Well, H told me what he was planning for valentines dinner. And, while it’s nice and will be good, sure enough it’s disappointing. We have been talking about a certain restaurant we were going to do for new years, but instead he brought home mussels and said we’d go soon. It’s been 6 weeks. So when he said he was picking up something he knew I’d like I thought yay! Finally.
I can’t decide if it’s me or not. But it’s just another in a growing list of him making decisions he *thinks* I want when I have specifically told him something else.
So you plan it! If you don't want to be disappointed make sure you won't be:) V day is not a big thing for us, at all, though.
Ok douche, go ahead and call it mud. My husband DID have halitosis. We addressed it after I talked to you girls on here and guess what? Years later, no problem. Mofongo, you're a cunt. Eat shit. ~anonnamus
This sounds so amazing!! Wow!! How long are you there for? And I totally would have dodged that coworker, lol. WTF?
Haha yeah, I'd sooner die than invite myself along somewhere! Especially an international trip. I think she just recently caught the travel bug and is looking for any opportunity to do it, which - I get.
I am there for 9 days! It's basically an 8 day class and then I'm there one extra because airfare was a lot cheaper to fly back the following day. It's my last class for my degree so it's a great way to finish up!
I'm watching coverage of the shooting at the KC Chief's Super Bowl Parade. This fucking country. I hope all of our KC posters are safe, I know we have some fans here.
...we had a beef chili last night that we turned in to Enchiladas (yum). DH made waaay too much so we need to repurpose it. We're saving some for rice bowls for lunch. We've mixed the meat in with (veggie pasta) mac and cheese before, but I don't know if I'm feeling that tonight...any other thoughts?
We sometimes put canned chili over the super basic bagged salad mixes, then top with sour cream and tortilla chips. We call it mock taco salad, an it's a lot better than it sounds. LOL! I'm not entirely sure how my mom came up with this, but it's nice to have in my pocket for a fast/lazy meal.
I was really close yesterday to just booking flights to Puerto Rico over spring break because we all need something to look forward to, and I do think everyone will like it once I drag them there. (We have no vacations planned yet for this year because no one will agree on where to go)
Then H and DD got in a big fight last night and I am second guessing whether we actually want to do this.
Idk. If anyone has advice on good places to stay and things to do in PR with teens let me know. The dates I'm looking at are last minute and spring break for a lot of people so a lot of my top choices are booked.
We had a blast in PR. We stayed in an airBNB by the beach and it was really fun. We spent a day and night in San Juan, but mostly went to the beach, went to El Yunque, and got some guy in a boat to take us to the beach on some islands.
"Hello babies. Welcome to Earth. It's hot in the summer and cold in the winter. It's round and wet and crowded. On the outside, babies, you've got a hundred years here. There's only one rule that I know of, babies-"God damn it, you've got to be kind.”
erbear do you remember what general vicinity you stayed in? I'm looking at air bnbs around Rio Grande, Loquillo, and Farjado. I don't know if there is a significant advantage to one over the other.
I got the kids a small gift for v-day, a game boy thing for ds1 and a stuffy for ds2. Ds2 was so happy he cried. I knew he’d be happy but was not expecting that!
Ds2’s school is having a dance for Valentine’s Day today from 4-5:30. He’s in 5th grade. He was not planning to go, but changed his mind today bc he wants to hang out with his friends and eat free snacks haha.
Post by fluffycookie on Feb 14, 2024 16:48:02 GMT -5
I am a reformed pintrest mom. I used to go nuts when DS was little. He did ask me to help him make this for his girlfriend and of course I made the entire thing and he's going to take the credit....lol.
I am a reformed pintrest mom. I used to go nuts when DS was little. He did ask me to help him make this for his girlfriend and of course I made the entire thing and he's going to take the credit....lol.
erbear do you remember what general vicinity you stayed in? I'm looking at air bnbs around Rio Grande, Loquillo, and Farjado. I don't know if there is a significant advantage to one over the other.
"Hello babies. Welcome to Earth. It's hot in the summer and cold in the winter. It's round and wet and crowded. On the outside, babies, you've got a hundred years here. There's only one rule that I know of, babies-"God damn it, you've got to be kind.”
Post by sofamonkey on Feb 14, 2024 17:19:11 GMT -5
Last night, I got everyone a full size bag of the chips they like and a large candy bar. Lol. DH has quit drinking for a bit, and is tired of just water some I got him some lemonade and a different juice to drink. All were happy, and I spent less than $20. I happily ate half my candy bar last night. Lol
Tonight we’re just having salmon because the price was good, but it worked well to have something on the nicer side tonight.
Also, I haven’t folded my laundry in like 3 weeks? I keep just pulling things out of the baskets. Haha. I should probably fix that soon. I mostly wear scrubs or pjs, so it isn’t anything earth shattering. But I’m getting tired of baskets strewn about my room.
My kid gets presents at school for literally every holiday. Like a huge bag full. She came home with... 3 valentines. Which is fine but it was surprising since Valentine's day is pretty universally a giving holiday?
Well, H told me what he was planning for valentines dinner. And, while it’s nice and will be good, sure enough it’s disappointing. We have been talking about a certain restaurant we were going to do for new years, but instead he brought home mussels and said we’d go soon. It’s been 6 weeks. So when he said he was picking up something he knew I’d like I thought yay! Finally.
I can’t decide if it’s me or not. But it’s just another in a growing list of him making decisions he *thinks* I want when I have specifically told him something else.
are you the poster who's husband makes sandwiches on toast because he thinks they are better but you have told him you like sandwiches on bread?
Ding ding ding! Though he has finally stopped with the toast lolsob
Well, H told me what he was planning for valentines dinner. And, while it’s nice and will be good, sure enough it’s disappointing. We have been talking about a certain restaurant we were going to do for new years, but instead he brought home mussels and said we’d go soon. It’s been 6 weeks. So when he said he was picking up something he knew I’d like I thought yay! Finally.
I can’t decide if it’s me or not. But it’s just another in a growing list of him making decisions he *thinks* I want when I have specifically told him something else.
So you plan it! If you don't want to be disappointed make sure you won't be:) V day is not a big thing for us, at all, though.
See, and this is where I’m not sure if it’s just me being impossible. I didn’t think I cared until now. Lol. And for NY, I friggin did plan it. I picked the restaurant, after discussions and agreement. I had reservations. And then, surprise! Nope…
So you plan it! If you don't want to be disappointed make sure you won't be:) V day is not a big thing for us, at all, though.
See, and this is where I’m not sure if it’s just me being impossible. I didn’t think I cared until now. Lol. And for NY, I friggin did plan it. I picked the restaurant, after discussions and agreement. I had reservations. And then, surprise! Nope…
Wait, did he cancel the NYE reservation that you made?
So you plan it! If you don't want to be disappointed make sure you won't be:) V day is not a big thing for us, at all, though.
See, and this is where I’m not sure if it’s just me being impossible. I didn’t think I cared until now. Lol. And for NY, I friggin did plan it. I picked the restaurant, after discussions and agreement. I had reservations. And then, surprise! Nope…
I don’t want to speak out of line, it does seem like he is not always the best partner. You deserve the best! I’m with Eagles, what happened to the restaurant you planned?
Ok douche, go ahead and call it mud. My husband DID have halitosis. We addressed it after I talked to you girls on here and guess what? Years later, no problem. Mofongo, you're a cunt. Eat shit. ~anonnamus
So you plan it! If you don't want to be disappointed make sure you won't be:) V day is not a big thing for us, at all, though.
See, and this is where I’m not sure if it’s just me being impossible. I didn’t think I cared until now. Lol. And for NY, I friggin did plan it. I picked the restaurant, after discussions and agreement. I had reservations. And then, surprise! Nope…
If this was a one off issue it might be unreasonable, but it's part of a years long pattern of him not following through on showing up for you. It sounds like once again he just did exactly what he wanted without regard to how YOU feel. Sure, mussels vs sushi is not important in the grand scheme of things, but you're getting death by a thousand paper cuts.
Post by MixedBerryJam on Feb 14, 2024 19:39:29 GMT -5
I'm having kind of a bummer of a day. I'm widowed, of course, so there's that, but that's not really it. My h's birthday was a month ago, now this, and in a month it will be our anniversary, so every year I just barely hold on until then and I feel I can relax until Fathers Day which will also suck, tbh. But also I had some pretty extensive dental work done on tuesday and I'm still in a lot of pain from that (well, more pain than I expected to have) and that one side is so swollen all my wrinkles are gone, but I feel so bad I can't even enjoy my youthful single chipmunk cheek. Oh and the stitches are abrading my tongue. Today sucks, is what I'm saying.
Ok douche, go ahead and call it mud. My husband DID have halitosis. We addressed it after I talked to you girls on here and guess what? Years later, no problem. Mofongo, you're a cunt. Eat shit. ~anonnamus
Ok douche, go ahead and call it mud. My husband DID have halitosis. We addressed it after I talked to you girls on here and guess what? Years later, no problem. Mofongo, you're a cunt. Eat shit. ~anonnamus