Can we talk about OkC?

[Bernadine]

Most of the guys' profiles say "replies often."

I just looked up women in my area (I like to check out the competition, lol) and most of them say "replies selectively."

Do you take that into consideration at all when replying, or sending a message?

[starryfish]

not really. I hardly ever "initiate" the emails.

[hoolygo]

I didn't pay much attention to it, but I almost never sent a message first.

[redredwine]

Apparently my profile said "responds often" but I only ever responded to 3 out of the 50 or guys that emailed me.

[sparkles17]

I would notice it, but it never really had any bearing on my decision to contact them.

[imalwaysme79]

Some guy once told me that my profile (a different one that I had last year) said "replies selectively". I had a bunch of weirdos contacting me, and I just wouldn't respond. Now, I respond, block and delete.