I know I have posted a lot here over the last few years about my mom and the situation as she was diagnosed with FTD and just wanted to share that she passed away this week. It sounds weird but who she really was had been gone a while so I feel like I have been grieving for a while and it's more of a relief that she isn't living like that anymore. It was awful to watch. I really have appreciated the insight I have gotten here over the years to help her and just wanted to share.
I am so sorry for your loss. You have been a wonderful support for her, and I'm glad it sounds like you have some peace with this. I'll be thinking of you and your family.
I'm sorry Preppy. I know how much you advocated for her and tried to make the best of her time here. I know you said you feel as though you have already grieved, but sending you peace and grace as you continue to do so.
I'm so sorry Preppy. I have a good friend who lost her dad to early onset ALZ and she described feeling very similarly to you; it's completely understandable. We are in a similar place with my FIL. Hugs and peace to you and your family.