I wouldn’t reach out. If the STD was only addressed to you and your DH then your DD isn’t invited. If you were all invited it would have been addressed to the “ssm family”
While this is the way it *should* be done, lots of people are clueless to this etiquette.
ssmjlm I would clarify if you are interested in attending the wedding.
I’m not, but DH is! 🤣
And MIL assured us she had talked to DH’s aunt who is paying that E is invited.
We would really just use it as an excuse to do NYC over winter break despite the crowds and cold. We can get direct flights from our home airport, which is rare.
I wouldn’t reach out. If the STD was only addressed to you and your DH then your DD isn’t invited. If you were all invited it would have been addressed to the “ssm family”
While this is the way it *should* be done, lots of people are clueless to this etiquette.
ssmjlm I would clarify if you are interested in attending the wedding.
I would reach out to double check especially because it is a STD which are typically less formal than the actual wedding invitation.
MIL told us E is invited cousins destination wedding.
Save the date just had the 2 of us.
It’s at the TWA hotel, 3 days after Christmas, so we need to make airline reservations.
MIL is now telling DH she doesn’t know and to contact bride. We kind of need to know, but this isn’t a close cousin.
Is DH an asshole for reaching out so we can figure out travel to NYC for a wedding right after Christmas?
I wouldn’t reach out. If the STD was only addressed to you and your DH then your DD isn’t invited. If you were all invited it would have been addressed to the “ssm family”
That is MY thought, but this side wouldn’t know etiquette if it smacked them in the face. Which is why DH is confused.
In my city we were only at 20% for the eclipse. It was cloudy so whatever we would've maybe seen was a moot point. Apparently a lot of parents were concerned their kids would get damage to their vision (per my principal and supervisor) so the clouds were helpful.
ssmjlm Not the AH to ask. He really should. It’s not an invitation (where you can expect it to be explicit with who is invited (normally)). I would not trust anyone but the bride or groom. Even if they are paying.