Holidays and TTTC

[Jalapeñomel]

The holidays are hard for IFers. How are you guys doing?

[katespade]

The holiday themed announcements are already rolling in by the truckload. If I see one more “Our little quarantine surprise!” post, I’m going to lose my mind.

[Jalapeñomel]

Dec 6, 2020 15:22:54 GMT -5 katespade said:

The holiday themed announcements are already rolling in by the truckload. If I see one more “Our little quarantine surprise!” post, I’m going to lose my mind.

So glad to have left FB!

[msmerymac]

New Years is always the hardest for me - a marker of another year without success. We'll be alone this year, so I don't know if that will be better or worse, though I will say that for years now I've wanted an excuse (i.e. kids) to not drive all over the northeast between my parents and in-laws in the dead of winter.

[pinkpeony08]

In some ways, staying home makes it a little easier, though a lonelier holiday than normal.

[Jalapeñomel]

Dec 6, 2020 15:22:54 GMT -5 katespade said:

The holiday themed announcements are already rolling in by the truckload. If I see one more “Our little quarantine surprise!” post, I’m going to lose my mind.

Two friends just told me, one is my BFF with her second. I want so bad to be happy for her, I hate the jealousy feeling. I want that to end.

[thedutchgirl]

Ugh, yes, the pregnancy announcements sting. And all of my partner's wives' are now trying or about to start--"we can all be pregnant the same time!" I'm dreading all those announcements.

We're on hold till after the first of the year when my new insurance provides some fertility coverage. Right now we are 100% self-pay. Then on to donor eggs, probably.

[Jalapeñomel]

Dec 11, 2020 14:30:23 GMT -5 thedutchgirl said:

Ugh, yes, the pregnancy announcements sting. And all of my partner's wives' are now trying or about to start--"we can all be pregnant the same time!" I'm dreading all those announcements.

We're on hold till after the first of the year when my new insurance provides some fertility coverage. Right now we are 100% self-pay. Then on to donor eggs, probably.

Well I’ll hold out that all of us transferring in January start 2021 off with a bang.

[thedutchgirl]

Dec 12, 2020 15:04:59 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

Dec 11, 2020 14:30:23 GMT -5 thedutchgirl said:

Ugh, yes, the pregnancy announcements sting. And all of my partner's wives' are now trying or about to start--"we can all be pregnant the same time!" I'm dreading all those announcements.

We're on hold till after the first of the year when my new insurance provides some fertility coverage. Right now we are 100% self-pay. Then on to donor eggs, probably.

Well I’ll hold out that all of us transferring in January start 2021 off with a bang.

Me too!

[ilovecandy]

Right around Thanksgiving to about the week after was rough because that was the timing of my miscarriage positives last year.

[Jalapeñomel]

Dec 21, 2020 18:32:09 GMT -5 ilovecandy said:

Right around Thanksgiving to about the week after was rough because that was the timing of my miscarriage positives last year.

(((Hugs))) it’s so hard.