Xh's check cleared- the plane tickets are paid

[Bernadine]

Thank you Jesus!

[EmilieMadison]

What a huge fucking relief. You're not actually going to share the points with him, right? And now he has no access to the card at all?

[Bernadine]

He gets no points- my lawyer told me to tell him that when he starts talking about splitting the mortgage, I'll start talking about splitting the points, lol. No, he has no access to the card now.

[nahoku]

Whew! That's a relief. Glad you got reimbursed and he no longer has access to the card.

[EmilieMadison]

So what's the deal on the mortgage at this point? He's still paying nothing? HOW? It certainly can't be because of financial hardship ::coughplaneticketscough::

[laptopvixen]

Hooray!!!

[Bernadine]

Emilie, I can't believe it either. He just doesn't have to pay, and doesn't have to move out. My lawyer has plans for reimbursement in the divorce settlement.

[iamgrace]

Well, that's good news.

[EmilieMadison]

Sept 23, 2012 10:47:27 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

Emilie, I can't believe it either. He just doesn't have to pay, and doesn't have to move out. My lawyer has plans for reimbursement in the divorce settlement.

That's just mind blowing.
Does he have anything to reimburse you with after the divorce? Could they garnish his wages? You have the patience of a saint. I would've moved to an apartment that I planned to stay in for a while and then stopped paying the mortgage. I seethe for you.

[laptopvixen]

If she'd stopped paying the mortgage her credit would have been ruined.

We talked yesterday during the GTG, the girl is truly doing everything and anything she can to get this all to come out to the best end for her.

[Bernadine]

He got a better deal on the tickets using american express. That's what he said.

No, he doesn't have money, but there are other things I'm trying to get. I really did consider just not paying the mortgage, but my thinking is that this is screwing me over for a year or so. Foreclosure would screw me over for 7 years. When this is over, I want it to be completely over, without anything hanging over my head.

[Deleted]

i'm so glad.

i hope that ratface pays you back all he owes ASAP, but if his wages are still garnished when he's 83 to make up for it, that would also be sweet sweet revenge.

[pantsparty]

Sept 23, 2012 11:01:41 GMT -5 namasteak said:

Yay! Did he ever explain why he thought it was ok to use the card?

I think "being a giant dickhead" is the reasoning behind most of his decisions.

[Deleted]

Thank you Jesus that the check cleared! Now, time to add the new ticker

[bab]

I'm amazed by you Bernadine. You are so strong. I'm glad that idiot can't access your credit card.

[orangello]

Seriously girl, you're a fuckin' saint (pardon my french!). I can't wait until this is all over for you - you've handled it incredibly well and deserve a happy ending.