Get a room you two. I'm probably the crankiest bitch on here today since I'm sleep and sex deprived. Feel free to ignore me and go back to your regularly scheduled program.[/quote]
Join DDD, MCC and me in our LOVE FEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Get a room you two. I'm probably the crankiest bitch on here today since I'm sleep and sex deprived. Feel free to ignore me and go back to your regularly scheduled program.
Join DDD, MCC and me in our LOVE FEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok, deal. I'll bring the wine (not the whine, I promise). :heart:
I appreciate the support...and I know I've always loved seeing wedding photos, even when I was recently separated from XH (I had an IRL friend get married 2 months later). I just LOVE wedding photos, regardless of my personal situation. Maybe that's not for everyone...but as with ANY online forum, if you know you won't like what the message inside contains, don't open it.
I guess I'm just generalizing -- it just feels like the overall vibe of this board is different. Maybe it's because I just happen to open posts that contain a shitstorm. Eh, whatever.
I DO think this board is an awesome support system -- especially for those who are new to starting over their lives, whether it be trying to get the courage to leave or realizing their new (and better) life has just begun. I can see a lot of frienships have formed and I think that tight-knittedness (not a word, I know) is pretty awesome. Either way... my comment was simply my personal obersvation and opinon. Take it for what it's worth. For the most part, yes, this board does kick ass though.
I Will admit, I have been cranky. Liubot really pissed me off with her flippant "I'll get a dog to learn responsibility, even though I haven't done anything to be responsible for myself EVER!" And I smacked her down hard. Then again, Liubot had been getting a LOT of head pats lately for NOTHING and it was time for her to have a smack down. She was getting too big in the britches all: "Look at all these good decisions I lied about!"
And your wedding pics are beautiful.
And I MCC.
I think we do kind of have cycles here where it's like:
"You bought a cookie today? YAY! GO you! Pats on the head to everyone!"
Then it gets tiring having to validate people and it becomes:
"You bought another fucking cookie? Why? You are poor and trying to lose weight! Just making another bad decision. Dumbass."
But it will swing up again.
Yessssssssss....you explained it far better than I was attempting to.
I disagree because I'm happy for her. But between that and AK's all "I'm engaged now and I'm over this board" it's like a slap in the face. You were here once too. You dealt with this stuff--dating, sex, overanalyzing, pity parties, judging people too harshly, etc. We're human and dealing with things. We're happy (many of us), just happy alone and sometimes that's hard. Back off, happy people with happy BFs/Hs/FIs--you have what we don't!
Actually, if you read my post, you would have seen it said "it ISN'T because I am engaged" it's because there is a new attitude on this board of everyone being too nice and because I feel old compared to a lot of ladies on this board. If you're going to quote me, please do it correctly.
I disagree because I'm happy for her. But between that and AK's all "I'm engaged now and I'm over this board" it's like a slap in the face. You were here once too. You dealt with this stuff--dating, sex, overanalyzing, pity parties, judging people too harshly, etc. We're human and dealing with things. We're happy (many of us), just happy alone and sometimes that's hard. Back off, happy people with happy BFs/Hs/FIs--you have what we don't!
Actually, if you read my post, you would have seen it said "it ISN'T because I am engaged" it's because there is a new attitude on this board of everyone being too nice and because I feel old compared to a lot of ladies on this board. If you're going to quote me, please do it correctly.
Actually, if you read my post, you would have seen it said "it ISN'T because I am engaged" it's because there is a new attitude on this board of everyone being too nice and because I feel old compared to a lot of ladies on this board. If you're going to quote me, please do it correctly.
I disagree because I'm happy for her. But between that and AK's all "I'm engaged now and I'm over this board" it's like a slap in the face. You were here once too. You dealt with this stuff--dating, sex, overanalyzing, pity parties, judging people too harshly, etc. We're human and dealing with things. We're happy (many of us), just happy alone and sometimes that's hard. Back off, happy people with happy BFs/Hs/FIs--you have what we don't!
Actually, if you read my post, you would have seen it said "it ISN'T because I am engaged" it's because there is a new attitude on this board of everyone being too nice and because I feel old compared to a lot of ladies on this board. If you're going to quote me, please do it correctly.