Hey all

[ssmjlm]

Aug 13, 2020 7:31:18 GMT -5 flygirl said:

ssmjlm , what did the 2nd lawyer do that was better? We got a pretty basic will-as in it specifies that everything goes to our DS when we die or a second list if all of us died. Then it specifies who DS would go live with, that’s about it. I don’t know if there should have been a trust created or if there is anything missing. He was a perfectly nice lawyer, I just don’t think he went into anything in depth because of what he was getting reimbursed.

He basically went over everything we could/might need that was covered under the legal plan.  He walked us through everything and just was much more personable.  Sometimes it's just a personality thing.  Then when we went back to sign everything with my parents since they are the named guardians/my dad is executor, he answered any of their questions, went over everything again.

We ended up with a will, a trust, and a medical directive thingy.  It was all covered by the legal plan and he was happy to map it all out for us and then draw it up.

[scm1011]

I'm pretty sure Shoegal showed her ass with some racist bullshit and peaced out rather than deal, but I could be remembering incorrectly.

Honestly, I found her insufferable long before that.

[lust2hart]

Aug 12, 2020 15:32:03 GMT -5 waverly said:

Was Shoegal the one (and she had a previous name too) where all her posts referenced back to her blog?

Yes.

[kadams767]

Aug 13, 2020 12:36:30 GMT -5 scm1011 said:

I'm pretty sure Shoegal showed her ass with some racist bullshit and peaced out rather than deal, but I could be remembering incorrectly.

Honestly, I found her insufferable long before that.

I think she also got some pushback on one of her posts that cross-posted here and her blog for feedback and she didn't like that the majority of us here told her she was wrong/not thinking of things correctly.  I can't recall the exact issue, but she was posting something regarding prenups and it didn't go over well here.  I feel like she bounced right after that, but I admittedly have a terrible board memory.

ETA: Nope, this was a few weeks ahead of Charlottesville BS, but right around the same time.

I can't believe her blog calls her "self-made".  Whoa.  Still tone-deaf.