I understand outgrowing boards or not being as invested or interested in the dynamic. I don't get coming back to tell everyone how much they suck.
Again, read the original quote. It was in a FFC or similar post and I didn't "tell everyone how much they suck." I simply said I don't feel like I relate to this board anymore because the dynamic is different than it used to be.
I understand outgrowing boards or not being as invested or interested in the dynamic. I don't get coming back to tell everyone how much they suck.
Again, read the original quote. It was in a FFC or similar post and I didn't "tell everyone how much they suck." I simply said I don't feel like I relate to this board anymore because the dynamic is different than it used to be.
Where is this thread? I didn't see anything in the FFFC post. Was it older? I'm confused?
Again, read the original quote. It was in a FFC or similar post and I didn't "tell everyone how much they suck." I simply said I don't feel like I relate to this board anymore because the dynamic is different than it used to be.
Where is this thread? I didn't see anything in the FFFC post. Was it older? I'm confused?
I understand outgrowing boards or not being as invested or interested in the dynamic. I don't get coming back to tell everyone how much they suck.
Again, read the original quote. It was in a FFC or similar post and I didn't "tell everyone how much they suck." I simply said I don't feel like I relate to this board anymore because the dynamic is different than it used to be.
I understand outgrowing boards or not being as invested or interested in the dynamic. I don't get coming back to tell everyone how much they suck.
Again, read the original quote. It was in a FFC or similar post and I didn't "tell everyone how much they suck." I simply said I don't feel like I relate to this board anymore because the dynamic is different than it used to be.
Seriously, there are a million message boards on the interwebz If you don't like this one, find one that you do
I understand outgrowing boards or not being as invested or interested in the dynamic. I don't get coming back to tell everyone how much they suck.
Again, read the original quote. It was in a FFC or similar post and I didn't "tell everyone how much they suck." I simply said I don't feel like I relate to this board anymore because the dynamic is different than it used to be.
I don't think AK's post was out of line. It was a "I don't feel like I have stuff in common as much anymore" type stuff. She did mention the age difference as one potential factor. She wasn't being nasty, IMHO.
It was more her telling us that we were boggling her mind because we were being too nice and instead of saying "dump him" we were encouraging people to "go for it" and have FWBs. AK, you might not have said it was because you were engaged, but your attitude suggested it after saying that you no longer felt like you fit into the board.
Because, after all the posts on this board relating to guys everyone is dating that have been about how you can't always tell someone's tone or attitude via electronic communications such as text, you can tell my attitude via a message board. Interesting ...
Flaky friends People who don't pay me back (i have about $2k owed to me right now) Guys who refuse to wear kilts and say they are not manly things to wear Friends who bitch but won't change anything Friends who don't know to let go and think its not their fault Guys who drop off
DONT LOAN PEOPLE MONEY!!!! Especially not two grand! JFC
It's not all in one place. $550 with one friend who owes me back rent from when she was renting from me. She says she will pay it. Though they moved out a year and half ago. Doubt I'm seeing that any time soon. $160 from another former friend who rented from me (his mother told me I will never see a dime of it.... like it's really her business) $1100 from XH for his half of lawyer fees. He told me when we started the process that if he didn't have to hire a lawyer then he would pay me back for half. He says he will pay, so we will see. I'm not holding my breath.
DONT LOAN PEOPLE MONEY!!!! Especially not two grand! JFC
It's not all in one place. $550 with one friend who owes me back rent from when she was renting from me. She says she will pay it. Though they moved out a year and half ago. Doubt I'm seeing that any time soon. $160 from another former friend who rented from me (his mother told me I will never see a dime of it.... like it's really her business) $1100 from XH for his half of lawyer fees. He told me when we started the process that if he didn't have to hire a lawyer then he would pay me back for half. He says he will pay, so we will see. I'm not holding my breath.
So $1800 total.
Yeah I bet you don't see a dime of any of it unless the lawyers fees were in the divorce decree
In line with some of what was said, I like SO but I have a hard time relating in many ways. I am not dating, I have a long term SO. I am not aching to get remarried at all, and to be honest, it is a weird internal struggle on whether it is right for me at all. I just don't post a lot BC of it....I just don't know how/where I fit, if that makes sense.
In line with some of what was said, I like SO but I have a hard time relating in many ways. I am not dating, I have a long term SO. I am not aching to get remarried at all, and to be honest, it is a weird internal struggle on whether it is right for me at all. I just don't post a lot BC of it....I just don't know how/where I fit, if that makes sense.
. What she said!
You guys know you can post whatever you want here, right? People post about finances, what to wear, fitness, vents, dating stories, everything. Some days are more date-type-posts than others, but you can just start your own post about whatever you want. I am married and I just post whatever I want, read what I want and respond to what I want. There are plenty of posts I never even open.
I at least feel like there is a variety here. There are some closer-knit people and sometimes they take over a thread-if they are being funny, I keep reading, if not, I stop. This isn't rocket surgery.
You guys know you can post whatever you want here, right? People post about finances, what to wear, fitness, vents, dating stories, everything. Some days are more date-type-posts than others, but you can just start your own post about whatever you want. I am married and I just post whatever I want, read what I want and respond to what I want. There are plenty of posts I never even open.
I at least feel like there is a variety here. There are some closer-knit people and sometimes they take over a thread-if they are being funny, I keep reading, if not, I stop. This isn't rocket surgery.
I really like the variety, to be honest! It's nice to get opinions/advice from people from all walks of life who have had different experiences. I've learned a lot from many of you!!
Agreed. How did I not realize jojo was married??? I feel like i knew this but pushed forgot somehow.
In my head I assume her first name is JoJo and his is Leo...don't ruin this for me
Leo was my dog that past.
This is my message board,so I don't talk about him much. I started on TIP with a different name with XFI issues and just followed over to SO. Plus, everyone on here is so attractive!
This is my message board,so I don't talk about him much. I started on TIP with a different name with XFI issues and just followed over to SO. Plus, everyone on here is so attractive!
I love you and that you're here!
Aww, love you too! Now we are turning into Doris, kissing ass. Now we are going to get chastised for being all rainbow farts and unicorn wishes.
1. People who post under AE 2. people who need psychiatric help but refuse to get help 3. people who steal other posters identities 4. people who cut you off and then drive 5 miles an hour 5. people who do not discipline their children 6. eggs 7. peas 8.high heels 9. lipstick 10. attention whores
1) People who need psychiatric help, but refuse to get it or simply refuse to face reality and instead pretend they "have it under control." I'm sorry, but you don't magically get better when you have a psychiatric disorder. It however can be situational, which is pretty different from someone who is truly in need of psychiatric drugs.
2) When my car doesn't work.
3) When people demand my attention. I dislike people in general, so why would you demanding my attention encourage me to give it ffs?
4) People who use "lol." I mean, yes, it can standing for laughing, but fuck you if your the type to use it when you have nothing else to say.
5) My raging, ridiculous hormones right now which is turning me into a raging bitch.
6) People who can't let anything go ever and keep running tallies.