey from kohl’s for ds2. Today, I decided to check on the order to see when it should be here. I log into my account and it said the order was canceled. I never got an email or anything! I was so mad I called customer service but there was nothing they could do, they don’t have the jersey anymore and that’s why my order was canceled. I’m recovering from pneumonia and have no voice right now and I could tell the rep felt so bad for me. I ended up ordering a jersey somewhere else, but it was a lot more money. I’m so glad I decided to check today or I might have been too late to order!
I’ve been sick since 12/2. I’m so far behind getting everything ready for Christmas. And DH won’t admit it, but I really think he thought I was exaggerating until I was diagnosed with pneumonia on Monday. And he seems to think that a couple days of meds means I should be 100% better any minute now.
My best friend in High School, who introduced me to DH, died a few days ago. We weren’t close anymore but it’s still a gut punch. Her poor kids lost 3 grandparents and their mom in the last 2 months.
16 years ago must have been the magic year that everyone got pets. My girl Sissy Marie is 16 and the absolute love of my life. Like so much so that I made a personalized shutterfly calendar of her. This may or may not have been the 3rd year in a row I have done this. Yes, I am the crazy cat lady.
georgeharrison, I am no vet but Sissy got really skinny but was drinking like crazy 2 years ago. I was super nervous and thought oh my god, this is the end. She was diagnosed with kidney disease and basically I had to put her on a special RX food and 2 years later you would never know she is 16. She is eating, drinking, playing and looks great. So I hope it is just something as simple as needing an RX food.
litskispeciality is there any chance that it's not actually a pimple and maybe something else like Staph? My niece gets staph infections and they look like large pimples.
I'm really sorry to all the pet parents who are dealing with losing their babies. I know how hard it is, and I really feel for you.
Totally random, but I just fell down a rabbit hole of looking up crime statistics for my city for the year. I've been on the "we need to move" train since I was carjacked in late September, but it turns out my district actually has had the LEAST number of carjackings of any district within city limits. There are still way too many city wide (it is around 1% of all residents, though obviously not everyone who gets carjacked even lives in the city and that's just my own math) but that really just means I was extremely unlucky and that chances of it happening again where I live are pretty low. That's reassuring. Unless we move out of the city for commuting reasons, we really don't want to and I love living here. And other neighborhoods may not really be a whole lot safer. I also love where we live. It's so easy to walk places and my commute is pretty easy too. So... maybe I'll think about staying put.